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- ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona o ke kamaʻilio keiki makua i ka ulu ʻana o nā keiki
- 1. E hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa maʻamau e kamaʻilio
- 2. E hoʻolilo i ka manawa pāʻina i mea nui
- 3. E hana i kahi kūikawā
- 4. Hoʻohui i nā kamaʻilio i nā hana maʻamau
- 5. Mālama i nā pilina hilinaʻi
- 6. E hoʻolohe pono
- 7. E nīnau i nā nīnau kikoʻī
- 8. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea ma waho o ka home
- 9. E hoʻonoho i kahi laʻana āu e makemake ai i kāu keiki e ukali iā ia
Ke ʻōpio nā keiki, makemake lākou e kaʻana like i nā mea āpau a lākou e ʻike ai a i ʻike ai paha me ko lākou mau mākua.
E kamaʻilio paha nā keiki e pili ana i kahi ʻenuhe a lākou i ʻike ai i loko o ka māla a i kahi mea leʻaleʻa Lego paha a lākou i kūkulu ai, a ʻo kā lākou poʻe punahele e kaʻana like i nā hauʻoli āpau me ka makuahine a me nā makuakāne.
ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona o ke kamaʻilio keiki makua i ka ulu ʻana o nā keiki
Ke ulu nei nā keiki, hoʻonui kā lākou ʻike e pili ana i ko lākou honua, a me ko lākou hiki ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo i nā huaʻōlelo.
Ua lilo lākou i mau mea noʻonoʻo loi maikaʻi aʻe a nīnau lākou i nā mea hou aʻe a hoʻonui i kā lākou mau manaʻo ponoʻī e pili ana i nā mea.
Ironically, ke loaʻa iā lākou ka ʻike hou aʻe a mākau kamaʻilio, liʻiliʻi lākou e kaʻana like i nā mea āpau me nā mākua.
ʻO kēlā hapa no ka mea hoʻonui ākea ko lākou honua ma mua o ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne wale nō e hoʻopili i nā hoa aloha, kumu, a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a lākou e launa pū ai, a no ka maikaʻi o kā lākou pilina me ko lākou mau mākua, ke ulu nei a me ka hoʻokūkū ʻana i ko lākou nohona kaiaulu no kā lākou nānā.
ʻO kēia kūlohelohe kūlohelohe mai ka home ke ulu nā keiki ʻo ia kekahi o nā kumu nui he mea nui i nā mākua e hoʻokumu i nā ʻano kamaʻilio maikaʻi me kā lākou mau keiki a kōkua i ka kamaʻilio a nā keiki makua.
Pehea e launa pū ai me nā keiki, inā maopopo i nā keiki ke kaʻana like nei ka manawa ʻaina, no ka laʻana, e lilo ia i ʻano lua na lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou lā a kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea ma ka papa ʻaina.
Ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana me nā keiki
ʻO ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kāu keiki i ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe i nā manawa āpau e hoʻonui ai i ka manawa e mālama lākou iā ʻoe i ka loop, ʻoiai lākou e hoʻokokoke aku nei i ka ʻōpio, a e maʻalahi ia no lākou e hele mai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi pilikia a makemake paha lākou i kāu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i kekahi mea.
Eia kekahi mau ala maikaʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i nā kamaʻilio i wahi maʻamau o kāu hana maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā.
Ke kamaʻilio ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki 101
1. E hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa maʻamau e kamaʻilio
Inā paha he manawa ʻaina awakea, wā moe a i ʻole ʻauʻau. hoʻokumu i kahi manawa i kēlā me kēia lā ʻo ia kou manawa mālie e hoʻohui a hopu me ka ʻole o nā kahamaha a me nā mea hoʻohuli.
Eia ke ana ma ke kamaʻilio keiki makua.
He mea ʻole ka manawa o ka lā- he aha ka mea nui e ʻike ai kāu keiki ʻo kou manawa pilikino pū ia, ke hiki iā ʻoe a me ke keiki ke hoʻomaha a kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea āpau i kou manaʻo.
Hana i kēia me kēlā me kēia keiki, i loaʻa i kēlā me kēia keiki kāna manawa kūʻokoʻa me ʻoe me ka ʻole e kaʻana like me kahi kaikaina.
2. E hoʻolilo i ka manawa pāʻina i mea nui
He mea nui ʻoe e hana nei, e hoʻāʻo e ʻai pū i ka ʻaina awakea ma ka liʻiliʻi he mau manawa i ka pule. Ua hōʻike ʻia nā noiʻi ʻana e pili pū ana ka ʻai pū ʻana i nā pāʻina i nā pono he nui no nā keiki. me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka hana kula, hoʻemi i ka makaʻu o ka momona, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka noʻonoʻo.
Inā hiki ʻole ka ʻaina ahiahi a ka ʻohana a ʻaʻohe ou manawa kuke, hoʻāʻo e ʻimi i nā hopena ʻē aʻe, e like me ka pāʻina kakahiaka ʻana a i ʻole ka lawe ʻia ʻana mai kahi hale ʻaina.
ʻO ke kī no ke kamaʻilio keiki makua kūleʻa e hoʻopili aku ma ke ʻano he ʻohana ma ka manawa mau, e hoʻomau i ka ikaika o kou pilina, a hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka palekana o ka ʻike ʻana aia ʻoe ma laila ke makemake lākou iā ʻoe i nā manawa maʻamau a wānana hoʻi.
