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- He aha ka hana a ka makua co-makua me kahi hoa narcissist?
- Loaʻa i kahi narcissist ma ke ʻano he hoa
- ʻAʻohe narcissism, ʻaʻohe paʻakikī
- Pehea ka narcissist ma ke ʻano he makua i nā keiki
I ka makahiki i hala, e hele ana wau i kahi pāʻina. ʻAʻole wau e nalo iaʻu no ka mea he mau pōpō kupaianaha kā lākou! ʻAʻole wau i ʻaʻahu ʻia, kikoʻī no ka hanana, ʻokoʻa i ke koena o ka poʻe. ʻAʻole wau e noʻonoʻo pono no ka mea he kuleana ko kēlā me kēia.
E hauʻoli ana wau i ke awakea hoʻoilo nani a me nā mele maikaʻi me kaʻu kāne a me kaʻu mau kaikamahine ke ʻike wau i kahi kāne ʻōpio a nani hoʻi e komo ana i ka pāʻina.
Ua nānā maikaʻi loa lākou, a ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he maka nani ia. Ua hoʻomaka lākou e hui a aloha aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka pāʻina, a ʻoiai, ʻo ia ka manawa kūpono loa e kiʻi ai iā lākou iho.
ʻOiai wau e mahalo malū nei iā lākou no ko lākou wā ʻōpio a me ko lākou ikaika, i ka manawa koke, ua ʻike wau i kahi keiki, e pili ana i ka makahiki o kaʻu kaikamahine ʻōpio, me ka lole humuhumu wāwae e hele ana ma lalo o ke aka o ka wahine.
Me he mea lā ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ke keiki e ka poʻe āpau i ka pāʻina, ʻoiai i kona mau mākua.
Ke neʻe wikiwiki nei lākou mai kekahi wahi ai kahi ʻē aʻe, me ka maopopo e huikau me ka lehulehu, a paʻakikī i ke keiki e hoʻomau i kā lākou ala, a hoʻomau ʻo ia i ka ʻauana mai iā lākou.
Ua hoʻohoka koke ʻia wau e ka ʻike.
Maliʻa paha he mea e pili ana iaʻu me ka lilo ʻana i makua a i mea aʻo hoʻi no kekahi manawa nui o ka manawa.
ʻO ka ʻike o ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi ʻole i paʻa i loko o kuʻu poʻo. Ua hoʻomaka wau e haʻohaʻo e pili ana i ka ʻokoʻa loa ma waena o kona mokuʻāina a me nā mākua. ʻĀ, ma ka liʻiliʻi ua leʻaleʻa lāua ʻelua a noho pū i loko.
No laila, ʻo ia kēlā He aha ka hana ke lilo ka makua narcissist i makua.
ʻO ka hāpai ʻana i kahi keiki me kahi hoa narcissist a i ʻole ke kaʻana like ʻana i ka mālama me kahi narcissist hiki ke lilo i mea paʻakikī loa, hāʻawi ʻia e ʻike mau paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hakakā ana e hoʻokomo i kāu hoa narcissistic i loko o ke ola o kāu keiki.
E nānā pū kekahi:
He aha ka hana a ka makua co-makua me kahi hoa narcissist?
Mahalo wau, pehea e pili ana i kahi kūlana i ke aloha o kekahi makua iā lākou iho, a ʻo kekahi e pani no ia.
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, pili ka mākua i ka pono ʻole, ka hoʻokō, a me ke aʻo ʻana e aloha i kekahi ma mua o ka nui iā ʻoe iho.
Pili ka hana makua i ka hana nui a luhi hoʻi. E wāwahi ʻoe iā ʻoe, wāwahi ʻoe iā ʻoe a hoʻopau iā ʻoe, akā i ka hopena o ka lā, pono ia.
Iaʻu, ʻo ka lilo ʻana i makua e pili ana i ka makemake o ʻelua mau kānaka e noho paʻa a hui pū e kaʻana like i ke aloha.
Ae! He hana hui pū ia, mai ka manawa o ka hāpai ʻana a i kou hanu hope loa. ʻAʻohe hoʻi i hope, ʻaʻohe kīnā i waho, ʻaʻohe mea i manaʻo ʻia, a ʻaʻohe palena, aloha aloha palena ʻole.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka pahuhopu nui loa o ka noho pū ʻana me ka narcissistic ex-wahine a kāne paha e nānā mau i ka palekana o ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino o kāu keiki.
