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- Aia ʻoe i ka maikaʻi loa o kou naʻau?
- Hoʻomanawanui i ka hana
- Hoʻonui i kāu hulina
- E ʻike i kekahi mau ʻano laulā, mai kau ʻia i nā kikoʻī
- ʻAʻole hana ka wahine i ka wahine
- Koho i kekahi mea aloha iā ʻoe e like me ʻoe
ʻAʻole anei ia he mea kupanaha inā aia kekahi ʻano makemakika ma laila, inā e ukali ʻia, alakaʻi ʻia i ke aloha aloha kūleʻa. Aia nō naʻe ka puʻuwai i kāna rula ponoʻī.
ʻO ka mea akeakamai Farani kaulana, ʻo Blaise Pascal, i ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi: Loaʻa i ka puʻuwai nā kumu e ʻike ʻole ai ke kumu
ʻLelo ʻia, ma laila he nā mea nui e noʻonoʻo ai i ke koho ʻana i kahi hoa ola. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokumu i kahi papa inoa ma ke ʻano he kumu e ukali ai e hōʻoia i ka nui o ka manawa o kāu hoʻokūkū e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi pilina hauʻoli lōʻihi ma mua o ka waiho wale ʻana i nā mea āpau i ke aloha, ke kuko a me ka manawa kūpono.
Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e noʻonoʻo ai i ka wā e ʻimi nei i kāu hoa aloha, a i ʻole ke noʻonoʻo ʻana inā ʻo kāu hoa o kēia wā ʻo "ka mea hoʻokahi."
Aia ʻoe i ka maikaʻi loa o kou naʻau?
He kupaianaha paha kēia "tip", akā he mea kūpono ia.
I mea e koho ai ʻoe i kahi hoa ola olakino, pono ʻoe i kahi wahi olakino.
Hana hewa nā poʻe makemake ʻole, ʻoihana a pilikino. Ehia mau pilina rebound i lilo i kūleʻa? Kakaikahi loa. No laila ma mua o kou pakanā, e hana pono i kāu ukana naʻau āpau, hana i kahi ola piha a hauʻoli no ʻoe iho, a mākaukau e ʻumeʻume i kahi mea kūpono i kou pono ponoʻī.
Hoʻomanawanui i ka hana
Ke koho ʻana i kahi hoa ola, ua hele mākou āpau i kēlā kūlana kahi e hui ai mākou me kekahi me he mea lā maikaʻi ʻole. Ua kaomi nā mea āpau i kēlā ahiahi mua; wela ʻo ia, he hana nui kāna, he male ʻole ʻo ia, ke nānā nei ʻo ia e aloha, a nānā maoli ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia ʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo nei. Pākuʻi ʻia ʻoe a makemake e hoʻolilo i ka manawa me kēia kanaka nui i hiki.
Akā e hoʻolohi.
Mai hoʻokomo koke i kou ikehu naʻau i loko o kēia hoa. E hoʻomau i kou ola nui. Hele i waho me kāu mau hoaaloha ʻē aʻe. Hana ikaika. Hoʻoikaika kino.
A e hoʻopaʻa iā ʻoe iho me kēia kanaka, ke ʻike aku iā ia i hoʻokahi a ʻelua mau manawa o ka pule keu. Inā ʻo kēia The Real Thing, makemake ʻoe e ulu lohi, a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka makana o ka ʻike i kekahi i kekahi ma ka manawa.
Inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo kāu hoa ola, makemake ʻoe e kūkulu i kēlā paʻa paʻa, no laila paʻa a paʻa.
Hoʻonui i kāu hulina
He ʻoiaʻiʻo, he manaʻo kou no ka mea āu e makemake ai i kāu hoa ola.
Akā e wehe iki i kāu pae huli no ka hiki ʻana i ke kiʻi ʻana i kahi laʻana ākea o nā hoa hiki. Inā hāʻule mau ʻoe no nā extroverts, e nānā pono i ke kāne e noho mālie akā noʻonoʻo i kāu hui puke.
