Anter
- Mai hōʻoki i ka moeʻuhane pū
- Hilinaʻi nui i kāu wahine
- Hoʻolilo pū hoʻokahi-ma-hoʻokahi manawa pū
- E wehe a kaʻana
- Ke laina lalo
Ahh, male male. He hale kupaianaha ia me nā ʻano nui. ʻO kahi laʻana, maikaʻi loa ka pili moekolohe ma ka male. Akā like ia me ka hau i ka popo. ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e hoʻomoʻa i ka pōpō. Aʻo kēlā keke ka pilina pili i ka naʻau.
He aha ka pilina pilina? Pili ana. I ka pōkole, ʻo ʻoe nā hoaaloha mua, aloha ʻelua.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he mau hoaaloha me kāu wahine, hiki i ka male ʻana o kāu male. Hiki i nā ʻaoʻao kino o ka pilina ke lawe iā ʻoe a mamao loa.
Akā ma hope o ka mālamalama o nā kukui, paʻakikī nā mea, a pono ʻolua e kīkiʻi i lalo a hele pū i ke ola, he aha ka mea e kōkua nui ai iā ʻoe? ʻO kou aloha.
ʻAʻole hiki ke haʻi ʻia ka mea nui o ke kuleana o ka noho aloha ʻana ma ka male ʻana. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hoaaloha. ʻ Youlelo aku ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi i nā mea āpau; ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kali e kamaʻilio pū kekahi. Mahalo ʻoe i nā mea liʻiliʻi e pili ana kekahi i kekahi. Paipai ʻoe a hāpai i kekahi i kekahi. He hoa aloha maikaʻi loa kēlā!
Akā ʻaʻole ia he kani e like me he male kupaianaha paha ia?
Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomohala i kēlā ʻano aloha ma kāu male ponoʻī?
Eia kekahi mau ala e hoʻomohala i ka launa aloha o kāu pilina a kōkua iā ia e hoʻokani i kahi kuleana nui i kou ola male.
Mai hōʻoki i ka moeʻuhane pū
I kou hui pū ʻana me kāu kāne, ua like pū paha ʻolua i kou mau manaʻolana a me nā moemoeā o ka wā e hiki mai ana. I ka hopena, ua hui ʻia kēlā mau manaʻolana a me nā moeʻuhane i kou male ʻana. Eia naʻe, i nā manawa he nui, ke loaʻa ʻoe i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā o kahi ʻohana a me kahi ʻoihana, kū ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kāu mau manaʻolana a me nā moeʻuhane.
Ma muli paha o ke koi nui o ke ola, a i ʻole manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke moeʻuhane i kēia manawa. A i ʻole ʻike paha ʻoe i ʻike kāu wahine i kāu mau moeʻuhane, no laila he aha ka mea i koe e kamaʻilio ai? Moeʻuhane mau nā hoa aloha. No laila e hāpai i kēlā me kāu wahine, ʻoiai inā lōʻihi.
E lawe mai i ka wā e ʻai ana ʻoe i ka ʻaina awakea, e kalaiwa ana ma kahi ʻē, a i ʻole e noho wale ana i kahi moena. "He aha kou moeʻuhane?" aiʻole "Ma hea ʻoe e ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho a me ko mākou ʻohana i 5 mau makahiki?" a i ʻole "He aha nā mea nui ʻekolu ma kāu papa bākeke?" E mālama i kēia mau mea ma ke ʻano he kumuhana kūkā pinepine a e hoʻomau ʻoe i ka ulu ʻana o kēlā aloha.
Hilinaʻi nui i kāu wahine
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi e ulu nei.
Ua kānalua paha ʻoe hiki iā ia ke hana i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai? A i ʻole ʻaʻole ʻoe hilinaʻi iā lākou e hele mai nāu?
Hilinaʻi nā hoa aloha kekahi i kekahi a hāʻawi i kekahi i ka pono o ke kānalua. Ke ʻōlelo lākou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa lākou no ka marathon, manaʻo ʻē aʻe kekahi e hilinaʻi a kākoʻo, ʻaʻole kuhikuhi i ka paʻakikī a kānalua i ko lākou ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Hāpai, kākoʻo, a hilinaʻi hoʻi nā hoaaloha. ʻO ia ka hana a nā hoaaloha, ʻeā? ʻĀ, i ka manawa hea i hana ai i kēlā mea no kāu wahine?
Akamai kou hoa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi iā lākou e noʻonoʻo i nā mea a loaʻa i nā mea āpau loa ka puʻuwai. Inā makemake lākou e hana i kekahi mea, paulele iā lākou. E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mahalo a me ke aloha.
Mai kīkē i ka makani mai kā lākou pea me ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i kahi “hōʻoia maoli.” Ma muli o ka manawa kūpono, ua noʻonoʻo mua lākou i nā hemahema. E haʻalele i ka kānalua i kāu wahine. Ma kahi o, hilinaʻi a kākoʻo ikaika iā lākou.
Hoʻolilo pū hoʻokahi-ma-hoʻokahi manawa pū
ʻO kahi mea a nā hoaaloha e hana mau ai, ʻike i nā ala e hui pū ai me ka maʻamau. Palapala pinepine lākou a kau aku ma ka liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia pule. Hana pū lākou i nā mea maʻamau, e like me ka hale kūʻai a i ʻole hele i nā hanana. Akā hana pū lākou i nā mea kūikawā i nā hopena pule, e like me ka hele i kahi pāʻina, kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, ʻaina awakea, a i ʻole kekahi mea leʻaleʻa ʻē aʻe.
Hana like me kāu wahine i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kēlā hoʻopaʻa aloha. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa paʻa inā ʻoe e noho wale nei i ka wahi like. Pono ʻoe e hele i waho a hana pū i kahi hana. E hana i kahi kūpaʻa e hana ai i kēlā me kēia pule-ʻo ka pō ka lā pono ʻole ke kūkā ʻole ʻia i ka male.
E ʻike koke ʻoe i kāu mohala ʻana e pua i nā ala ma kahi o ka lōʻihi. Kau i kāu kalena a pili iā ia.
E wehe a kaʻana
I ka manawa hea kāu manawa e kamaʻilio maoli ai me ka puʻuwai me kāu wahine?
Ma hea ʻoe e kaʻanalike aku ai i kou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo e pili ana i kekahi mea?
Hana nā hoa aloha i kēlā. ʻAno maʻalahi lākou i kekahi i kekahi, e ʻōlelo ana i nā mea a lākou e manaʻo ai, e hoʻolohe nei i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, a kaʻana like ʻana i ka nui. Hana pinepine lākou a hana lākou me ke aloha. No ka mea i loko o kēlā mau manawa hiki i nā kānaka ʻelua ke manaʻo maoli i ka hōʻoia, ka lohe ʻana, a me ka hoʻopili pū ʻana.
ʻO ia ke kumu maoli o ka pili aloha a me ka pilina ma ka male ʻana - ʻaʻole wale i ʻelua hapa o ka mea holoʻokoʻa akā i hoʻokahi pū pū kekahi. Hiki i ke aloha aloha i ka male ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i kēlā.
Ke laina lalo
ʻO ka launa aloha kekahi kumu o ka male olakino. Inā ʻoe e nānā i hope i ka manawa i pili mua ai ʻolua a me kāu wahine, e hoʻomanaʻo paha ʻoe ua hoʻopaʻa like ʻolua i mau hoaaloha, ma mua o kou aloha aloha ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i kahi aloha e ulu ana ma o ka male ʻana he ala maikaʻi a koʻikoʻi ia e mālama ai i ka pilina me ka hauʻoli.