Anter
- 1. E mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
- 2. ʻlelo
- 3. ʻAeʻe e kūlike ʻole
- 4. Hele pū i ka Haku
- 5. E hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia
- 6. Mai kāhea aku i kāu wahine me nā inoa hoʻohaʻahaʻa
- 7. E paipai i kāu wahine
- 8. Pono ʻoe i kōkua
- 9. ʻAʻole kou ʻenemi kou ʻenemi
- 10. ʻAʻohe mea i hiki ke lanakila i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
- 11. E maʻa i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kekahi i kekahi
ʻAʻole maikaʻi iki ke aʻo ʻana, keu hoʻi ke pili i ka pili.
Hiki mai kahi manawa i ka male ʻana a ʻolua paha clueless e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana a maopopo ʻole ma hea a pehea e lawe ai i nā mea i mua. E paʻakikī paha inā he haipule ʻoe.
Nui a hewahewa nā aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male Karistiano a puni, nānā ka mea āpau iā ia.
Eia nō naʻe, pīhoihoi ka manaʻo o kahi kāne Karistiano e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ka ʻōlelo aʻo Kristiano ma muli o ka male ʻana.
1. E mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
No kahi kāne male, pono ia e mahalo lākou i kēlā me kēia.
He kūleʻa ka male ʻana ke kau nei nā mea ʻelua i ka nui o ka manawa a me ka hoʻoikaika e hana i nā mea i holo pono.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka male ʻana. Nui nā kuleana a me nā mea e pono ai i kekahi ke komo i kā lākou hana maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā. No laila, ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e mahalo i kekahi i kekahi, hiki mai ke ʻano o ke kuleana a ʻike ʻoe i kahi loli.
2. ʻlelo
ʻOiai ʻoe e hele i waho no kahi aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano, e ʻōlelo lākou iā ʻoe i ka hopena like i nā pilikia āpau āu.
ʻLelo mai. Lawe pinepine mākou i nā mea a manaʻo ʻole he maopopo i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole paha iā lākou. No laila, i mea e mōakāka ai, pono mākou e ʻōlelo, e pili ana i nā pilikia a mākou e kū nei a me nā pilikia i loaʻa iā mākou. Mālama kēia i ka ʻike o kāu hoa i kāu pilikia a ma laila e kōkua iā ʻoe, i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai.
3. ʻAeʻe e kūlike ʻole
ʻAʻole pono e ʻōlelo i ka mea kūpono i nā manawa āpau. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo nui ʻoe a i ʻole manaʻo i nā mea āpau.
I kekahi manawa, ʻae ʻoe e kūlike ʻole. ʻO kahi laʻana, manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia ʻo ka pālule ʻeleʻele ke nānā aku iā ia ke akamai, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae i kēia. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana a kaʻana ʻana paha i kēia me ka leo nui e alakaʻi ai i nā paio a i ʻole discomforts i kāu hoa.
No laila, ma kahi o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā lākou, e noho mālie a waiho i nā mea. I ka hopena, pili ko lākou hauʻoli, ʻeā?
4. Hele pū i ka Haku
Ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano, he mea nui e pule ʻoe a kipa pū paha i ka hale pule. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i ka manawa kūpono a me ka maikaʻi me ka Haku e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli a me ka hōʻoluʻolu.
Ke hana pū ʻoe i nā mea, ʻike ʻoe i ka hauʻoli i kāu male ʻana.
5. E hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia
Ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano manuahi, ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa e hana ai i kekahi mea ke alo pū aku iā ia. Aia paha he mau manawa e hakakā nei ʻoe me nā mea i kou ola male.
Ma kahi o ka heʻe ʻana mai ka pilikia, e alo i mua. E kamaʻilio i kāu pakanā a kūkākūkā i ka pilikia āu i ʻike ai a hoʻāʻo e loaʻa i kahi hopena iā ia.
6. Mai kāhea aku i kāu wahine me nā inoa hoʻohaʻahaʻa
I kēia lā, ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo nui ma mua o ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi mea. ʻ saylelo wale mākou ia a mihi ma hope.
ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike akā i nā huaʻōlelo hoʻohaʻahaʻa e kau i kāu wahine i kahi kūlana weliweli a manaʻo ʻino lākou. ʻAʻole kūpono iki ke hana pēlā.
No laila, e hoʻopau koke ia a noʻonoʻo i kēia ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi o ka aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano.
7. E paipai i kāu wahine
Pono kēlā me kēia kanaka i ka paipai a i ʻole kaomi iki i kekahi manawa i ko lākou ola. ʻImi wale lākou no ke kākoʻo i hiki ai iā lākou ke lanakila i ka honua.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ia manawa kūpono, lele i loko. Kākoʻo i kāu wahine a paipai iā ia i ke ala ʻoi loa e hiki ai.
8. Pono ʻoe i kōkua
ʻO ka hana mua e ʻimi ai i ka ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano e ʻae ʻoe he kōkua ʻoe. ʻO ka mea e ʻimi nei i ke kōkua, loaʻa iā ia.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua maikaʻi ʻoe āpau a ʻaʻole pono i kahi kōkua akā ʻoiai ʻo ka hele ʻana o kāu male i loko o kahi pōloli nui o nā pilikia, ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe. No laila, ʻae he pono ʻoe i ke kōkua a e ʻike ʻoe ia manawa.
9. ʻAʻole kou ʻenemi kou ʻenemi
He mea ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka male ʻana ke lilo i hanana paʻakikī. Aia kekahi mau manawa ke hele ʻoe ma lalo o ka ikaika nui akā akā pono ʻoe e hana.
He mea ʻole ia, ʻaʻohe ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano e nānā i kāu ʻenemi i ʻenemi. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e nānā iā lākou ma ke ʻano o kāu ʻōnaehana kākoʻo i laila e kōkua iā ʻoe i kahi manawa maikaʻi ʻole.
ʻO ka lā āu e ʻae ai, e hoʻomaka ana nā mea e hoʻomaikaʻi.
10. ʻAʻohe mea i hiki ke lanakila i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ka hana paʻakikī loa. Eia naʻe, ke aʻo mai nei ka Baibala iā mākou e pono i kekahi me kekahi, ʻoiai he aha.
No laila, pono ʻoe e hoʻopono me kāu wahine e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopunipuni iā lākou, ʻoiai he aha. A inā ʻoe e manaʻo he manaʻo ʻē aʻe kāu, pono ia e kipa no ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male Karistiano i ka wā mua loa.
11. E maʻa i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kekahi i kekahi
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu o ka male maikaʻi ʻana o ka hoʻolohe ʻana o nā kāne me kekahi.
E nānā pono i kāu mau kāne e ʻōlelo nei a kaʻana like ana. I kekahi manawa, hoʻonā ʻia ka hapalua o ka pilikia ma ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kekahi i kekahi.
E nui ana nā kānalua a me nā hopohopo ʻoiai e hele ana no ka ʻolelo aʻoaʻo male Karistiano. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kāu i kāu nīnau ponoʻī o nā nīnau aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo Karistiano a nīnau aku i ka loea me kāu kānalua.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻole ke hele no hoʻokahi inā ʻoe e hele ma waena o kahi male paʻakikī.