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Pono kēlā me kēia keiki e ʻike pehea e aloha ai, ʻo wai e aloha ai, a ʻo ka wā hea e aloha ai. 'Aloha' hiki i kēia huaʻōlelo leka ʻehā ke paʻakikī a paʻakikī hoʻi i kekahi e hopu. ʻAʻole ia he mea ʻokoʻa na mākou e makemake e aloha ʻia a ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻē aʻe na mākou e hāʻawi.
Manaʻo paha kekahi ʻaʻole e aʻo kā lākou keiki e pili ana i ke aloha a hiki i ko lākou wā ʻōpio, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻike nā keiki āpau i ke aloha. I kēia lā he nui loa nā hana lima e aʻo i nā keiki e pili ana i ke aloha.
Eia naʻe, ma mua ke aʻo nei i kāu poʻe keiki e pili ana i ke aloha a me ke aloha pono ʻoe e ʻike pono i ke aloha maoli. Me ka huaʻōlelo aloha ke hele a huikau i kekahi manawa.
He mau manaʻo ʻokoʻa ko kēlā me kēia kanaka e pili ana i ka wehewehe maoli o ke aloha. No laila, he aha ke aloha, he aha nā mau ala e aʻo aku ai i kāu poʻe keiki e pili ana i ke aloha me ka ʻōlelo ʻole ʻana i kahi huaʻōlelo, a he aha nā nā hana e aʻo ai i nā keiki e pili ana i ke aloha?
Ka wehewehe o ke aloha
ʻAʻohe pane maʻalahi e pane i kēia nīnau. Ua wehewehe ʻia ma kekahi mau ʻano akā ʻo ka wehewehe hoʻokahi e wehewehe ana i ka mea ʻoi loa e ʻōlelo ana "ʻO ke aloha kahi ʻano paʻakikī o nā manaʻo, nā ʻano, a me nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā manaʻo ikaika o ke aloha, pale, hoʻomehana, a me ka mahalo i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe."
Manaʻo kekahi ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i ka mea āu e aloha ai, a ʻo kekahi poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo hiki iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole kuko ke aloha. Ke aloha ʻoe i kekahi, aloha ʻoe iā lākou ʻaʻole wale no nā mea āpau akā no nā mea āpau ʻole. ʻAe ʻoe e ʻae i kā lākou kīnā.
Nui kou makemake e hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou a kūkulu i kahi paʻa e hiki ʻole ke haki. Nui a hewahewa ke ʻano o ke aloha. Aia ka lo kēlā kāne a me ka wahine kaʻana like a aia ke aloha a ke keiki e kaʻana like ai me ko lākou mau mākua a me nā mea aloha ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka hope ke ʻano o aloha ʻoe e aʻo aku nei i kāu keiki. E aʻo iā lākou ʻaʻole wale pehea e aloha ai akā ʻo ka mea e aloha ai a ʻo ka manawa kūpono ia.
1. Pehea e aloha ai
E aʻo i kāu keiki pehea e aloha ai ma ke kau ʻana i kahi laʻana maikaʻi. Ma ke ʻano he makua, pono i kāu keiki e ʻike iā ʻolua e hōʻike ana i ke aloha i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka mahalo ʻana kekahi i kekahi, ka paʻa ʻana i nā lima, ka noho pū ʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻohana nā ala āpau e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kēia aloha.
Mai makaʻu wale ʻoe e ʻike i kāu keiki i kou aloha maoli i kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole kēia wale nō ke maikaʻi i kāu keiki, akā hiki ke mālama i ka ikaika o kāu male. Kōkua mau ia e ʻike aia nō i laila kou aloha kekahi i kekahi a pono ʻoe e hana ikaika i nā mea e mālama ʻole ai i kēlā lapalapa ahi.
Lohe ke keiki i kona mau mākua e hāʻawi aku nei i kekahi i nā mahalo, e hoʻomaikaʻi aku kekahi i kekahi ma kahi hana i hana maikaʻi ʻia, a ʻoiai e hana ana i nā mea maikaʻi no kekahi e like me ka wehe ʻana i ka puka.
Hilinaʻi iaʻu ke ʻōlelo wau e pōmaikaʻi nui kāu keiki mai nā laʻana āu i hōʻike ai. Pono lākou i kēia ʻano alakaʻi no ka mea ke ola nei mākou i kahi honua piha i ka poʻe manaʻo aloha ʻaʻole maoli ʻike i ke aloha.
2. ʻO wai e aloha
E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe aʻo i kāu keiki i ka mea aloha akā ʻaʻole hiki ke mamao loa kēia mai ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole kūpono nā mea āpau a i ʻole nā mea āpau i ke aloha o kāu keiki a na ʻoe ia e kōkua iā lākou e mahalo i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki i ke aloha ke manaʻo he kaohi ʻole akā ʻaʻole.
ʻO ke ala like āu e aʻo ai iā lākou e inaina i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e like me ke ʻano āu e aʻo ai iā lākou e aloha i nā mea maikaʻi a me nā poʻe i ko lākou ola. ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki i ke ahi ke weliweli a maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi. Ua aʻo paha ʻoe iā lākou i kēia mai ka lā mua.
ʻIke paha lākou ʻaʻole e pāʻani me ke ahi a i ʻole e waiho i ka noʻonoʻo i loko o ko lākou manaʻo. Maikaʻi i ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki e koho i ka mea a lākou e aloha ai. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e aloha lākou i kahi keiki ʻaihue a i ʻole kekahi e hana ʻino iā lākou.
ʻAʻole loa ʻoe e aʻo i kāu keiki e inaina aku i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe ma kahi o ke kuhi. ʻO ka mea e ʻike ai kāu keiki pehea e hoʻihoʻi ai i ke aloha i ka poʻe aloha iā lākou.
3. Āhea e aloha ai
He mea nui ke aloha akā ʻaʻole kūpono paha no kēlā me kēia kūlana. Mai ka lā hānau lākou, kou E aʻo ʻia ke keiki pehea e aloha ai ko lākou mau mākua, kaikaina, a me nā kūpuna. Ke ʻano o ko lākou aloha no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e loli ana i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule.
E aʻo aku ʻoe i kāu keiki i ka nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ke aloha a wehewehe iā lākou ke kūpono kēlā me kēia. I ko lākou ulu ʻana a makua e aʻo aku ʻoe i kāu keiki e pili ana i ke aloha aloha e loaʻa iā lākou no kā lākou hoa ke hoʻoholo lākou ua mākaukau lākou no ka male.
Hiki ke loli ke aloha a he mea kēia e aʻo ʻia ai lākou. E ʻike kāu keiki aia kekahi mau ʻano o ke aloha i kūpono i nā kūlana like ʻole a i nā manawa like ʻole.
4. Lawe hope loa
E aʻo i kāu keiki e akahele i ka mea a lākou e aloha ai no ka mea ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā poʻe iā lākou. ʻO ke aloha kahi mea e pono ai kēlā me kēia, a pono i kēlā me kēia mea e ʻike pehea e hāʻawi ai. Mahalo kāu keiki iā ʻoe no ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou i kekahi o nā huaʻōlelo nui ʻehā a loaʻa.