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- Hana: Kūkākūkā hou e pili ana i ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka maikaʻi ʻole
- Mai hana: Loaʻa nā kumuhana i "palena ʻole"
- Hana: Kaʻana i kāu mau loiloi me ke aloha
- Mai hana: E lawe i kahi kamaʻilio hakakā i ka manawa kūpono ʻole
- Hana: E kala aku
- Mai hana: E manaʻo ʻoe he heluhelu heluhelu kāu wahine
ʻAʻohe kānalua ke kamaʻilio ʻana kekahi o nā ʻāpana paʻakikī o ke kākoʻo ʻana i kahi male olakino. Ke hala nei ka manawa, hoʻomaʻamaʻa nā kāne i kekahi i kekahi a manaʻo e maopopo i kā lākou counterpart i ko lākou manaʻo i nā manawa āpau. Hōʻalo pū nō hoʻi nā kāne me kekahi mau kumuhana e kāpae i ka hakakā a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio paʻakikī. Kūlohelohe ka makemake e hōʻalo i nā hakakā, akā i kekahi manawa e hōʻalo i nā hakakā ma aneʻi a ke alakaʻi nei i kahi hakakā nui ma ke ala.
Nui nā lua i kēia manawa i kēlā me kēia kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ʻana i hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia. Akā me kēlā me kēia puka e kū nei i ka kamaʻilio ʻana o nā kāne male, nui nā ala e hāʻawi ai i kēlā ʻike. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i kahua mānoanoa e hoʻokele, me nā landmine e kakali nei no kāu hana hewa hou aʻe ma ke ʻano o kahi paio a i ʻole kahi manaʻo i lawe hewa ʻia.
E nānā mākou i kekahi mau hana a me nā hana ʻole o pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai i kāu wahine. ʻAʻole ʻehaʻeha e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu mau kamaʻilio kamaʻilio ʻana, no laila e makaʻala i nā hewa i kāu ala i kāu heluhelu ʻana iā lākou.
Hana: Kūkākūkā hou e pili ana i ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka maikaʻi ʻole
ʻIke wau, ʻaʻole like kēia me he mea ʻole, akā maʻalahi loa ia e hana hewa nā poʻe he nui i ka ʻōlelo ʻana wale nō inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole e kaʻana. E hoʻohana i kāu mau huaʻōlelo i ke ala aloha a hoʻoleʻaleʻa e like me ka hiki. E haʻi aku i kāu wahine ua maikaʻi ʻo ia i kēlā mau jeans. E haʻi i kāu kāne ke uʻi ʻo ia i kēia lā. E haʻi i kāu wahine i kou aloha iā lākou.
Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio pū ana me kāu wahine e pili ana i nā mea maikaʻi pinepine, e mele paha lākou a mahalo i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai inā makemake ʻoe e hōʻike i kou huhū i kekahi mea. Inā badger ʻoe iā lākou e pili ana i ka hoʻopili ʻana o lākou, e hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻokau iā ʻoe.
Mai hana: Loaʻa nā kumuhana i "palena ʻole"
Inā aia kekahi mea mai iā ʻoe a i ʻole o ka wā o ka wahine i hala ʻole, hiki ke lilo i ao ʻeleʻele ma luna o kāu pili o kēia manawa. ʻO kekahi o nā perks o ka male ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like me ka ʻole me ka makaʻu ʻole i ka hoʻokolokolo ʻia.
Ke hāʻawi nei i kahi kumuhana a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka lepili o nā "palena palena ʻole" e hoʻohālikelike me he mea lā he ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole kahi huna e makemake ʻole ai kekahi e kamaʻilio. Hōʻalo i ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia mau hakahaka i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ʻole e hoʻokahuli ka hūnā i ka pilina a hana i kahi haunaele ma hope.
Hana: Kaʻana i kāu mau loiloi me ke aloha
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe hauʻoli e pili ana i ka hana a kāu wahine a pehea e kamaʻilio ai iā ʻoe, e hoʻokokoke i ke kamaʻilio ʻana mai kahi wahi mahana a aloha. I mea e lilo ai ke kamaʻilio i mea hua, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele mai me ka uē ʻana, ke ʻuwā ʻana, a me ka hōʻino ʻana i ke ʻano o kāu hoa.
E hōʻike i kāu loiloi ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi o kā lākou hana, ʻaʻole kekahi o ko lākou ʻano. Pono lākou e ʻike aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka ʻoiai lākou, mai mahalo wale i ka mea a lākou i hana ai a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo a lākou i ʻōlelo ai. He ʻokoʻa maʻa mau ia, akā ʻo ka hōʻeha ʻana i ko lākou ʻike e hoʻohilahila i ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
Laʻana:
Nā loiloi o ke ʻano: “He helehelena ʻoe.”
