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- Nā hōʻailona e ʻike inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe
- Hoʻokaʻaʻike 1.Eye
- 2. E nānā i kā lākou mau hoaaloha
- 3. Makemake lākou e ʻike hou iā ʻoe?
- 4. Makemake lākou i kou manaʻo?
- 5. Makemake lākou i nā mea like?
- 6. Hoʻohālike lākou iā ʻoe?
- 7. Makemake anei lākou e pāʻani i nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka me ʻoe?
- 8. Aia mau lākou iā ʻoe e pono ai?
Ke makemake ʻoe i kekahi a mālama nui ke kumu o kou puʻuwai iā lākou, makemake ʻoe e ʻike inā makemake kēlā "kekahi" iā ʻoe i ka hoʻihoʻi a i ʻole?
ʻO kahi nīnau e popo mau i kou manaʻo pono, 'Makemake anei ʻo ia iaʻu e like me kaʻu e hana nei?'
He paʻakikī loa e hoʻomaopopo i nā ʻano e pili ana i ka naʻau - nā ʻano e like me ke aloha. He paʻakikī loa ka psychology kanaka a ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia kanaka mai kekahi. Wahi a ke kumumanaʻo triangular o ke aloha i hāʻawi ʻia e Robert Stenberg, ʻekolu mau ʻāpana o ke aloha - ka pilina, ke kuko, a me ke kūpaʻa.
Ke kamaʻilio nei i ka pilina, pili ia i nā manaʻo o ka pili, ka hoʻopili ʻana, a me ka pili. I kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻo ka psychology kanaka, e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna, ua like ia me kahi pūnaewele hiki ʻole ke hemo ʻole. ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa i nā mea ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa nā ʻano psychological.
'Pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe?' - ʻo kēia paha kekahi o nā nīnau paʻakikī loa.
Nā hōʻailona e ʻike inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe
Ua hāpai nā psychologists i nā manaʻo he nui i hiki ke kūpono i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka pane i ka nīnau. Nui nā ʻōuli e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe. Hiki ke ʻokoʻa kēia mau hōʻailona i nā kāne a me nā wahine.
Manaʻo ʻia nā wahine he kāne lahilahi, ka mea maʻamau, hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo hoʻoweliweli koke. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, manaʻo ʻia nā kāne he introvert i kēia ʻano. ʻAʻole lākou e hōʻike maʻalahi i ko lākou mau manaʻo.
E pili ana i nā hōʻailona, nui a nui, a me ka nānā ʻana i kēia mau hōʻailona ma ka 'hiki i kekahi' ke hōʻoia he hoʻohana nui.
ʻO kahi laʻana, e like me nā psychologists, inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike inā makemake kahi kaikamahine iā ʻoe, e hoʻolohe i kāna makemake. Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hoʻokolohua inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e ʻai liʻiliʻi ʻo ia i ka wā e ʻai pū ana me ʻoe.
Hoʻololi nui nā ʻano ʻai a nā wahine i ka hiamoe ke makemake lākou i kekahi.
Ma waho o kēia mau mea, hiki ke nānā maʻalahi i nā ʻano ʻai. ʻAʻole pili kēia i nā kāne.
Nui aʻe nā hōʻailona e kūkākūkā ʻia ma lalo e kōkua iā ʻoe e offset i kou ola aloha -
Hoʻokaʻaʻike 1.Eye
Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hoʻokolohua inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe, hoʻāʻo lākou e launa pū me ʻoe.
Pili kēia i nā kāne. Ua ʻoluʻolu lākou e hoʻopili maka. ʻO nā wahine, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hilahila lākou i ka nānā ʻana i ka maka me kekahi mea a lākou e mahalo ai.
Inā hoʻonui ʻia ka lōʻihi o kēia pili kikoʻī, e ʻōlelo, 30-40 kekona a laila maopopo leʻa makemake lākou iā ʻoe.
2. E nānā i kā lākou mau hoaaloha
Inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe, e hoʻohenehene kā lākou mau hoaaloha ke pili ʻoe. Hāʻawi lākou iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano pohihihi.
3. Makemake lākou e ʻike hou iā ʻoe?
Inā makemake lākou e ʻike hou e pili ana iā ʻoe, makemake lākou e hoʻolilo manawa me ʻoe. Hiki iā lākou ke noi iā ʻoe e leʻaleʻa me ke kīʻaha kope me lākou.
E noho pū paha lākou me ʻoe, e hoʻolohe pono iā ʻoe no kahi wā lōʻihi me ka luhi ʻole. A ʻoiai, e nīnau aku i kāu makemake a me nā makemake ʻole.
4. Makemake lākou i kou manaʻo?
I ka Psychology, aia kekahi kumu i ʻike ʻia ʻo 'kumu like.' Hiki ke nānā i kēia loina ke hui ana mākou me nā hoaaloha hou.
Inā ʻae lākou i kou manaʻo, no laila makemake lākou e launa pū me ʻoe a kaʻana like i nā leʻaleʻa a me nā makemake like. I loko o kahi pilina pili, makemake lākou i kou wahi nāwaliwali hoʻi.
5. Makemake lākou i nā mea like?
ʻO kekahi e makemake iā ʻoe e loaʻa nā hoihoi like me ʻoe. E aloha lākou i nā mele like, nā pēke, nā mele, ke kala a me nā mea hou aku.
Inā ua ʻōlelo ʻoe i kāu wahi punahele iā lākou, makemake lākou e kipa pū me ʻoe i kēlā. Hōʻike kēia makemake lākou iā ʻoe.
6. Hoʻohālike lākou iā ʻoe?
Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hoʻokolohua noʻonoʻo inā makemake ʻoe i kahi mea āu e hoʻohālike ai iā lākou e noho hoʻokahi a i ʻole me ʻoe pū me lākou.
No laila, inā mimike kekahi iā ʻoe i ka wā e puni ana, makemake paha lākou iā ʻoe.
7. Makemake anei lākou e pāʻani i nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka me ʻoe?
Inā pāʻani kekahi i nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka haʻahaʻa, hōʻike ia i kahi hōʻailona e makemake lākou iā ʻoe.
8. Aia mau lākou iā ʻoe e pono ai?
Loaʻa ke loaʻa inā makemake nui ʻoe iā lākou hiki ke lilo i hōʻailona hou a makemake lākou iā ʻoe.
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā hōʻailona i kūkākūkā ʻia e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe i ka loaʻa ʻana inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole pili paha lākou āpau i nā mea āpau, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kekahi o kēia mau mea e hōʻike i ka ʻike o kekahi e pili ana iā ʻoe.