Koi ka poʻe Narcissistic i ka mālama ʻana a hele i kekahi lōʻihi e manipulate i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a inā kū ʻoe iā lākou a hoʻāʻo paha e loaʻa hou ka mana, e pau paha ka pōʻino.
No laila ʻaʻole paha ke ala pololei e lilo i hopena ʻoi loa no ka 'pehea e kū ai me kahi kāne a wahine a narcissistic paha.'
Loaʻa i kahi narcissist ma ke ʻano he hoa
Ke lilo nei i makuahine he mea nui loa ia.
Ke ʻeha nei ʻoe; ʻaʻohe ou helehelena a me ke akamai. ʻO ka mea hope loa āu e makemake ai i kēlā manawa ke ʻano o ke aloha ʻole ʻia.
ʻOiai no ka makuakāne, ʻaʻole maʻalahi. Lilo ʻoe i ka nānā a me ke aloha āpau ʻole āu i hauʻoli ai ma mua o kou lilo ʻana i makuakāne.
Pono ʻoe e ʻoi aku ke kuleana a noho ikaika.
Akā malia paha, idealistic loa wau i ka ʻōlelo ʻana pēlā. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kēia ka hihia.
ʻOi loa i ke au o ka pāpaho kaiaulu kahi e hiki ai iā mākou ke make no nā makemake a me nā "awwwsss!" a “aahhhhs!” a "nani kou nānā ʻana!"
He aha inā inā paʻa kekahi i kahi kūlana kahi e hoʻomanawanui ai i ka ʻike weliweli o ka noho pū ʻana me ka narcissist? ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaka e noʻonoʻo i ka weliweli o ka hana ʻana me kahi hoa hanauna narcissist.
ʻAʻohe narcissism, ʻaʻohe paʻakikī
Hoʻomaopopo wau i koʻu wā he makua hou, ʻo kaʻu kāne koʻu ikaika.
ʻO kāna aloha a me kona aloha i mālama iaʻu. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana iā ia a puni i maʻalahi i nā mea a lilo i makua, kahi hauʻoli. ʻAʻole like kēia no ka nui o nā kāne ʻē aʻe a puni iaʻu.
I kekahi mau hihia, mālama kiʻekiʻe loa nā makuahine a ʻaʻole mākaukau e haʻalele i kā lākou nohona hanohano. I nā hihia ʻē aʻe, ua piha nā makuakāne iā lākou iho e kākoʻo i kā lākou wahine. Ka hopena?
ʻO nā male ma luna o nā pōhaku a me nā keiki i haʻalele ʻole ʻia kahi huahana o ka noho pū ʻana me ka makua narcissist.
Pehea ka narcissist ma ke ʻano he makua i nā keiki
Ua ʻike wau i ka ʻaoʻao makaʻu loa o ke kiʻi ke lilo wau i kumu. Ma mua o ke lilo ʻana i kumu, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaka e noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o kēia ʻano no ke keiki.
Hoʻolohe wau i kēlā me kēia lā i kaʻu poʻe haumāna e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me ko lākou ʻike. ʻO ka mea makaʻu loa ʻaʻole hāʻule ka ʻōpela mai kahi kumu lāʻau.
I kahi narcissist, ʻo lākou ke kikowaena o ke ao, a ke hana nei lākou i ka honua i kahi makemake nui e aloha iā lākou iho. Hana lākou i kahi hopena, akā ʻaʻole paʻakikī ia.
Ua like ia me ka hopena ripple
Lawe ia i hoʻokahi kanaka ponoʻī, hoʻokahi wale nō, e hōʻino ʻia ke ola o nā poʻe he nui.
Hoʻokahi kanaka ponoʻī e alakaʻi i kahi ʻohana hauʻoli ʻole; alakaʻi hoʻokahi ʻohana hauʻoli ʻole i kahi kaiāulu hauʻoli ʻole, a pēlā nō e holo nei. Ka hopena? Nui ka poʻe hauʻoli ʻole, palekana ʻole i ke kaiāulu.
Inā makemake ʻoe e aloha ʻia, pono ʻoe e kaʻana like ma mua o ka mālama ʻana a me ka puaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iho. Hilinaʻi iaʻu; e hoʻi hou ia i ou lā.