ʻO ka loiloi o ka hana: “ʻO ʻoe nō hana e like me ka ʻalalā. ”
ʻO kēlā loli liʻiliʻi kahi ala aloha a mahalo hoʻi e ʻōlelo ai i kāu hōʻoluʻolu ʻole. Hoʻouka pinepine i ka hana, ʻaʻole ka mea nāna i hana.
ʻO ka kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ʻana ma waena o nā kāne he pilikia nui ia. Hiki i ke kau hewa ʻana a hoʻohana paha i nā huaʻōlelo ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa nui a hāʻawi i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kahi mea nui i loko o kahi hakakā lōʻihi ma waena o nā hoa. ʻO ke koho maikaʻi ʻole ʻana o nā huaʻōlelo i ka wā o ke kamaʻilio pinepine ʻana ma ke ʻano he kumu hoʻohuli no ka hemo.
I ka male ʻana, pono ʻoe e makaʻala i ka mea a pehea ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai.
Mai hana: E lawe i kahi kamaʻilio hakakā i ka manawa kūpono ʻole
Aia kekahi mau manawa i loko o kāu male e pono ai ʻoe e loaʻa ka puʻuwai me ka puʻuwai me kāu wahine. Inā hana hewa lākou, e kākau i ka manaʻo no kēlā hana hewa, a laila e lawe mai i kahi manawa ke kiʻekiʻe ʻole ka naʻau a loaʻa ka manawa e kamaʻilio ai ʻolua. ʻO ka mea nui a ke kanaka e hana ai ke pane koke i kā lākou kuhihewa koke, akā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻonā pinepine i ka pilikia. E kali a hiki i ke poʻo poʻo ʻelua a hiki ke kūkākūkā i ka pilikia e like me nā mākua.
Eia kekahi, mai lawe i kahi kamaʻilio e pono ai ka manawa e hoʻomohala i ka wā e holo ana ʻolua i ka puka e hana a i ʻole kekahi mea paʻa. E waiho wale kēia i kahi pali i kahi kamaʻilio i ka male ʻana i hiki ke hōʻeha i ka hala ʻana o ka lā. E hōʻoia e koho ʻoe i kahi kiko i ka manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i lalo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a hāmama me ka makaʻu ʻole i ka pau ʻana o ka manawa.
Hana: E kala aku
He paʻa paʻa ka male ʻana, a e hoʻopili ʻia kēia me nā kuee he nui. Ke hōʻike ʻia ka pilikia mai ʻoe a i ʻole kāu wahine, e hana i ke kala ʻana. ʻO ka paʻa ʻana o ka huhū e like paha me kahi hoʻolālā kani, akā pehea ka lōʻihi o kou ʻae ʻana e hoʻopaʻa i ka mea āna i ʻōlelo ai i kahi mea e pili ana i kou makuahine? Pehea ka lōʻihi o kou makemake e noho me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kekahi kaumaha?
ʻAʻole kūpono ia.
E huhū, huhū, a hoʻopono e pili ana i ka manaʻo o kāu wahine iā ʻoe, a laila e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kala ʻana i kēlā kanaka. ʻAʻole hoʻokuʻu wale ke kala iā lākou i ka lawehala, akā hoʻokuʻu ia iā ʻoe i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i kēlā mau huhū.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka paʻa ʻana o ka huhū no ka manawa lōʻihi hiki ke hoʻolei maoli i ke aka o ke kānalua no nā kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ma waena o nā kāne.
Mai hana: E manaʻo ʻoe he heluhelu heluhelu kāu wahine
Heʻoiaʻiʻo, ua male ʻoe no 25 mau makahiki, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo hiki i kekahi ʻaoʻao ke hoʻohana telepathy e ʻike i loko o ka manaʻo o haʻi. Inā he mea kāu i kou manaʻo, a ʻaʻole e ʻohiʻohi kāu hoa iā ia, e kuhikuhi pololei.
Eia hou, ʻo ka hōʻike o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male e pono e hoʻokō ʻia i kahi ala mālama i ʻole e pale aku nā hoa ʻelua i ka pane. Akā, mai noho, hoʻolapalapa, a hoʻowahāwahā i kāu hoa no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e ʻohi i kāu ʻano.
ʻLelo mai. Pinepine. Mai kali iā lākou e wehe iā ʻoe a peek i loko o kou lolo. Pono ʻoe e ʻōwili i ke kinipōpō ke hiki mai i nā kamaʻilio āu e manaʻo ai e pono. E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe inā aloha lākou iā ʻoe, hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā mea e hana nei ma waena o kāu mau pepeiao. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā ʻoe i aloha lākou lawa, kōkua ʻoe iā lākou i waho a haʻi iā lākou i ka mea e hana nei. ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e pale aku i ka huhū mai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. E hoʻohana i kēlā waha o kou!