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- 1. He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa ʻoe
- 2. Hōʻoluʻolu lākou iā ʻoe
- 3. Ua hui ʻoe me nā hoa aloha a me ka ʻohana o kekahi
- 4. Hoʻohanohano kekahi i kekahi
- 5. Kākoʻo lākou i kāu mau pahuhopu
- 6. Hauʻoli hauʻoli pū ʻoe
- 7. ʻO kāu pilina pili i ka naʻau ma waho o kēia ao
- 8. Ke hoʻāʻo mau nei e heʻe
- 9. Pili wale ʻoe
Ua pili ʻoe i kekahi manawa no kekahi manawa, a mālama ʻoe i kāu hoa. ʻIke mau ʻoe e ʻike pono i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai e minoʻaka ai ka mea ʻē aʻe a hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo pū i kēlā me kēia hola ala o ka lā. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo ua hiki i ka manawa e ʻōlelo ai aloha wau iā ʻoe?
Ke manaʻo nui nei ʻoe i kahi kemika me kekahi, hiki ke hoʻowalewale ʻia e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo no lākou. Akā he aha ka mea e hana inā lōʻihi ʻoe me kekahi me ka maopopo ʻole ʻoe i ke aloha?
ʻAʻohe o ka manawa i hoʻonohonoho ʻia no ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha, hoʻoholo i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai me ka leo nui i kahi hoʻoholo paʻakikī. He aha inā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ia a ʻaʻole ʻōlelo hou kāu hoa? He aha inā ʻoe e ʻōlelo wale e ʻike ma hope ʻaʻole ʻoe i manaʻo? Eia nā hōʻailona ahi ahi he 9 a ʻo ka manawa hope loa kēia e ʻōlelo me ka leo nui ʻo "L".
1. He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa ʻoe
ʻO ʻoe a me kāu hoa pili hoa aloha? ʻO kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi kekahi mea mau i kou kua, nāna ʻoe e leʻaleʻa ai, hilinaʻi, a makemake e hoʻolilo i kou manawa āpau.
ʻLelo lākou i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā pilina maikaʻi me ke kahua paʻa o ka aloha. I loko o kahi noiʻi e pili ana i nā mea e pili ana i nā pilina mau loa, ua hōʻike ʻia nā hopena i mālama nā kāne kūleʻa loa kekahi i kekahi me he mau hoa aloha lā.
Inā ʻoe a me kāu hoa e hoʻolōʻihi i kou manawa ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha a me nā ipo, me ka ʻapo ʻana i nā hana leʻaleʻa ma luna o nā mea aloha, he hōʻailona paha ia ua hoʻomaka ka manawa e ʻōlelo aku aloha wau iā ʻoe.
2. Hōʻoluʻolu lākou iā ʻoe
Ke huhū ʻoe, ʻo wai ke kanaka mua āu e makemake ai e kamaʻilio?
Ke polū ʻoe a puni ʻoe i kāu pakanā, ʻike mau lākou i ka mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai iā ʻoe? He mau hōʻailona maikaʻi loa kēia e nānā ai ke aloha ʻoe.
Loaʻa i kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i nā manawa o ka luʻuluʻu a me ke kaumaha paha he makana hiki ʻole ke pani ʻia. ʻO kēia manaʻo palekana a hōʻoluʻolu hoʻi e hoʻonui i ke aloha a kōkua i ka pilina e ulu.
3. Ua hui ʻoe me nā hoa aloha a me ka ʻohana o kekahi
ʻOiai i ka pili aloha o kēia au, ʻo ka hui ʻana me nā mākua kahi pilina nui loa.
Hoʻohui, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i nā mea he nui e pili ana i ke kanaka a lākou e koho ai e hoʻolilo i ko lākou manawa. ʻO kahi pōmaikaʻi i ka pili aloha ʻana i ka pilina ʻo ia ʻoe e ʻike i nā hoa pili a me kāu ʻohana o kāu wahine. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo maikaʻi loa o ke ʻano o kā lākou hana a puni nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me ke ʻano o nā poʻe āu e koho nei e waiho i loko o kou ola.
Makemake paha ʻoe i kāu wahine ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou e launa pū me kā lākou mau hoa o ke kula kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe? Inā ʻoe i launa me nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana o kekahi, ke hele nei ʻoe i kahi ʻāina ʻoi loa a pili paha i ke aloha.
4. Hoʻohanohano kekahi i kekahi
Nui ka mahalo i ka pilina. ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ka mahalo iā ʻoe no kāu hoa e hoʻoholo ai pehea ʻoe e hakakā ai, pehea ʻoe e hana ai, pehea kou maikaʻi me nā palena, a me ka hohonu o kou aloha a me kou mālama ʻana kekahi i kekahi.
Maʻalahi ke aloha i kahi mea e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe, mahalo i kou mau manaʻo, mālama maikaʻi iā ʻoe, a kū i luna iā ʻoe a me kou mau palena.
5. Kākoʻo lākou i kāu mau pahuhopu
Ke aʻo ʻana i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai he aloha au iā ʻoe ma mua o ka mālama ʻana o kāu hoa i kāu mau pahuhopu e like me kā lākou.
Hōʻike ka noiʻi i kēlānā kāne e hoʻohanohano ana i nā kūleʻa ʻike pū pinepine, ʻike ʻia, a mālama ʻia e kā lākou hoa.
ʻO kahi hoa aloha nui a aloha aloha kekahi e makemake e ʻike iā ʻoe e kūleʻa a kōkua iā ʻoe e kiʻi i nā hōkū. Ke kūleʻa ʻoe i ke ola, aia lākou ma kou ʻaoʻao e hauʻoli ai iā ʻoe a e hoʻohiwahiwa nei i kāu mau lanakila.
6. Hauʻoli hauʻoli pū ʻoe
Hele ʻole ia me ka ʻōlelo ʻana e hele pū ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli hou i ka lima.
Manaʻo ʻoe he pilina kāu me kāu hoa ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻoluliluli? Hele a kaulana paha ʻoe a paʻakikī paha e hakakā? Inā manaʻo ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i 24/7 me kāu wahine a ʻaʻole maʻi mau kekahi i kekahi, me he mea lā ua nahu ʻia ʻoe e ka pā aloha.
7. ʻO kāu pilina pili i ka naʻau ma waho o kēia ao
ʻO ka pili aloha aloha kahi ʻano kokoke i kekahi.
He ʻano palekana a ʻae ʻia e kāu hoa. Ke pili pili aloha ou naʻau me kekahi, ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e palupalu a haʻi iā ʻoe iho.
Inā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu e kamaʻilio hou me kāu hoa e pili ana i nā mea hohonu o ke ola, e ʻike nei ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokolokolo iā ʻoe no lākou, e aloha paha ʻoe.
8. Ke hoʻāʻo mau nei e heʻe
ʻIke paha ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa me kāu wahine e ʻaneʻane e hāʻule nā ʻōlelo mai kou waha? Inā aloha nui ʻoe me kekahi āu e ʻike ai i kēlā mau ʻōlelo kūikawā ma ka piko o kou alelo i kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻike ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, hāʻule paʻakikī ʻoe me ka wikiwiki.
9. Pili wale ʻoe
Ke aʻo ʻana i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai aloha wau ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e paʻakikī. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi ua ʻike ʻoe i ke kanaka āu e hoʻolilo ai i kou koena o kou ola me ka ʻike ua aloha ʻoe. Pono ʻoe e haha.
Hele ke aloha maoli ma mua o nā butterflies o ka mahina mua āu e ʻike ai ke pili ʻoe i kahi mea hou. He manaʻo hohonu o ke aloha, mahalo, mahalo, a kūpaʻa e iho pono ana i kāu kumu.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua aloha au iā ʻoe no ka manawa mua kahi hana nui. E hoʻomaopopo maoli ʻoe ma mua o kou walaʻau ʻana me ka leo nui. Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā ʻoe e haha? Hiki paha ke kani cliché, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo - ʻike wale ʻoe.
Ke hāʻule nei i ke aloha me kekahi mea kupaianaha hou o kahi pilina. Ke paʻakikī nei ʻoe e ʻike i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai ua aloha wau iā ʻoe? Eia ka laina lalo: e ʻōlelo ia ke ʻike ʻoe. ʻAʻohe lula paʻakikī a wikiwiki hoʻi e ʻōlelo ana ke hiki a ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo i kāu wahine.