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- 1. Ke ʻimi nei akā ʻaʻole hopohopo
- 2. ʻO ʻoe iho
- 3. Hana hoa
- 4. Pili lōʻihi
- 5. Ke hana nei i ka launa mua
- 6. Mai makaʻu
- 7. Pane wikiwiki
- 8. E kāpae i ka moekolohe
- 9. Mai pāʻani a puni
- 10. Pūnaewele pāpili ma mua o ka hālāwai pilikino
- 11. Hana pū i kekahi hana
- 12. E ʻimi i ke kōkua
E ʻae kākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka launa pū ʻana o kēia lā ma mua o ka mea i hala ma mua o 5 mau makahiki i hala. I kēia mau makahiki 5, ua loli ka nui.
ʻO ka launa ʻana i kēia mau lā e hoʻomalu ʻia e nā pūnaewele pūnaewele a me nā polokalamu kelepona, e like me OkCupid a me Tinder. I kēia mau lā, ʻaʻole nui ka moe kolohe a maikaʻi ka hanauna ʻōpio me kēlā.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole maʻa mau nā mea no ka poʻe makemake e alualu i ke ʻano o ka hana maʻamau catholic dating. Ua ʻike lākou i ko lākou mau mākua a maopopo he ala kūleʻa kēia o ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi mea hiki ke hilinaʻi ʻia a kūpaʻa hoʻi iā ʻoe.
E nānā iā mākou pehea e hiki ai i kēia lā ʻenehana holomua.
1. Ke ʻimi nei akā ʻaʻole hopohopo
ʻAe, no laila he hoʻokahi ʻoe a keʻimi nei i kahi e noho pū ai. ʻAʻole ia e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ma ke kani ʻana a i ʻole ke hana neʻe ʻana e hoʻokuke wale aku ʻoe i ka mea hiki. Pono ʻoe e hāmama e hālāwai me nā poʻe hou akā ʻaʻole naʻe me ka hopohopo. ʻO kāu pahuhopu nui ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i ke Akua. E hoʻopili ʻo ia iā ʻoe me ke kāne kūpono i ka manawa kūpono.
2. ʻO ʻoe iho
Mai hoʻopunipuni wale i kekahi ʻaʻole ʻoe.
ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni ʻaʻole e lawe iā ʻoe ma kahi lōʻihi a ma hope e hōʻeha ʻoe i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe a me ke Akua. ʻAʻole hiki ke kau ʻia ka pilina ma ke kahua o ka wahaheʻe. No laila, e ʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho. Ma kēia ala ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i haʻi ʻē aʻe a hiki mai nā mea maikaʻi me ʻoe, i kekahi manawa koke.
3. Hana hoa
Hiki i ka Loneliness ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻowalewale ʻaʻole ia he ʻāpana o ka pilina maʻamau.
He mea paʻakikī ke kaohi i ka hoʻowalewale inā ʻoe wale a ʻaʻohe o ka nohona kaiaulu. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoaaloha me nā poʻe manaʻo like. E kōkua lākou iā ʻoe e kaohi i kāu hoʻowalewale a alakaʻi iā ʻoe i nā manawa a pau e pono ai.
Ke hoʻopuni ʻia ʻoe e ka poʻe like ʻole ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo mehameha a mamao aku kou noʻonoʻo mai nā ʻano mea hoʻoluhi.
4. Pili lōʻihi
Hoʻokumu ʻia ke kumu holoʻokoʻa o ka pili aloha ma ka launa lōʻihi.
ʻAʻohe o ka metodology pili aloha maʻamau i wahi no ka moekolohe maʻamau. No laila, ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i kekahi ma ka pūnaewele a i ʻole e hui ana me kekahi ma o ka kuhikuhi ʻana, e ʻike hoʻi aia kekahi e ʻimi nei i kahi mea nui. Inā ʻike ʻoe e ʻimi ʻolua i kahi mea ʻē aʻe, mai lawe hou i ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
5. Ke hana nei i ka launa mua
ʻO wai ka mea e hoʻouna i ka leka mua ma ka pūnaewele kahi nīnau paʻakikī. ʻĀ, maʻalahi ka pane i kēia; inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻikepili a makemake e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio, ma mua o ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi leka.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kani weliweli a he leka wale kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā hiʻohiʻona like ʻole o nā paepae pūnaewele e hōʻike i ko lākou ʻike i kou maka, e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi mea inu a waiho paha i kahi hanky i ka hoʻonohonoho maʻamau maʻamau.
