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- 1) Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau hoʻāʻo e hiki iā mākou ke lawe?
- 2) He aha ka mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu mākau kamaʻilio?
- 3) Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke kiʻi ma ka ʻaoʻao like ke pili i ka pili?
- 4) Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iā mākou e hana i kahi hoʻolālā hoʻokahi, ʻelua a me ʻelima mau makahiki?
- 5) He mau manaʻo paha kāu no ka hoʻonui ʻana i ko mākou ola ʻuhane?
ʻ Proverbslelo ʻOlelo 12:15 a me 24: 6 ʻelua wale nō o nā paukū i ka Baibala e ʻōlelo e pili ana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo naʻauao. Eia naʻe naʻe, i loko o ka hale pule, aia kekahi mau kāne e ʻike wale nei i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ma ke ʻano hope loa.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka nui o kāu male, he mea maikaʻi nō paha e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne Karistiano ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka makahiki. Ma kēlā ala, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi lima i nā pilikia ma mua o ke kū ʻana a loaʻa pū nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kāu hui.
He kūpono loa nā kākāʻōlelo male Kalikiano i ka hele ʻana iā ʻoe ma waena o nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo pilina a me ke kaʻina aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano.
Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike ma mua, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i nā nīnau a nā kāne e nīnau ai iā lākou i mea e loaʻa ai a mālama ai paha i kāu male a e loaʻa ai ka hapa nui o kēlā me kēia kau. Nā nīnau aʻoaʻo kūkā mare hiki ke paʻakikī i ke kau ʻana akā he kōkua kā mākou nāu.
I mea e loaʻa ai kekahi mau kōkua aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano e pili ana i ka wahine, ʻoiai ke hui mua ʻoe, eia nā nīnau ʻelele aʻoaʻo ʻelima e hōʻike ai i kāu kākāʻōlelo.
ʻO nā nīnau no ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male e kiʻi iā ʻoe i nā pane i kāu mau pilikia e noho nei a e kū paha i ka wā e hiki mai ana. E kōkua kēia mau nīnau aʻoaʻo ʻelua iā ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i kahi nīnau nīnau aʻoaʻo kahu hānai.
1) Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau hoʻāʻo e hiki iā mākou ke lawe?
ʻAe, ʻaʻohe mea "paʻi hula" maoli i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana. Akā inā ʻoe e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e hana ai, hiki iā ia ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi iā ʻoe a me nā ʻano pilikino o kāu kāne a me nā ʻano o ka noʻonoʻo.
A ma ka ʻike ʻana i a Kākāʻōlelo male Kristiano a me ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo no ka male, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā makana ʻuhane.
Hiki ke kōkua i kēia no ka mea, me kēia ʻike, hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine ke hoʻomaopopo pono i ka lawelawe ʻana i loko o kāu hale pule a pehea e hoʻohana ai i kāu mau makana i loko o kāu male pū kekahi.
E nānā i kēia wikiō hoihoi e wehewehe ana i ka mea i hoʻokumu i ka male ma muli o ka Baibala.
2) He aha ka mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu mākau kamaʻilio?
ʻO kēia kahi o nā nīnau maʻamau a nā kākāʻōlelo male e nīnau ai i ka ʻōlelo aʻo male. Ma waho o nā pilikia pili kālā a me ka pili aloha, ʻo kekahi o nā kumu nui o ka hemo ka haʻi kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole ʻana a no laila ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kākāʻōlelo i loaʻa i ka helu pau ʻole o nā nīnau aʻo aʻoaʻo male.
ʻO ka maʻamau, kumu ia mai ka hoʻolohe ʻole ʻana i kekahi i kekahi a mai ka mālama ʻana i nā manaʻo i laka ʻia a hiki i ka hopena ke alakaʻi i ka ʻawahia a me ka huhū. Kupaianaha ka nui o ka poʻe i manaʻo he weliweli lākou i nā mea kamaʻilio ke hiki ke kū i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻomaikaʻi i kēia wahi.
Hiki i kahi kākā'ōlelo maikaʻi ke hōʻike iā ʻoe pehea e launa pū ai i kou mau manaʻo, manaʻo, manaʻo, a me nā manaʻo i kekahi i kekahi a hāʻawi pū iā ʻoe me nā pono hana e hoʻolohe maikaʻi i kāu male ʻana.
