Anter
- 1. E ʻike iā ʻoe iho
- 2. Hana me ka ʻoihana
- 3. He aha nā ʻano i loaʻa i kāu hoa hope loa,
- 4. ʻIke i ka makaʻu o ka noho hoʻokahi
E nānā a puni. Aloha nā kānaka āpau, koe wale nō no mākou.
Ua noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kēlā ala?
Ua ʻike ʻoe i kahi wale nō i ka honua o ke aloha, ke ʻike ʻia nā mea āpau akā ʻaʻole pēlā?
Inā he male ʻole ʻoe, pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai ʻoe ... Ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana i kēlā “pili pono”.
Kupanaha ka noho aloha ʻana.
ʻO ke aloha, e like me nā poʻe he nui, ke kumu o mākou ma ka honua.
Akā ʻoiaʻiʻo?
A he aha nā hewa maʻamau a mākou e hana ai, he aha ka HUAHU maʻamau maʻamau a mākou e hana ai ma hope o ka pau ʻana o kahi pilina, e hōʻoia ana i ka holomua hou ʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei ua hoʻopili mai kahi wahine ʻōpio iaʻu a hoʻolimalima iaʻu ma ke ʻano he kākāʻōlelo ma o Skype mai kahi ʻāina ʻē, ua huhū ʻo ia no ka mea ʻo ke kāne āna i aloha ai no kekahi mau makahiki i haʻalele iā ia i nā lā ʻehiku ma mua, ua haʻalulu loa, e like me kāna ʻōlelo. mai ka polū.
A i kēia manawa, makemake ʻo ia i ʻelua mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai iaʻu i kā mākou mau kau, no laila hiki iā ia ke lele hou i ka pāʻani o ke aloha.
Paʻa, haʻi wau iā ia.
"He aha ka lōʻihi awelika o ka manawa āu i hala ai, ua noi au, i ka manawa i pau ai kekahi pilina a hoʻomaka kāu mea hou?"
Ua kānalua ʻo ia, a laila haʻi mai iaʻu ʻo ka lōʻihi o kona noho kaʻawale ʻana he eono mahina. Akā ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka ʻole, pili ʻo ia i kahi pilina hou i loko o ʻekolu mau mahina.
A ʻo ia ka conservative. I loko o nā makahiki he 30 i hala aku nei i ka honua o ka ulu pilikino, ua ʻike au i ka nui a me ka nui o ka poʻe e lele ana mai kahi pilina a kekahi, me he mea lā, he nui ka poʻe i wae ʻia i kā lākou ipo hou ma mua o ka pūlima ʻia ʻana o ka hemo a i ʻole ko lākou pili aloha ʻana. pau ka pili.
I kā mākou hana pū ʻana, ua haʻi wau iā ia inā hoʻomau ʻo ia e hana hou i nā hiʻohiʻona o ka hele ʻana mai kekahi pilina i kahi pilina me ka hana ʻole ʻana i kahi hana ma waena, ʻo kāna helu kūleʻa ke kū pololei ma kahi o kēia manawa: zero.
No laila pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai mākou ma waena o nā pilina aloha? Maʻalahi. Kahi liʻiliʻi o 365 mau lā. Pau o ka ʻōlelo.
A no ke aha mai?
Ke pilikia nui nei ka honua o nā pilina, ʻōlelo nā helu helu he 41-50% a ʻoi aku paha o nā pili mua i pau i ka male male, 60-67% o nā pilina ʻelua i pau i ka male male a 73-74% o nā pilina ʻekolu i ka hemo male.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe? Loaʻa iā mākou kēia aloha a me ka pilina mea hewa.
Eia nā pōmaikaʻi o ka hemo ʻana i nā lā 365 ma ka hopena o kahi pilina, ma mua o ka hele ʻana i kahi aʻe:
1. E ʻike iā ʻoe iho
Nui nā manawa e nalowale mākou iā mākou iho i kahi pilina, e hana ana i nā mea he nui a kā mākou hoa makemake e hana ai, a me ka mālama ʻole ʻana i kā mākou mau pono ponoʻī. Kāohi i kēia manawa. E ʻike iā ʻoe iho. E aloha hou iā ʻoe iho.
2. Hana me ka ʻoihana
Hana pū me kahi kākāʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, kahu ola, kuhina i mea e ʻike ai i kāu kuleana i ka hana a me ka make ʻana o kāu pili hope.
ʻIke wau, maopopo iaʻu, ʻaʻohe ou kuleana, ʻo ia ka hewa a pau?
ʻAʻole kūpono iki. Ke hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ke kuleana āu i pāʻani ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke kala iā ʻoe iho a hoʻoholo e hana hou ʻole i kēlā mea i kēia mua aku.
Ua inu nui paha ʻoe? ʻO ʻoe ka mea hilinaʻi? He huhū paha ʻoe? Hoʻokaʻawale ʻoe, a pani i ka wā he paio?
Pono e hoʻopaʻa i kēia mau mea, ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe i kāu pūnaewele nastiness.
3. He aha nā ʻano i loaʻa i kāu hoa hope loa,
Kākau i kēia mau ʻano i lalo. ʻO kēlā me kēia mea. Kākau iā lākou i lalo. E ʻoluʻolu me kaʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kāu pakanā aʻe kekahi o kēia mau ʻano like ... A e hāʻawi ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi manawa kūpono i ke aloha.
4. ʻIke i ka makaʻu o ka noho hoʻokahi
Ke hele ʻoe no 365 mau lā me ka launa ʻole, maopopo ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka hemahema ... He aha ka makaʻu o ka noho hoʻokahi ʻana ... A hiki iā ʻoe ke haku i kēia mau pilikia ʻelua ma mua o kou hele ʻana i kahi pili aloha ʻē aʻe.
ʻ telllelo mau wau i kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku hoʻokahi, ke hiki iā lākou ke hele i nā lā nui, nā lā hānau, nā hoʻolauleʻa, nā male ʻana, nā hoʻolewa a me nā mea hou aku ʻē aʻe ... A hauʻoli e hana ana ... Ma kahi maikaʻi lākou e koho ai i kahi kanaka hauʻoli hou aʻe hoʻopaʻa me.
Akā inā he nele ʻoe, mehameha, hoʻohiki wau iā ʻoe e koho nō ʻoe i nā poʻe pōmaikaʻi like ʻole āu i hana ai i ka wā ma mua ... me kahi inoa ʻokoʻa a me ka helehelena.
I loko o kā mākou puke e kūʻai aku nei ma luna loa "ʻAnela ma kahi papa heʻe nalu: kahi puke mele aloha mystical e ʻimi nei i nā kī o ke aloha hohonu", ua hoʻowalewale ʻia ke alakaʻi alakaʻi Sandy Tavish e kēia wahine nani, a ua kono ʻo ia iā ia i kona hale no ka ʻaina ahiahi.
I loko o kahi mau minuke ke hele nei ʻo ia iā ia ma ke alaloa, pololei i loko o kona lumi moe e moe kolohe.
ʻLelo ʻo ia iā Sandy, ua hoʻopau wale ʻo ia i kahi pilina lōʻihi a i kēia manawa ua mākaukau ʻo ia no ka mea maoli, a ua koho ʻo ia iā Sandy i mea nāna e hōʻeha aʻe.
ʻO Sandy, ʻoiai e hoʻowalewale ʻia, ua haʻi aku iā ia he pono hou kāna manawa e hoʻōla ai, a ua ʻae ʻo ia me ka makemake ʻole.
ʻOiai paha e like paha kēia me ka'ōlelo aʻo koʻikoʻi, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohiki iā ʻoe e holo pono ia. E ʻike hou iā ʻoe iho. E aʻo pehea e hoʻonohonoho ai i nā palena olakino a me nā hopena i ke ola.
A ke hana ʻoe? E hāʻawi ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka manawa kūpono loa no kēlā pili aloha aloha āu e makemake ai.