6. Mai makaʻu
Ke neʻe nei ʻoe i mua me ka lula pili aloha catholic, pono ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu pulakaumaka e pili ana i kahi hoa pili pono ma hope.
Ua ʻike ke Akua i ka mea ʻoi loa no ʻoe a e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i kekahi e lilo i hoa ʻoiaʻiʻo nāu. No laila, pono ʻoe e aʻo e ʻae i ke kanaka me ka ʻole. E hoʻomanaʻo, aʻo mai ke Akua iā mākou e ʻae i ka poʻe e like me lākou, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo a me ka nīnau ʻana.
7. Pane wikiwiki
Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi kamaʻilio ʻana iā ʻoe, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā pane ʻoe i loko o 24 mau hola.
Ua lawe ka mea ʻē aʻe i ka manawa a ua hōʻike i ka hoihoi i kāu pili pūnaewele. ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e pānaʻi aku ai ka pane ʻana i loko o kahi lā a e ʻike iā lākou i kou manaʻo no ia.
8. E kāpae i ka moekolohe
Hiki paha ke kiʻi i ke kino ke aloha me kekahi, akā ʻaʻole ia e paipai ʻia.
Ke alakaʻi nei ka moekolohe i ka makua a pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kēia. Nui a hewahewa nā ala e hōʻike ai i ke aloha ma mua o ka moekolohe. E ʻimi i kēlā mau ʻano hana a mālama i ka moekolohe a hiki i ka manawa e mākaukau ai ʻoe e lilo i makua.
9. Mai pāʻani a puni
E kamaʻilio paha ʻoe me kekahi me ka ʻike naʻe ʻaʻole ʻoe hoihoi iā lākou. Maikaʻi paha kēia i kahi hanana aloha maʻamau e kamaʻilio ai ʻelua mau kanaka a ke kamaʻilio hele wale nei.
Eia nō naʻe, i ka pili Katolika ʻana, ʻaʻole maikaʻi iki kēia.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻopono i kēlā me kēia. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe hunaahi a ʻaʻole ʻoe e launa pū kekahi me kekahi, e ʻōlelo wale pēlā. ʻOiai ke Akua e noi mai iā mākou e kūʻiʻo iā mākou iho.
10. Pūnaewele pāpili ma mua o ka hālāwai pilikino
Aia nā kānaka āpau ma nā paepae pāpili kaiaulu.
Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e neʻe i waho o ka pūnaewele hoʻolauna a i ʻole mail app, a laila hoʻohui me kekahi i kekahi ma ka pāpili kaiapili ma mua o kāu hālāwai pilikino mua. ʻO kēia ala hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kekahi i kekahi a maopopo inā makemake ʻoe e hui.
Mai hui a ʻike ʻole ʻole ʻoe.
11. Hana pū i kekahi hana
ʻAʻole kōkua nā kamaʻilio ʻana iā ʻoe e lawe i kahi hoʻoholo maikaʻi aʻe.
Komo i loko o kekahi hana e like me ka leʻaleʻa a hele pū paha i ka hui o ka hale pule. ʻO ke komo ʻana i nā ʻano hana e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻimi i nā ʻano a me nā ʻano o kekahi.
12. E ʻimi i ke kōkua
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i nā kāhuna, nun a i ʻole mau kāne i hiki ke alakaʻi iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi. He mea nui e aʻo ʻoe e kaulike i kou ola ma mua o kou komo ʻana i kekahi ʻano pilina.
ʻO ka ʻike a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana pehea e kōkua ai i kekahi i kekahi.