Inā kou papa inoa makemake no ke koho ʻana i kahi hoa ola me kahi ʻoihana ʻoihana kiʻekiʻe, mai hōʻole i kēlā kanaka ʻōpio e hana maikaʻi nei me kāna ʻoihana paʻi kiʻi. E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e ʻike ai i ka poʻe mai nā ʻano like ʻole.
E kahaha paha ka honua iā ʻoe me kahi hoa ola e like me ka mea āu i ʻike ai, akā ʻo wai ka mea kūpono nou.
E ʻike i kekahi mau ʻano laulā, mai kau ʻia i nā kikoʻī
He manaʻo maikaʻi e loaʻa i kahi papa inoa noʻonoʻo o nā ʻano āu e pono ai i kahi hoa ola, akā he mau kaha ākea kēia a ʻaʻole nā mea paʻi liʻiliʻi. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, e noʻonoʻo i nā ʻano kumu i loaʻa i kekahi kanaka manaʻo maikaʻi. ʻO ke aloha, kūpaʻa, hoʻopono, ʻoluʻolu, lokomaikaʻi a me ka mālama ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Inā loaʻa i kāu kāne kēlā mau mea, ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kumu no kahi hui maikaʻi loa.
Holoi mai kāu papa inoa i kēlā mau mea liʻiliʻi maoli ʻole i nā mea haʻihaʻi pili i ka pilina - maikaʻi i ka kuke ʻana (hiki ke aʻo ʻia kēia), hiki ke hoʻoponopono i nā mea a puni ka hale (hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i waho i kēia), like ka ʻono i ke mele (ʻoiaʻiʻo? Don ' makemake ʻoe e aʻo e pili ana i nā hui mele hou?).
ʻAʻole hana ka wahine i ka wahine
ʻIke mākou āpau i nā kāne i like iki a koe wale ka kuko ʻē kekahi. Mai hāʻule i loko o ka pahele o ka noʻonoʻo inā wela nā mea i loko o ka lumi moe, ʻo ia ka manaʻo o kēia kanaka.
He mea nui ka moekolohe maikaʻi i ke olakino olakino o ka pilina, akā inā ʻo ia wale nō kāu, ʻaʻole lawa ia e kūkulu i kahi pilina lōʻihi me.
ʻAʻole ia e kala i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe o kāu pili. No laila e hemo i kēlā mau aniani piha piha i ke kuko a e ʻike pono i kāu hoapili ola he mau mea ʻē aʻe e hele aku ana nāna mai nā mākau lumi moe. No ka mea ma kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e hele i waho o ka lumi moe a pili maoli i ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo.
Koho i kekahi mea aloha iā ʻoe e like me ʻoe
Kau mākou a pau i ka maka maikaʻi ke hele mua.
E ʻaʻahu ʻoe, hana i kou lauoho a me nā mea hoʻonaninani, a e maʻalea a kamaʻilio kāu kamaʻilio ʻana. Akā i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, me ke kanaka kūpono, hiki nō iā ʻoe ke kūlike me ʻoe.
Me ke kanaka kūpono, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hōʻike ana i nā ʻaoʻao āpau o kou pilikino mai ka mea ikaika a ka mea nāwaliwali loa.
A hoʻomana mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe iho, mamao loa iā ia.
Makemake mākou āpau i kā mākou pakanā e hoʻōla iā mākou, ʻoiai ma hope o 20 mau makahiki o ka male. Akā ʻo ia hoʻi inā ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea e manaʻo ʻo ʻoe ka mea ʻoi loa mai ka ʻoki ʻana i ka berena, ʻoiai ʻoe e noho wale ana i laila e hana ana i kahi kea crossword i loko o kou lole komoʻi kahiko a me ka hale hoʻoikaika kino, he kahu kāu.