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- 1. Huhū i ka hana, ʻaʻole ke kanaka
- 2. E hōʻike i kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai e pili ana i nā mea āpau
- 3. Hana i nā mea maikaʻi me ke kumu ʻole
- 4. Hoʻokumu i nā kuʻuna
ʻO ka male ʻana kahi hanana nani, akā ʻaʻole e huikau e like me ka maʻalahi.
ʻAʻole hiki ke pale i nā kiʻekiʻe, e like me ka lā āu e ʻōlelo ai "Hana wau" a hoʻokipa paha i kāu keiki mua. ʻIʻike like ʻia nā haʻahaʻa. E hakakā paha ʻoe ma luna o ka palena a kekahi i hele ai, a i ʻole pehea e mahalo ʻole ai kekahi o haʻi i kekahi.
He nani a pīhoihoi hoʻi i ka manawa like.
No laila ke noi nei i ka nīnau: pehea ʻoe e hana ai? Maʻalahi ka male ʻana, akā noho ana ʻo ka male he kahua pāʻani ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ia.
E ʻae iaʻu e kōkua iā ʻoe i waho. ʻAʻole nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo aʻe kaʻu, akā, e like me kaʻu i ʻike ai i loko o kaʻu male ponoʻī, kū maoli lākou i ka hoʻāʻo o ka manawa.
1. Huhū i ka hana, ʻaʻole ke kanaka
E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole hiki ke alo aʻe i nā paio a me nā kūlike ʻole. Ke kūpaʻa ʻoe e kau pū me hoʻokahi kanaka no ke koena o kou ola, e ʻānai ʻoe i kekahi i ke ala hewa.
Ke kū mai kēlā hakakā, hana ʻoluʻolu ʻoe a me kāu wahine a huki i ka hana ma ke ʻano he lawehala i kou hoʻonāukiuki ʻana, ʻaʻole ka mea. Me he mea lā ʻaʻole nui ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā mea ʻelua, akā he mea nui e ʻike aia he ʻokoʻa loa.
Inā ʻoe e kuhikuhi i ka manamana lima i kāu wahine a hoʻouka iā lākou ma ke ʻano he kanaka, ʻoi aku paha lākou i ka pale ʻana a kau i ko lākou mau paia i luna. Inā ʻoe e koho e nānā a kamaʻilio pū me lākou nā hana, makemake paha lākou e lawe i kahi poʻo pae i ke kamaʻilio.
Kūlohelohe mākou e huhū a makemake e hōʻino i kekahi kanaka, akā i ka hana ʻana pēlā e hana mākou i nā mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole lapuwale kāu wahine, ʻo lākou wale nō hana i kekahi mea hūpō kēlā. Ke loaʻa nei ka ʻokoʻa maʻa ma kēlā ʻōlelo i hiki ke pale i ka huhū nui mai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
2. E hōʻike i kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai e pili ana i nā mea āpau
ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e hōʻalo ai i kahi kūlike ʻole e maopopo e pili ana i kāu mea e manaʻo ai.
E nā wahine, inā ʻoe e manaʻo i kāu kāne e kōkua i nā hana o ka hale, e hōʻike iā ia. ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia ʻoe e huhū a huhū pū paha me ia inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i wehewehe e makemake ʻoe e hāʻawi ʻo ia i kahi lima iā ʻoe. E nā keonimana, inā ʻoe e manaʻo i kahi manawa "ʻo wau" e nānā i kahi pôpeku a hana paha i kēlā kaʻa āu e hoʻoponopono nei, e ʻike i kāu wahine makemake ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa e hana ai.
I nā kūlana ʻelua, e akāka iaʻu: ʻaʻole au e kuhikuhi ana iā ʻoe e hana koi ʻoiai ʻoe e kūkākūkā ana i kēia mea me kāu wahine. E hoʻokau i ka ʻike ma waho i lohe ʻia ia. ʻO ke kumu helu ʻekahi e kū mai ai kekahi paio a i ʻole kūlike ʻole ua hōʻeha kekahi i kahi manaʻolana a i ʻole ka lula i haʻi ʻole ʻia. Ma ke ʻano he kāne male (manaʻolana wau), ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻino i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO nā manawa kūpono, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike kahi i kū ai ka mea ʻē aʻe i kekahi kumuhana a ʻānai iā lākou i ke ala kūpono ʻole no kou naʻaupō.
E hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka ea ma ke akāka e pili ana i kāu mea e makemake ai no kāu pili.
3. Hana i nā mea maikaʻi me ke kumu ʻole
ʻO ka hana "kiʻi i kāu pua wahine no ke kumu ʻole" i lilo i cliche i kēia manawa, akā e ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e haʻi iā ʻoe i kekahi mea: hana ia. Manaʻo a kahakaha ʻole ʻia nā mea haʻohaʻo liʻiliʻi. Ke manaʻo nei kāu pakanā e kiʻi ʻoe i kahi mea maikaʻi no kou lā hoʻomanaʻo a i ko lākou lā hānau, akā i ka auina lā Pōʻalua. ʻAʻole paha.
I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole no kēia kāne kēia hoʻopunipuni. E nā wahine, nui nā ʻōniʻoniʻo liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoukou ke hāʻawi aku i kāu kāne e hōʻike iā ia e mālama ʻoe. ʻAʻole mahalo ka hapa nui o nā kāne i nā pua kakini ma hope o ka hana o ka lā lōʻihi, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i nā mea he nui e hōʻole i kahi pāʻina maikaʻi. Kuke iā ia i ka ʻaina awakea ke nānā ʻole ʻo ia. E waiho iā ia ma ka moena i ka lā holoʻokoʻa a kiaʻi i ka pīpeka ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale. E waiho iā ia e hiamoe ʻoiai ʻoe e mālama i nā keiki i kou lā hoʻomaha.
He mea ʻole ʻo wai ʻoe, hele lōʻihi loa kēia mau ʻōuli o ke aloha. ʻO ka lōʻihi o kou noho pū ʻana me kekahi, ʻo ka nui o ka maʻa i kāu ʻano. Ma ka hoʻohaunaele ʻana i kēlā kumu me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka pūʻiwa e poʻo lākou ma luna o nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae.
4. Hoʻokumu i nā kuʻuna
He mea nui e mālama i ka manaʻo o kou aloha i ke ola ma hope o kou mau makahiki e hoʻomaka i ka ahu ʻana. Inā he hoʻomaha makahiki hoʻomanaʻo, he wā hoʻomaha lā nui, a i ʻole nā wā hoʻomaha ʻohana he nui, e hana i kahi mea āu e makemake ai e hoʻi hou.
E koi ka nui o nā loea pili pili i ka nuance a hana i nā mea hou e mālama i nā mea hou, akā ʻaʻole ia wale nō ke ala e mālama ai i kou aloha. Ma ka haku ʻana i nā kuʻuna, ke hāʻawi nei ʻoe i kou pili a i ʻole kou ʻohana ke kumu no nā hoʻolauleʻa makahiki a me kēlā me kēia mahina. ʻOiai ke hana hou nei paha i nā hiʻohiʻona kahiko, e hoʻomanaʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka nui o ke aloha.
Me kēlā me kēia lā hoʻolauleʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i kāu hulahula mua a i ʻole nā hoʻohiki āu i kaʻana like ai. Me nā hana hoʻolauleʻa āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i hope i nā kiʻi mai nā makahiki i hala a ʻike i ka nui o kou ulu pū ʻana. He mea ʻole ke kuʻuna āu e koho ai e hana a hoʻi hou, e kani maoli ka manaʻo a hoʻihoʻi i ke aloha ma waena ou i kēlā me kēia manawa.
No laila, aia iā ʻoe ia. ʻEhā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo e mālama iā ʻoe a me kāu pākahi me ka lōʻihi o ka ʻōlelo a kāu hoʻohiki. 'A hiki i ka make e hoʻokaʻawale iā mākou he mea weliweli paha ia, akā inā ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea ʻehā, e hele mai kēlā huakaʻi me nā puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi a me nā manawa o ka hauʻoli. Pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe!