Anter
- 1. Ka hōʻole ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
- 2. He kuhihewa hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ka poʻe
- 3. Ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa
- 4. Ka hilahila a me nā manaʻo o ka lawa ʻole
- 5. Kaukaʻi a i ʻole ka hoʻopili pono ʻole
- 6. Hema a pono ʻole ka pono no ka hoʻopili ʻana
- 7. Ka makaʻu i ka haʻalele a me ka hōʻole ʻia
Makemake mākou āpau e koho i nā hoa e hōʻike i ka ʻike a mākou iā mākou iho a me ko mākou honua. Minamina, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hopena o nā junkies mare i ka makemake ʻia i nā hoa e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou i kā lākou pili ʻohana pono ʻole, kahi i loaʻa ʻole ai ka mea e pono ai. He mea hoʻohenehene ia, ma ke ʻano, no ka mea ʻoiai lākou e ʻimi nei i kekahi e lilo i kā lākou mea āpau, pau lākou i ka hoʻonohonoho no ka mea nui, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi.
Eia kekahi o nā kumu e noho ai nā mea hoʻopili pili i nā pilina e hāʻawi ʻole iā lākou i nā mea e pono ai
1. Ka hōʻole ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻO ka hōʻole ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo (ʻo wai kā mākou pakanā, ʻo wai mākou maoli, inā hauʻoli maoli paha mākou i ka pilina) mālama iā mākou e hoʻopunipuni iā mākou iho e pili ana i kā mākou hoa a me mākou iho. ʻIke wale mākou i ka mea a mākou e makemake ai e ʻike, a wehewehe i ke koena.
2. He kuhihewa hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ka poʻe
Manaʻoʻiʻo mākou hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ka poʻe i loko a mākou e makemake ai. Manaʻo mākou e hana ʻokoʻa lākou me mākou a i ʻole hiki iā mākou ke hana i ke ʻano ʻokoʻa. Hiki iā mākou ke hōʻoia iā mākou iho inā male mākou, e lilo lākou i mea kupanaha i ke kanaka a mākou e makemake nui ai e lilo.
3. Ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa
ʻO ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho iho he hopena ia o ka empathic a me ka hānai hānai ʻana, akā inā ulu mākou i kahi ʻohana kahi e hoʻokō ʻole ʻia ai, pono ai ʻole e ʻae ʻia ai kā mākou mau pono, manaʻo mākou ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia a helu ʻole ʻia kā mākou mau pono. Hiki i kēlā ke hopena i nā manaʻo o ke kūpono ʻole a ʻaʻole lawa maikaʻi no ka mea ua hōʻoia ʻia a kuhi hewa ʻia mākou.
4. Ka hilahila a me nā manaʻo o ka lawa ʻole
Ma lalo o ka hilahila nā manaʻo hohonu o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe iho a me ka lawa ʻole. Manaʻo mākou he pono ʻole, aloha ʻole ʻia, a hemo mākou mai iā mākou iho, no laila, nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke hoʻomohala mākou i ka manaʻo hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa i hopena ʻia mai ka hilahila, hoʻopau mākou i ka sabotaging i kā mākou pilina me ke kaohi ʻana, hoʻopakele, a me / a i ʻole nā ʻano ʻoluʻolu kanaka.
5. Kaukaʻi a i ʻole ka hoʻopili pono ʻole
ʻAʻole like kēia pili pono ʻole i kekahi kanaka me kahi pilina olakino me kekahi mea hilinaʻi. Ma ke kumu, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ko mākou piha a me ka piha, no laila, komo mākou i nā pilina ma ke ʻano he hapalua o ke kanaka-ʻo kekahi e manaʻo ʻaʻole piha me ka ʻole o kahi hoa.
6. Hema a pono ʻole ka pono no ka hoʻopili ʻana
ʻO kēia manaʻo kahi hopena o ka ulu ʻana i kahi ʻohana kahi e hoʻokō ʻole ʻia ai kā mākou pono no ka hānai ʻana a me ke aloha ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole hoʻokō ʻia kā mākou pono nui no ka hoʻopili ʻana, ʻo ka hopena o ka haʻalele ʻana e hoʻonohonoho iā mākou no ke kaumaha, ka hopohopo, ka mehameha mau a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana - nā ʻano āpau o ka ʻole a me ka manaʻo o ka ʻole.
7. Ka makaʻu i ka haʻalele a me ka hōʻole ʻia
ʻO ka nalo ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻa mua ʻana me kahi kahu mua hiki ke makaʻu nui i ka haʻalele ʻana, e alakaʻi ana i kahi keiki e makua ʻia - e lawe i nā kuleana ma mua o ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomohala. Ke lilo kēia mau keiki i mau mākua, hoʻomau lākou i ka pōʻaiapuni haʻalele ʻana ma o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pilina me nā poʻe i hiki ʻole ke ʻano a i ʻole ka hōʻalo ʻana i nā pilina a pau - ma laila e pale nei i ka hoʻoweliweli o ka hōʻole.
Manaʻo Hope
Ke kūpaʻa ʻole mākou e pili ana i nā mea e hoʻonāukiuki iā mākou, pau mākou i ka hoʻonohonoho no ka liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia manawa. Ehia mau wahine āu e ʻike ai e pili ana i ka lā male ma mua o ka male maoli? Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike, haʻalele nā mea nui iā lākou. ʻO ka male ʻana he lā wale nō ia, akā ʻo ka male ʻana he ola ia.