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- 1. Mālama ponoʻī makua- ʻo ka mea maʻamau hou e pono ai kou ola
- 2. E lawe ʻia kekahi mau hoʻololi i kou ola
- 3. Hānai i nā pilina hoahānau
- 4. Mai makaʻu i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua
ʻOiai hauʻoli e like me ke ʻapo o ka makua; Hāʻawi ʻia ia ʻano he makua, a he hakakā paʻakikī ia. A, ʻo nā keiki makua me nā pono kūikawā he ʻokoʻa pā pāʻani-ʻokoʻa nō.
Ke hānai ʻoe i kahi keiki me nā pono kūikawā e like me kāu keiki e loaʻa ana i kekahi mau kīnā o ke kino, nā pilikia aʻo, autism, hopohopo, OCD, trauma developmental, a i ʻole nā maʻi olakino ʻē aʻe, hoʻololi ʻia ka hakakā i kahi pae hou o ka paʻakikī.
Mai ke kaumaha kaumaha, kau mua ia ma luna ou ma ke ʻano he makua, i nā paʻakikī a ka ʻohana e alo ai; hāʻule nā mea āpau i waho o kahi e hānai nei i kahi keiki pono kūikawā.
Akā ma waena o kēia mau mea āpau, pono mākou āpau e ʻike i ka hana ʻana i nā mea i hāʻule i kahi e paʻakikī loa paha, akā ʻo nā keiki makua me nā pono kūikawā ʻaʻole hiki.
No laila, pehea e hana ai me kahi keiki pono kūikawā?
Hoʻomaopopo mākou i kou paio no nā keiki makua me nā pono kūikawā. I mea e kōkua ai iā ʻoe, ua hoʻokomo kēia alakaʻi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua ponoʻī nui e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike!
1. Mālama ponoʻī makua- ʻo ka mea maʻamau hou e pono ai kou ola
'Lelo lākou, ‘’ ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke ninini mai kahi kīʻaha ʻole.’’ ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka mālama pono ʻana o nā mākua.
Kākoʻo ia i ka manaʻo no ke kōkua a me ka mālama ʻana o kekahi i kekahi, pono e mālama kekahi iā lākou iho i mea e hiki ai ke hana piha i kā lākou mau hana.
ʻAʻole ia he hūnā hūnā e mālama ai nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā i ke koʻikoʻi nui - me ka naʻau, a me ke kino e like me ko lākou makemake nui e koi ai i nā lilo kiʻekiʻe e mālama ʻia.
No laila, ua aʻo ikaika ʻia e ʻimi nā mākua i loko o kēlā ʻohana i nā hana hohonu, aloha pilikino.
Eia kekahi, he mea nui e hana pēlā no ka mea kōkua ia e hoʻopau i nā kiʻekiʻe loa o ke koʻikoʻi i loko o ia mau ʻohana; hānai ʻia i ke keiki kūikawā pū kekahi.
No laila, he manawa wale nō i kēlā me kēia lā. E hōʻoia e hana i nā mea e hauʻoli ai a hoʻomaha pinepine ai hoʻi.
2. E lawe ʻia kekahi mau hoʻololi i kou ola
ʻO ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā e alakaʻi pinepine i kahi ola i ka puʻuwai. He mea nui e hōʻoia i ka hana ʻana he mea ʻole ia ma ka hana hewa wale nō.
E hele i nā wahi no ka huakaʻi ʻana a me ka leʻaleʻa e like me kāu ma mua.
Hoʻopili a hele a puni e like me kāu inā he keiki maʻamau kāu. Eia nō naʻe, e nānā pono i nā ana ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana.
Paipai ʻia ʻoe e komo i nā ʻano hana like ʻole me kāu keiki e alakaʻi ʻia no nā ʻohana kūikawā me nā pono mālama kūikawā. Paipai ʻia ʻoe e launa pū me kāu mau hoaaloha, a hui pū me kāu keiki me nā poʻe.
ʻAʻole wale kēia e kōkua i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ke koʻikoʻi a kekahi e hana pū ai akā nā hopena i ka hilinaʻi a ke keiki a me ka hopohopo kaiāulu liʻiliʻi.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo kāu pahuhopu e hana i kāu keiki e ʻike he 'kūikawā' a ʻaʻole kūikawā. E ʻae i kāu keiki ma ke ʻano he kanaka maʻamau no ka mea, ʻo ka hopena, ʻaʻohe mea āpau wale nō mākou.
3. Hānai i nā pilina hoahānau
I loko o kahi ʻohana me kahi keiki pono kūikawā, e hoʻohuli hou ka manaʻo o nā mākua i ke keiki kūikawā. Hoʻomaopopo paha kēia i kāu poʻe keiki ʻē aʻe i ke ʻano ʻē a ʻemi a aloha ʻia paha.
No laila, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i kēlā me kēia keiki o kāu keiki i kahi nānā nui ʻole. E nīnau paha ʻoe iā lākou e pili ana i ka hele ʻana o kā lākou lā a heluhelu paha iā lākou i kā lākou moʻolelo moemoe punahele.
Akā, ʻoiai e hānai makua ana i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā, e hoʻolaʻa i kekahi manawa kūikawā i kāu poʻe keiki ʻē aʻe. He mea koʻikoʻi ia no lākou e noʻonoʻo like i ka nui, ke aloha, a me ka waiwai i ka ʻohana.
I ka manawa like, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe e pili ana i nā pono kūikawā o kā lākou kaikaina.
Unraveling pehea e kōkua ai i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā i kāu poʻe keiki ʻē aʻe i ka hohonu e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i kou pilikia. Me ka makahiki, hui pū paha lākou iā ʻoe e mālama i ko lākou kaikaina kūikawā.
I ka mua, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e pili iā lākou i nā hana leʻaleʻa e hana ai me ke keiki pono kūikawā. Paipai kēia i nā waiwai ʻohana, ke aloha, a me ke aloha.
4. Mai makaʻu i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua
ʻOi aku ke koʻikoʻi inā he makua hana ʻoe a makua makua paha me kahi keiki pono kūikawā. ʻO nā hana nui loa a nā mākua i ke keiki me ke kino kīnā e hoʻonui ʻia e nā manifold.
Pono nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā ma lalo o ka nānā ʻana a nā mākua i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i kahi mea mālama ke ala hope loa e kōkua iā ʻoe ma aneʻi inā he makua hana ʻoe a hoʻokahi paha.
E mālama i ka mea mālama o kāu keiki i ka nānā ʻana i nā hoʻokohu, nā hoʻāʻo, a me nā hana a kāu keiki e hele ai.
Mālama kēia i nā mea ma mua o ka mea a mākou e manaʻo ai.
Inā ʻoe e hānai makua ana i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he pono kāu e kōkua me kahi keiki pono kūikawā. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e lilo i superhero a hana i nā hana āpau iā ʻoe iho.
Nui nā kumuwaiwai, a loaʻa ke kākoʻo no nā mākua me nā keiki pono kūikawā, ma ka pūnaewele a ma waho pūnaewele hoʻi. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka launa ʻana i loko o nā ʻohana me kahi keiki kūikawā hiki ke hāʻawi i nā ʻike kūpono i ka hana ʻana i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā.
Hoʻopili ʻana
E like me ke kūkākūkā ʻana i nā ʻāpana i hala, ua luhi nā mākua me nā pono kūikawā, akā ʻaʻole hiki ʻole.
Mai lilo iā ʻoe iho i ke kaʻina o ke kōkua ʻana i nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā. E mālama pono iā ʻoe iho i mea e mālama pono ai i kāu mau keiki ma ke ala kūpono maikaʻi loa.
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