Anter
- Paipai ʻia - Mālama i kaʻu papa male
- Pehea e hana ai i kahi male male
- 1. Mahalo
- 2. Hāʻawi i kāu pilina
- 3. ʻO ka hoʻi hope ʻana o nā kāne
- 4. Hoʻololi i nā makemake a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
- 5. E aʻo e hoʻopilikia
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu e piʻi ai ka nui o ka haʻalele no ka manaʻo o nā kāne ʻaʻole lākou he match maikaʻi loa. Holo mālie ka manawa a me nā manawa iā lākou a, i ka hopena, hāʻule lākou i ke aloha a haʻalele i kekahi i kekahi.
ʻO kekahi kumumanaʻo maʻamau i hiki ke haki ʻia i ka hapanui o nā ʻāina ʻo ka pili ʻana o nā kāne ma ka pae hope o kā lākou pili no ka pono o kā lākou keiki, a i ka wā i oʻo a lawa kā lākou keiki a haʻalele i ka hale, hoʻokaʻawale lākou ma mua o ka piʻi ʻana i kēlā pae a hoʻoulu hou i ko lākou pilina.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe e ʻehaʻeha ana ʻoe i ka pili hopena make, a ʻaʻohe huna ahi i koe i loko o kāu male, pono paha ʻoe e aʻo hou e pili ana pehea e hoʻolilo ai i ka male i hope.
ʻO ka hoʻoulu hou ʻana i kāu male e like me ka hoʻohou ʻana i kāu hoʻohiki, makemake ʻolua e ʻike i ke kumu e noho hou ai kekahi me kekahi, a maopopo he pono ʻolua no kekahi.
Paipai ʻia - Mālama i kaʻu papa male
Pehea e hana ai i kahi male male
Pehea e holo ai ka male? He aha ka mea e maikaʻi ai ka male male ʻaʻole wale ia e ʻike i ka distastes a me ka makemake a me ka mahalo ʻana o kekahi i kekahi, akā e hoʻolilo pū ana hoʻi i ka manawa ma kahi e aʻo ai a ulu aʻe ma ke ʻano he kāne, a kūkulu i kēlā ʻano hāmama a me ka hilinaʻi e kamaʻilio manuahi i kā ʻolua manaʻo me kekahi.
1. Mahalo
ʻ telllelo ʻoe i kāu wahine i laki ʻoe e loaʻa iā ia i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā? Inā ʻaʻole, hoʻomaka e hana i kēlā manawa. Ua hele mai ʻoe i kahi lōʻihi i kāu male ʻana a lilo i mau makahiki he nui i ka hui pū ʻana; pono ʻoe e mahalo i ke Akua no ka hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe me kāu kanaka kūikawā nāna i lawe mai iā ʻoe i nā hauʻoli he nui i kou ola.
Ke hāʻawi aku ʻoe i kou mahalo i kāu hoa, e hoʻomaikaʻi a mahalo hoʻi ʻoe, a e manaʻo ana kāu wahine me ka mea kūikawā a mahalo ʻia no kāna mau hana i loko o ka pilina, a ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻeuʻeu iā ia e hāʻawi i nā mea hou aku i ka male hauʻoli.
2. Hāʻawi i kāu pilina
E helu i nā mea āu e makemake ai i kahi pilina, a hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ka mea e nele ana i kāu. ʻO ka hilinaʻi, ka ʻoluʻolu, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, a me ka kamaʻilio ʻana i waena o kekahi mau mea nui i ka mea e kūleʻa ai ka male.
Kuhi ʻia ka mea e pono ai kāu male ua like ia me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻāpana nalo o kahi puzzle. ʻIke ʻoe aia kekahi mea e nalowale ana, a hiki a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e loiloi i ke kūlana o kāu male a nānā i nā mea e pono ai kāu pilina, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea e holo pono ai ka male.
Hōʻoia i nā hoʻohiki i hana ʻia ma kāu lā male, a hana me ka hoʻoholo e hoʻokō iā lākou.
3. ʻO ka hoʻi hope ʻana o nā kāne
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua hoʻolōʻihi ʻoe i ka manawa no ka mea ma waho a poina i ke ʻano o ka lā, hiki ke koho ʻia kēia koho na ʻoe.
E hoʻomaha, a hauʻoli i kahi manawa maikaʻi me kāu wahine. Hiki iā ia ke like me ke aʻo hou ʻana e pili ana i ke kanaka, a kahaha paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho me ka nui o ka hopu a me ka mea e aʻo ai mai kekahi i kekahi.
Hoʻokolohua me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ke ala hou ʻana kēlā hunaahi a ʻike i nā mea e kūpono loa iā ʻolua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i nā pō lā a i ʻole kahi wā hoʻomaha mini, e hoʻomanaʻo wale iā ʻoe iho i ka ʻoihana maikaʻi o kāu wahine.
4. Hoʻololi i nā makemake a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
Ke ulu nei nā pilina, e loli pū nō hoʻi kou mau makemake. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe makemake i nā mea like āu i makemake ai i nā wā mua o kāu male ʻana.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, aia kekahi mau mea i ka pilina ʻaʻole paʻa mau loa. Hiki iā ia ke maʻalahi e like me ke kakahiaka kakahiaka mai kāu wahine āu e hoʻomana ai a makemake e hoʻi mai, a i ʻole kekahi mea e like me nā kamaʻilio uluna i kēlā me kēia pō āu e makemake nui ai.
Ma kēlā a me kēia ala, maikaʻi i kēlā ʻano a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e kamaʻilio i kēlā mau manaʻo me kāu hoa.
5. E aʻo e hoʻopilikia
ʻO kahi kuhi hewa nui a kekahi mau kāne e hana nei e kia mau ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kāu hana male e pili ana i nā mōhai a me nā kuʻikahi ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
ʻO nā kuʻikahi kahi mea maʻamau i kēlā me kēia male, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā ka hana ʻana i ka male koi i ka noʻonoʻo kūpono a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ma nā wēlau o ka pae, a pono nā hoa ʻelua e mahalo i nā makemake o kekahi.
He aha ka mea e hauʻoli ai ka male ʻana i ke ʻano o ka hoʻomaopopo, ke ahonui, ke akahai a me ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ma waena o nā hoa ʻelua.
Ke hana nā kānaka ʻelua i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā lākou iho no ka mea ʻē aʻe me ko lākou naʻau a me ko lākou ʻuhane āpau, e ʻike pū lākou iā lākou iho i kahi pae olakino a hauʻoli a pili hou aku.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua nalowale ʻoe i kāu male, pono ʻoe e hoʻi a ʻike i nā mea e hauʻoli ai ʻolua. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ia hōʻoia hou i kāu male, akā ke hoʻāʻo ʻoe e lilo i mea ʻoi aku i waho o ke kai o ka hemo, e ʻike nō ʻoe i kou ala i kahi male leʻaleʻa a maikaʻi.