ʻOiai inā manaʻo ʻoe he kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻoe pono ʻoe i kahi papa inoa i mākaukau no nā nīnau e nīnau ai i ka wā aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo. Aia mau ka laulā no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ke hiki i ka kamaʻilio ma waena o nā kāne.
3) Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke kiʻi ma ka ʻaoʻao like ke pili i ka pili?
Ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo no ka male, mai makaʻu ʻoe e nīnau e pili ana i kahi e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kou pili, he nīnau aʻo aʻo male hoʻi kēia. ʻO nā nīnau nīnau male Kalikiano ʻaʻohe mea e kānalua ai.
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi ʻāpana nui o ka pilina male, he mea maikaʻi ia e lilo i ke kumuhana i mea nui i nā wā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka wahine a nīnau i nā nīnau aʻo kūkākūkā no ia mea.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pehea e hana ai i ka manawa no kekahi, pehea e hoʻomāhuahua ai i ka pilina a me ka pehea e hoʻokō ai i nā makemake o kekahi i kēlā ʻāpana e ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau aʻo aʻoaʻo male.
ʻO ka ʻolelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka pili aloha kekahi 'Lelo aʻo a ke akua, ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo a hilahila paha.
4) Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iā mākou e hana i kahi hoʻolālā hoʻokahi, ʻelua a me ʻelima mau makahiki?
"ʻAʻole e hoʻolālā, hoʻolālā e holo pono." ʻIke mākou āpau pēlā ke ʻano o ka ʻōlelo akā, eia ka mea nui, he nui nā kāne a ʻaʻohe i manaʻo e hoʻolālā i kā lākou male.
I ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā pahuhopu āu e makemake ai e hoʻokō, nā wahi āu e makemake ai e kipa, ka nui o ke kālā āu e makemake ai e mālama (a me nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana me ia), hiki i kēia mau mea āpau ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i kahi paʻa hou. .
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoʻolālā paʻa e alakaʻi mau ai i ka launa hou o kāu pilina. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā mea nui loa nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo nui no nā kāne e pono ai e nīnau i kāu kākāʻolelo e pili ana, he hopena lōʻihi ia i kāu male.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea āu e manaʻo ai i kou wā e hiki mai ana, e kōkua nō ia i ʻelua e hoʻonohonoho i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia mai kekahi i kekahi a kōkua pū kekahi i kekahi i ka loaʻa ʻana iā lāua.
Hiki i kēia nīnau nīnau aʻoaʻo male ke hoʻopakele iā ʻoe i ka nui o ka ʻehaʻeha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
5) He mau manaʻo paha kāu no ka hoʻonui ʻana i ko mākou ola ʻuhane?
Inā he Karistiano ʻoe, he mea maikaʻi ke ʻike aku i kahi kākāʻōlelo Kalikiano e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a ka ʻuhane no ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau no ka nīnau male ma muli o ka like o kā lākou waiwai e like me ʻoe. A ʻo kahi hopena, e pili ana i ka biblically ka nui o kā lākou hopena.
ʻOiai ua manaʻo ʻia kēlā male ma ke ʻano he uniona hoʻokumu-hilinaʻi, e pono ana ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i nā mea e hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine ke hana i mea e ulu pū ai i ka ʻuhane.
Mai ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi manawa hoʻomana ʻē aʻe a hiki i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi puke pai pule no ka male ʻana a i ʻole hoʻomaka paha i kekahi ʻano lawelawe e pōmaikaʻi ai i nā kāne ʻē aʻe āu i ʻike ai, hiki i kahi kākā'ōlelo male male Karistiano ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻimi i kekahi o nā ala e hoʻoikaika ai i kāu kahua ʻuhane.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo Karistiano no nā kāne male ka mea maikaʻi mau ke hiki mai i kahi hui hauʻoli a olakino hoʻi.
Ke noi nei i nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male Baibala hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e loaʻa i kekahi kuanaʻike. ʻO nā nīnau a me nā pane a ka male ʻana he mea nui ia e hōʻoia ai i ke olakino a me ke olakino maikaʻi o kāu pilina.
No laila e hōʻoia e nīnau i kēia Nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Kalikiano. ʻO nā pane i loaʻa iā ʻoe e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa i kāu male ʻana - e hoʻomaka ana i kēia manawa a hiki i ka wā e make ai ʻoe.