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- 1. Makaʻu mau i ka lilo ʻana o kāu ʻae
- 2. Ka pono ʻole a me ka wahaheʻe
- 3. Ma luna o ka loaʻa a me ka lili
- 4. Ka nele o kahi pilikino
- 5. Ke hoʻāʻo nei e loli nui
Hiki paha ʻoe ke poʻo ma ke kuʻekuʻe wāwae i ke aloha me kāu hoa akā, like paha kona manaʻo me ʻoe? ʻO ka manawa kūpono kāu hilinaʻi hilinaʻi hilinaʻi wale ʻia iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole aloha iā ʻoe. Ke aloha ʻoe, ʻike ʻole ʻoe i nā mea āpau āpau a mai noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kēia mau mea āpau. Akā pono ʻoe e ʻike inā hauʻoli maoli kāu pakanā i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me ʻoe a i ʻole pili ʻo ia ma muli o kona manaʻo he kuleana ia. Inā manaʻo wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hana iā ia e aloha a palekana, a laila hilinaʻi hilinaʻi wale kāu hoa iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole kēia he aloha! Eia kekahi mau ala i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo inā hilinaʻi aloha kekahi iā ʻoe.
1. Makaʻu mau i ka lilo ʻana o kāu ʻae
Inā manaʻo kekahi he mea nui ka hōʻoia o ka wahine ma mua o ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai, hōʻike wale ia i ko lākou hilinaʻi. Inā ke hoʻāʻo mau nei kahi mea āu e aloha ai e ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe no ka mea makaʻu lākou i ka lilo ʻana o kāu ʻae, lawe ia i ko lākou ʻike ponoʻī. A inā ʻoe e ʻike maka ʻole i kēia, e paipai hou ʻoe i kāu hoa e kaukaʻi iā ʻoe. A inā ʻoe e ʻike iā ia e hoʻāʻo nei e loli nui iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona maopopo ia.
2. Ka pono ʻole a me ka wahaheʻe
Hoʻokumu pū ka hilinaʻi i ka makaʻu. ʻAʻole ia ka wahaheʻe o kāu hoa iā ʻoe, akā makaʻu ʻo ia i kāu e noʻonoʻo ai a hoʻāʻo e uhi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ke hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke wehe i kekahi i kekahi, lilo i ka pilina i mea ʻawahia. Hoʻomaka ʻoe e kaomi i ka manaʻo a, ma ka huli, hoʻomaka ʻoe i kaomi iā ia ʻaʻole e ʻōlelo a hana paha i nā mea āu e ʻoluʻolu ʻole ai. Inā pili ka pilina i ke aloha, ʻaʻohe wahi no ka wahaheʻe a me ka hōʻino ʻole inā makemake ʻoe e kaʻana like i kekahi mea a me nā mea āpau.
3. Ma luna o ka loaʻa a me ka lili
ʻO ka lilo ʻana i kahi mea e pili ana i kāu mea aloha he nani paha, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana. Inā hopohopo mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pili pū ana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ka makaʻu iā ʻoe e ʻaihue ʻia ʻoe maiā ia aku, a laila hana kēia i ke kuhi hewa ʻole ma waena ou. I loko o kahi pilina aloha, ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai nā mea hoʻomanaʻo mau e aloha ai kāu hoa iā ʻoe. Hiki i ka lili ke lilo i mea ʻino i loko o kekahi pilina, e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ia i kāu hoa.
4. Ka nele o kahi pilikino
Ma mua o kou hoʻomaka ʻana i kou pili, ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kou ola iho. ʻAʻole pono kahi hui e hoʻolei i nā mea āu i hana ai ma mua. Akā inā ʻānō ia i kahi mea e kaomi ʻia ʻoe i ka hana ʻana i kahi mea a kāu hoa e makemake ai, hōʻike ia e hana wale ana ʻoe ia mea e noho i nā lokomaikaʻi maikaʻi a kāu hoa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi inā aia kekahi mau mea i kahi pilina aloha inā lākou e haʻalele kekahi i kekahi e hana i kā lākou mea ponoʻī. Pono nā kānaka āpau i kahi. Inā ʻole, hoʻokumu ʻia ka pilina ma kahi hemahema loa no ka nānā ʻana, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe.
5. Ke hoʻāʻo nei e loli nui
He kani nani ia e aloha i kekahi e like me kona ʻano. Akā hilinaʻi iaʻu, i ka pilina aloha, hiki nō ia. Inā manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nei kāu pakanā e hoʻololi i nā mea e pili ana iā ʻoe, a i ʻole e hoʻomau ʻo ia i ka namunamu e pili ana i kāu ʻano, he hōʻailona maopopo ia ʻaʻole aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe akā pili wale iā ʻoe me ka naʻau. E hoʻomanaʻo i ke kanaka ma mua o kou aloha ʻana i kāu hoa. ʻAʻole ʻae ka pilina kūpono iā ʻoe e hoʻokaʻaʻike iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he kanaka hoʻokahi.
E hele mai kēlā me kēia pilina mai kahi o ke aloha, ʻaʻole kahi o ka hopohopo a i ʻole ka pono. Pono ia e lawe i ka malu, ʻoluʻolu, a me ka hauʻoli. Akā inā e hoʻoulu ka makaʻu, lili, a hopohopo paha, ua hewa nui kekahi mea. Eia kekahi mau hōʻailona e nānā ai inā e aloha inā aloha maoli kahi iā ʻoe a i ʻole hilinaʻi hilinaʻi wale ʻia paha. Inā kuhikuhi kou aloha i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa e pili ana iā ia iho, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke ulu aʻe. ʻOiai ke ʻano hilinaʻi ke aloha, ʻaʻole pono ia e hōʻino ʻia i ka naʻau.Aia wale nō a manaʻo ʻia ua hōʻoia ʻia ka pilina a hiki i ke olakino maikaʻi.
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