3. E hana i kahi kūikawā
E koho i kekahi mau wahi kūikawā a i ʻole kou home e like me kou wahi e noho pū a mālie, noho mālie a kamaʻilio pū.
Hiki iā ia he mau noho ʻelua i kou pā hale, kou sofa, a i ʻūlū ʻia paha ma luna o kahi moe o kāu keiki.
ʻO kēlā me kēia wahi, e hoʻolilo iā ia i wahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hele mau i ka wā e pono ai ʻoe e hash i kahi pilikia a i ʻole ke kumu hoʻopā wale e pili ana i kou lā.
4. Hoʻohui i nā kamaʻilio i nā hana maʻamau
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻoluʻolu nā keiki e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea ʻoiai lākou e hana nei i kahi hana ʻē aʻe, e like me ke kī ʻana i nā hoops ma ka pā o ka hale, ke kūʻai ʻana no nā mea kūʻai mai, a me ka hana pū ʻana i kahi hana lima o nā keiki.
Nā hana maʻamau e like me ke hele pū nei i ke kahua pāʻani a hoʻonohonoho paha i ka papa ʻaina no ka ʻaina awakea a i ʻole ke kalaiwa ʻana i ke kula i ke kakahiaka hiki i nā manawa kūpono āpau ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea e hana nei i kou ola.
5. Mālama i nā pilina hilinaʻi
No ke kamaʻilio keiki makua maikaʻi, he mea nui e hōʻike i kāu keiki hiki iā lākou ke hele mai iā ʻoe i nā manawa a pau e pono ai lākou e kamaʻilio.
Ke makemake kāu keiki e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i kekahi mea, e pane me ka maikaʻi.
Inā ʻoe i waenakonu o kekahi mea, e like me ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i kahi leka uila hana nui a hana ʻana i ka ʻaina awakea, e noi i kāu keiki inā he mea hiki ke kali a hiki i kou pau ʻana. He aha kāu hana?
A laila e nānā pono a hāʻawi iā lākou i kou nānā piha i ka wā hiki.
6. E hoʻolohe pono
Ma ke ʻano he hale kūkulu e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana o ke keiki makua, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoneʻe i nā mea hoʻonāukiuki ke kamaʻilio kāu keiki iā ʻoe, inā paha e pili ana i kahi mea nui a lākou e makemake ai e kaʻana.
E hoʻopau i ke kīwī, e hoʻokau i kāu kelepona paʻalima, a e nānā pono i kāu keiki.
Hōʻike kahi noiʻi hou e pili ana i nā keiki he nui i kēia mau lā e like me ka hoʻohihi o ko lākou mau mākua e kā lākou kelepona paʻalima a me nā hāmeʻa ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole nānā nui iā lākou.
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7. E nīnau i nā nīnau kikoʻī
ʻO nā nīnau e like me "Pehea kou lā" e loaʻa ai nā pane e like me "Maikaʻi."
E hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau nīnau i mea e hoʻomaka ai ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
E nīnau i nā mea e like me,He aha nā mea hoihoi loa a kāu kumu i ʻōlelo ai i kēia lā?”A i ʻole“Ua hana lapuwale paha kāu mau hoaaloha? ” a i ʻole “He aha ka mea leʻaleʻa loa āu i hana ai i ka wā hoʻomaha a no ke aha ʻoe i makemake nui ai ia?”
8. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea ma waho o ka home
Hoʻokahi alanui ālai i ke kamaʻilio kamaliʻi makua ʻo ia ka pilikia paha nā keiki inā manaʻo lākou e kaʻana like lākou i kekahi mea e pili ana iā lākou iho.
Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea ʻē aʻe a ma waho hoʻi o ka honua o kāu keiki, e like me nā mea e hana nei me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole nā mea e hana nei i ka nūhou, e hōʻike ana kāu keiki i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me ke kaʻina, e mahele like i kekahi mea e pili ana iā lākou iho.
9. E hoʻonoho i kahi laʻana āu e makemake ai i kāu keiki e ukali iā ia
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea āu e hoihoi ai a nīnau i kāu keiki no ko lākou manaʻo.
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi mea e pili ana iā ʻoe iho kekahi o nā ala he nui i hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kāu keiki i kou aloha iā lākou i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e hilinaʻi i nā keiki a noi iā lākou no nā ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i nā mea koʻikoʻi.
Akā ma muli o ke aʻo ʻana o nā keiki pehea e kamaʻilio nui ai ma ka nānā ʻana pehea e pili ai ko lākou mau mākua i ka poʻe a puni lākou, eʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻonoho i kahi laʻana o ka wehe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻOiai ʻōpio kāu keiki, e hana pono i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka kamaʻilio keiki makua.
E ʻike kāu keiki iā ʻoe e hana i nā hakakā me kāu hoa, a me nā mākua ʻē aʻe i kahi ʻano aloha a me ke kūkulu, a e aloha a kākoʻo inā hele mai lākou iā ʻoe me kahi pilikia.
Ma waho o kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, pehea e kamaʻilio ai nā mākua me nā keiki, he mea kōkua ke nānā aku i kēia mau hana kūkulu pilina makua. E hoʻomākaukau i kēia manawa e hoʻoponopono a hoʻoikaika paha i ka kamaʻilio ʻana o nā keiki makua, e hoʻomaka ana i kēia lā. Pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe!