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- E kūpono a noʻonoʻo ma ʻō aku o ka manawa a ma aneʻi
- Hoʻonohonoho kahi wahi maluhia i kahi hānai ola
- Aia nā hopena psychological koʻikoʻi
- ʻAʻole kumu o ka hemo ʻana no ka makua maikaʻi ʻole
- Nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole o ka hemo male ma nā keiki
- I kou wā kamaliʻi, pehea ʻoe e hana ai me nā mākua hakakā?
- ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua hemo
Ke hele a huhū kā lākou pilina, nui nā kāne male me nā keiki e noʻonoʻo inā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hemo a noho pū paha no nā keiki.
ʻOiai ke ʻano o ka hopena ma ke ʻano he hopena maikaʻi loa, ʻo ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki mai nā mākua hemo i kahi hakakā a me ka hauʻoli ʻole e like me ka hōʻino ʻana i ka hemo a ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi.
Nā hopena wā lōʻihi o nā mākua e hakakā ana, e hoʻokomo i ka piʻi ʻana o ka huhū a me ka inaina i nā keiki.
Ke hōʻike nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ana me ka ʻole, hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka ulu ʻana o ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa a me ka hopohopo i waena o nā keiki. ʻO nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole o nā mākua huhū i nā keiki e pili pū me nā ʻano suicidal a me ke kaumaha.
ʻO nā hopena a me nā hopena o nā mākua ʻona he nui a ʻano like ʻole e like me ke kūlana, no laila e noʻonoʻo ʻelua ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana.
E kūpono a noʻonoʻo ma ʻō aku o ka manawa a ma aneʻi
Hōʻike nā hanana ʻelua i nā hopena hoʻokaumaha maikaʻi i nā keiki. He ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hānai ʻia nā keiki e kahi makua hoʻokahi i kahi kūlana maikaʻi ʻole ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Mai ka hoʻomāinoino ʻia ma ke kula no ka mea "ʻaʻohe makuakāne a makuwahine paha," a i ʻole "e hakakā ana ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne" i ko lākou ulu ʻana i kekahi manawa paʻakikī i ka wā makua e hoʻohuli ʻia e ka loaʻa ʻole o nā mākua ʻelua, hiki i ka hemo ʻana ke haki i kahi kanaka!
Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka hiʻohiʻona koʻikoʻi ka ʻano o nā hopena psychological o ka male male ma luna o nā keiki a i ʻole kahi kaulike kaulike ʻole ʻia i ka holo lōʻihi no nā keiki a nā mākua hemo.
Hoʻonohonoho kahi wahi maluhia i kahi hānai ola
Kūpono nā kūlana kikoʻī i nā pane ʻokoʻa.
ʻO kahi laʻana, aia kekahi mau hanana i nānā ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia i ka hana kūpono i ke keiki a hōʻole i ka lawe ʻana i kā lākou pilikia pilikino i ke ʻano o ka hānai ʻia ʻana o ke keiki.
ʻOiai inā he mea paʻakikī ia e hānai i kahi keiki iā ʻoe iho, ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina tactful me kāu ex a me ka ʻae ʻana i ke keiki e launa pū me kēia makua ʻē aʻe a hoʻomohala i kahi pilina kūlohelohe me lākou e hiki ai i kahi evolution holoʻokoʻa.
ʻAʻole maopopo paha i ke keiki i ke kumu o ka noho pū ʻole o kā lākou mau mākua hemo, akā ʻaʻole ia he kumu e hoʻopili ai i ke keiki i nā pilikia pilikino ma waena o ʻolua.
ʻAʻole kāu keikikāne a kaikamahine paha kāu hoaaloha / makua, iā ʻoe e hoʻopiʻi ai i nā pilikia pili a ʻaʻole nō hoʻi kou psychotherapist!
ʻAʻole hoʻi he keiki ke kumu o ka pau ʻana o ka pili i ka hana!
I ka hopena, ʻaʻole kaumaha ke keiki a nā mākua hemo me kēia mau hiʻohiʻona a pono e waiho i kahi pilina aloha me nā mākua ʻelua!
Aia nā hopena psychological koʻikoʻi
ʻO kekahi o kēia ka hoʻomohala pilikino, pili i ke ʻano o ka pili ʻana o nā mākua hemo me ka keiki wale nō kekahi.
ʻO ia ke kumu nui e mālama nui ai ke ala āu e mālama ai i kāu hoa.
I ko lākou hānai ʻia ʻana, ʻike maʻalahi ʻia e nā keiki i nā lawena a me nā hana noʻonoʻo i mālama ʻia i ko lākou mau mākua.
Kau kaumaha kāu mau huaʻōlelo a me kāu mau hana ʻaʻole wale i ke kanaka āu e launa pū ai akā ʻo kāu keiki hoʻi, ʻaʻohe ona mākua e hoʻokaʻawale i waena o nā manaʻo maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha e kūpono ai lākou.
Ma waho aʻe, he manawa maʻalahi kēia e hana maʻalahi ʻia ai nā mea mua no kahi mea hoʻomohala, a hiki i kēia mau mea mua ke hana i nā ʻano hana a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole i makemake ʻole ʻia.
Ke hiki i ke kanaka makua, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā hana noʻonoʻo hewa a i ʻole ke hoʻokele i nā hopena hoʻonui.
No laila, no ke aha e pale ʻole ai i ka hoʻomohala ʻana iā lākou āpau?
ʻO kāu pane kolohe i kāu wahine a i ʻole hakakā ʻana i mua o nā keiki hiki ke lilo i ka hopena kolohe a kāu keiki i ka wā like i kuhi hewa ʻia, ma ka liʻiliʻi.
Inā hakakā mau ʻoe me kāu hoa a ʻaʻole hiki ke mālama i kahi pilina olakino a kaulike, ma kahi o ke kau ʻana a i ʻole ke hoʻopili ʻana i kāu keiki i kāu mau hakakā, koho i ka hoʻokaʻawale a hoʻāʻo i kāu mea maikaʻi loa no kāu keiki liʻiliʻi me ka ʻole e huki i ka lauoho o kekahi. i kēlā me kēia lā!
ʻAʻole kumu o ka hemo ʻana no ka makua maikaʻi ʻole
No kekahi poʻe, he ala maʻalahi ka haʻalele ʻana.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, e hoʻopau ʻia nā hakakā a me nā hana kolohe ʻole i hōʻike ʻia i mua o kāu keiki, akā ʻaʻole ka hale noho maluhia e hōʻoia i ka ulu ʻana o ke koʻikoʻi no kāu keiki.
He paʻakikī ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana no nā mea āpau, a aia nā ʻanuʻu pono e pono ai e hoʻōla i ka hoʻololi no kahi ʻōpio.
ʻOiai ʻoe e hoʻohālua i kāu mau hana i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi pilina olakino a aloha no kāu keiki, e emi ana ka hopena o ka loaʻa ʻole o kekahi o nā mākua a puni ka hale.
Ma muli o kou makemake ʻole e noho a launa pū paha me kāu hoa, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hana pū kāu keiki pēlā.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, pono ʻae ʻia kahi keiki a nā mākua hemo e ʻike a kūkulu i kahi paʻa paʻa me ka makua ʻole me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā wehewehe a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o nā mākua i ka wehewehe ʻole o kā lākou kaʻawale ʻana mai nā mākua.
Mai, no kekahi kumu, manaʻoʻiʻo i ka pau ʻana o kāu mau kuleana no kāu keiki ke ʻole kāu kuleana i koe no kāu hoa ma mua.
ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo i ka hoʻouna ʻana i kālā a i ʻole nā makana i kēia manawa a hou, no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ke pani i kahi pumehana aloha, aloha a i ʻole kahi aʻo paʻa.
Pono kou alo, aloha, a me kou alakaʻi no ka hānai ʻana o kāu keiki, a ʻaʻole pono ke noho kaʻawale.
Hauʻoli kekahi mau kāne akā noho kaʻawale ma muli o ka hana, noho pū kekahi akā makemake lākou ʻaʻole lākou, a ua haʻalele ʻia kekahi e mālama i ka pilina kaulike no kā lākou keiki.
Aia nā paʻakikī a me nā palena i loko o lākou āpau, akā ʻo ka mea āu e koho ai "e hōʻike" i kāu keiki me ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole ʻo ia ke kī i kahi hānai ola.
Nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole o ka hemo male ma nā keiki
Maikaʻi paha ka male male male male? ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia nā hopena o nā mākua hemo a hakakā paha i nā keiki i nā keiki.
No laila, pehea ka hopena o ka male male i nā keiki?
Ke ulu nei me nā mākua e hakakā me ka makaʻu i nā keiki ma ke ʻano e kū nui ai lākou i ka pilikanaka a me ka noʻonoʻo ma mua o nā keiki i hānai ʻia i kahi ʻohana hauʻoli.
Hoʻopilikia ka hakakā makua ma ke keiki a alakaʻi i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi e like me ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa, hewa, hilahila, hana maikaʻi ʻole a me nā pilikia olakino.
ʻO nā hopena o ke kino o ka hemo ma luna o kahi keiki me ka hoʻonui nui ʻana o nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hānō a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi i nā ʻeha.
I kou wā kamaliʻi, pehea ʻoe e hana ai me nā mākua hakakā?
Hōʻalo i ka lawe ʻana i nā ʻaoʻao a noho kūlike ʻole.
E hoʻāʻo e kūkulu i kou pilina olakino, inā ʻaʻole ʻo kou mau mākua ke ʻano kūpono maikaʻi loa e nānā ai.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, pale i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana iā ʻoe iho. Ke noʻonoʻo nei, "Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hōʻoki i koʻu mau mākua mai ka haʻalele ʻana i ka male?"
ʻO ka pane maʻalahi i kēia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe. ʻEhaʻeha ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaʻawale ʻana o nā mākua; Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hōʻoia iā ʻoe iho i aloha kou mau mākua iā ʻoe, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole makemake kekahi i kekahi.
ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua hemo
No nā mākua, e haʻohaʻo ana, "pehea wau e hōʻoki ai i ka hakakā ʻana i mua o kaʻu keiki?", E hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe ʻo ʻoe ka ʻupena palekana no kāu keiki.
E hoʻomanaʻo e kahakaha i nā laina ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ma ke aʻo ʻana e hōʻike i kou huhū ma kahi pilikino a me ka hana ʻole ʻana i kāu poʻe keiki i kāu mau paio.
ʻOiai ka hauʻoli ʻole, pono ia e hōʻike i kahi alo i hoʻohui ʻia i kāu mau keiki a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka pale pale o ke aloha a me ka mahanahana.
He mea nui e hōʻalo i nā kuhi hewa a nā mākua hemo i hana a hoʻokaʻawale inā pono ʻoe, me ka hoʻonāwaliwali ʻole ʻana i nā keiki i ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo.