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- 1. Pili mau lākou i kou manaʻo
- 2. ʻIke ʻoe iā lākou i kou wā e hiki mai ana
- 3. ʻO lākou ka ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o kou lā
- 4. Hoʻouna mua ʻoe iā lākou
- Akahele e huikau like me ke aloha
- No laila, he aha ka nīnau kūpono e nīnau ai?
- Pehea e ʻike ai mākou aloha i kekahi?
- 1. ʻike ʻoe no ka mea ua hoʻoholo ʻoe e aloha
- 2. E ʻike ʻoe no ka mea he hana ia - ka hana o ke aloha
- 3. E ʻike ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e aloha iā lākou, aloha nō ʻoe iā lākou
E maoli kākou, Kanaka! No ke aha e hiki ʻole ai i kekahi ke ʻike? No ke aha e hoʻoluhi ai kekahi iā Google e nā nīnau? Pehea e ʻike ai inā he aloha ʻoe?
Eia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā ʻōlelo aʻoi mai nā hopena ʻimi a Google he lapuwale lapuwale wale nō. E lawe i nā laʻana o nā manaʻo i loaʻa ma lalo e pili ana pehea e ʻike ai inā he aloha ʻoe me kekahi.
1. Pili mau lākou i kou manaʻo
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo he bogus, a laila ʻaʻole maoli paha kāu pili.
Inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō kekahi i kou manaʻo, a laila hiki ke manaʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻoe e kia nui i nā mea nui ʻē aʻe. No ke aha mai?
Pono ke aloha maoli i ke ola maoli, ma kahi o ka lawe wale ʻana iā ia. ʻAʻole hiki ke luhi akā mālie.
2. ʻIke ʻoe iā lākou i kou wā e hiki mai ana
ʻO ia paha aia lākou i loko o laila? Inā ʻoe e moemoeā lōʻihi a paʻakikī e pili ana i kou wā e hiki mai ana a ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e neʻe ana i Switzerland e lilo i kahu hipa / kao, he manaʻo anei ʻoe?
No ke aha he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole kēia aʻoaʻo?
ʻO ka pilikia ua hoʻololi ke kanaka i ke aloha i mau pāʻani hou o ka pakele, e like me ka moemoeā. ʻO ke ana ʻana i nā hoa hiki i ka pehea e komo ai i loko o kēia moemoeā kuhi hewa a ʻaʻole ia he ana o ke aloha.
Inā ʻoe e ʻike iā lākou i kou wā e hiki mai ana, maikaʻi kēlā. Akā, ʻaʻole ia ma muli o kā lākou hoʻopau ʻana i ke kiʻi. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka manaʻo o ka poʻe heluhelu, akā ua kīloi ʻia mai iā mākou.
Eia kahi laʻana.
3. ʻO lākou ka ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o kou lā
E nīnau paha mākou iā ʻoe e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o kou lā.
Hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea maikaʻi inā hauʻoli ʻoe i kou ola a hoʻohui kēia wahine a kāne a kāne paha iā ia.
ʻO kēlā ala, lanakila ʻoe.
Akā, he mea maikaʻi ʻole paha ia iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hauʻoli i kou ola a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kēia hoa pili e like me kekahi oasis. E aho ʻoe e hui pū.
Eia kekahi.
4. Hoʻouna mua ʻoe iā lākou
Ke hopohopo maoli nei ʻoe i kā lākou makemake a makemake a hana maʻamau ia i kahi ala e ʻole e wāwahi iā ʻoe.
Akā, e kala mai iā ʻoe inā ʻoe e hoʻopilikia i kāu mau pono ponoʻī a makemake no lākou, a hoʻokumu i kāu waiwai i kou hiki ke mālama iā lākou i ka hauʻoli.
Akahele e huikau like me ke aloha
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā lākou he ʻokoʻa ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau, ʻoluʻolu no lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe i ʻoi aku ma mua o ko lākou nānā, aia paha he manaʻolana nou.
Eia kekahi, inā makemake ʻoe e hauʻoli lākou, congrats. Akā, makemake ka hapa nui o mākou i ka hauʻoli o kēlā me kēia. ʻAʻole pili ia i ke aloha i kēia manawa. Inā hoʻoikaika lākou iā ʻoe i kahi mana ʻoi aku o ʻoe, kokoke ʻoe i ke ala kūpono.
Loaʻa nā hopena o nā hiʻohiʻona i kā lākou kumuhana.
No laila, he aha ka nīnau kūpono e nīnau ai?
ʻO ke aloha i kekahi a me ke aloha ʻana me kekahi mea like ʻole.
'ʻO ke aloha me' kahi infatuation wale nō ia ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha maoli. No laila, ʻo ka mea e nīnau maoli ai ka poʻe pehea e ʻike ai mākou aloha i kekahi, a ʻaʻole aloha iā lākou.
Pehea e ʻike ai mākou aloha i kekahi?
I kēia manawa ua mālamalama ʻoe, olakino kēia ʻāpana nou.
1. ʻike ʻoe no ka mea ua hoʻoholo ʻoe e aloha
ʻAʻole he aloha ke aloha, akā he hoʻoholo.
ʻAʻole ʻoe manaʻo, hana maoli ʻoe. ʻO ke aloha kahi hana, ʻaʻole loa he manaʻo. He hana hoʻoholo ia, i kēlā me kēia manawa. Hoʻoholo ʻoe e hana hou.
No laila, ʻike ʻoe i aloha i kekahi mea no ka mea ua hoʻoholo ʻoe pēlā, me ka noʻonoʻo a me ka noʻonoʻo.
2. E ʻike ʻoe no ka mea he hana ia - ka hana o ke aloha
ʻAʻole wale ke aloha i nā huaʻōlelo. Pono ʻoe e hoʻopukapuka, e hoʻoikaika.
Inā aloha ʻoe iā lākou, mai hana ʻino ʻoe me ka ʻike. ʻAʻole ʻoe e manipulate, lili, liʻiliʻi a hoʻopaʻi paha no lākou.
Inā aloha ʻoe iā lākou, mai noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kā lākou makemake e hoʻonāukiuki a i ʻole lilo i gloverabby me lākou a i ʻole ko lākou aloha i ka hoʻihoʻi. Hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia kou palekana me ka ʻole o ka hōʻoia mau o ia.
Inā ʻoe e aloha, lilo kā lākou manaʻo i mea nui loa iā ʻoe, a lilo i kā lākou mau pono. Hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i kā lākou hoihoi. Mākaukau ʻoe e mālama a mālama iā lākou, ʻae a ʻae iā lākou e lilo i ʻāpana o ʻoe.
3. E ʻike ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e aloha iā lākou, aloha nō ʻoe iā lākou
He mea maʻamau ka nānā ʻana i ka nui o ka poʻe e ʻōlelo nei he aloha lākou ke maikaʻi nā mea, maikaʻi, maopopo ka lani, a mālie ka wai.
Akā ke kū mai kahi ʻino, nā lākou nō ia.
Inā huhū ʻoe a i ʻole i kahi hakakā, a ke hoʻokō nei kāu pahuhopu i kahi ʻaelike a ʻaʻole e ʻohi i kahi mea lanakila, no laila aloha ʻoe i kēlā kanaka.
Pono ʻoe e ʻike he aloha ʻoe i kekahi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manipulative, pale a palekana ʻole hoʻi, mai mālama i ka huhū, mai mālama i ka helu a ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi ʻole, mai noʻonoʻo ʻoe i ka 'hoʻihoʻi ʻana i kou aloha' ma ke ʻano he ala e hoʻoponopono ai i ka hoʻopaʻi. Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kekahi ma mua o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻana, a laila aloha ʻoe i kēlā kanaka.
Ke mākaukau ke aloha ke hoʻomākaukau, kala aku, kala a hana e like me ʻolua ma ke kaʻa ʻōhua like.
He aloha ke hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i kekahi ke ʻeha ʻoe. He aloha ke hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohanohano a mahalo i ko lākou mau pono a me nā makemake a ʻoiai ʻo ia ka ʻāhaʻi ʻana. '
No laila i ka manawa aʻe, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole ia pehea e ʻike ai inā ʻoe i ke aloha akā, pehea e ʻike ai aloha ʻoe iā lākou. ʻIke ʻoe aloha ʻoe no ka mea hoʻoholo ʻoe i. Pili ia i ka hana ʻana, a lanakila i nā manawa āpau.