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- Ka mea nui o ka lā pō i ka pilina
- He aha ka pō lā no nā kāne male?
- He aha ka mea e pono ai i ka pō lā?
- Ke hoʻolilo nei i nā pō lā i mea nui
He lā wau me kekahi kāne wela i kēia pō. Hoʻokomo wau i koʻu lole pāʻina, ʻala leʻaleʻa, a hoʻoluliluli i koʻu lauoho mai kaʻu huelo maʻamau. Nānā wau me ka ʻiʻini a me ka ʻiʻini i loko o kaʻu mau ipo aloha i nā maka ʻeleʻele ma o ka papa ʻaina kukui ... Hoʻomaopopo wau i ke kumu o koʻu male ʻana i kēia kāne nani a aloha i nā makahiki i hala.
Ka mea nui o ka lā pō i ka pilina
Ke noho ʻoe i loko o nā ʻauwaha, e hānai ana i nā keiki me ka manawa a me nā kumuwaiwai palena ʻole, mai hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i kekahi lā ʻo ʻolua wale nō, e leʻaleʻa nei kekahi i kekahi.
ʻAe ʻae kēlā me kēia therapist male ma ʻAmelika i kēlā me kēia pō o ka pule hebedoma a me nā huakaʻi hele ʻelua mai nā keiki e pili hou a ulu i ka male.
He aha ka pō lā no nā kāne male?
ʻO ke kauoha "pō lā" ʻaʻole like ia he hiki ʻole a he mea nui a maʻalahi hoʻi. He aha ka pō lā no nā kāne male? Kōkua nā pō lā i ka wai i ka mea kanu male ma ka nānā hou ʻana i nā aʻa, ka momona ʻana i ka lepo a hāʻawi iā ia i ka lā a me ka wai e pono e ulu.
Eia naʻe, he nui ka poʻe o mākou e kau i nā pō lā ma ka hope hope o ke ola ʻohana. ʻAʻohe pō lā me ke kāne ke nui nā koi o ka hānai ʻana o ke keiki, nā kumu waiwai palena ʻole, nā mea mālama pēpē iā ʻoe? Aʻole! Hana wale nō!
Me ka pō ʻole o ka lā no ka hānai ʻana o nā kāne i kā lāua male, ua like lāua me nā hoa noho. ʻO nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma luna o ka mea nāna i hoʻopau ka ipu holoi holoi hope loa, a me nā paio ma luna o ka pila uila, i hopena i ka laʻa wāwahi e wāwahi pinepine ai ka hui me hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau hoa ʻē e manaʻo nui ʻia ana.
He aha ka mea e pono ai i ka pō lā?
No laila, he aha ka pō lā no nā kāne male? Ke hele nei i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, hoʻomaʻamaʻa a hana ʻauhau paha? ʻAʻohe mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa e aʻoaʻo i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i ka pō, e hoʻopau ana i nā ʻauhau i hala a i ʻole ʻo ka hoʻōla ʻana a nā kāne ma ke ʻano he manaʻo maikaʻi loa no ka pō.
Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole nā pō lā ka manawa e hoʻopaʻapaʻa a kālele ana i ka hemahema o kāu hoa a me nā hemahema o ke ʻano.
Maliʻa paha ke kia ʻana i kāu hui ʻana e hoʻopuka i nā pilikia a me nā ʻokoʻa, manaʻo ʻia nā pō lā e mālamalama a me FUN!
Ke hoʻolilo nei i nā pō lā i mea nui
Ma kahi o kahi noho ʻana i ka pō i loko o kahi hōkele kūloko, kahi pīkino aloha ma ka pāka, a i ʻole kahi ʻahamele coffeehouse ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā manaʻo o ka pō inā pili hou ka pahuhopu, pili pili, a ʻae hoʻi i ka moekolohe. ʻO nā male olakino maikaʻi loa aʻu e ʻike nei ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻolilo i ka pō lā i mea nui i kēlā me kēia pule ma loko o ka male.
ʻO kahi neurosurgeon hana nui a me kāna wahine i kahi pō o ka pule hebedoma e kiʻi me kekahi i kekahi a kūkākūkā i kā lāua mau keiki 5 mai kahi male i hoʻohui ʻia. Hoʻoholo lākou e kiʻi pololei i ka manawa ʻelua. Hoka kēia mau kāne ke kū mai nā hakakā ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia i ka pō o kēlā me kēia pule.
Ke nānā nei i kā māua male, ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki i kaʻu kāne momona ke hana i nā hana he nui i nā kuleana a me nā koi o ka hanauna ʻohana, makuakāne i nā keiki he 3, keikikāne i nā mākua ʻelemakule, a me ke kāne noʻonoʻo. ʻAʻole au i manaʻo he laha ʻo ia i kēia mea.
I kēia manawa ua līlī ʻia kaʻu kāne, ua hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi i ka manawa kūpono a me ka noʻonoʻo nui e hoʻomau i ka ulu ʻana o kā mākou male. Pōmaikaʻi wau i ka "kau ʻana i laila" ma loko o ka holo kaʻa lola o ka male a manaʻo wau e hiki mai ana nā makahiki ʻoi loa o ka male.
Eia nō naʻe, makemake wau e koi aku i nā pō o kēlā me kēia pule e hōʻoluʻolu a paʻa i ka holo o ka male. He kumu kūʻai ka uku. ʻO nā pō lā ka mea hōʻiliʻili e ʻike maoli a ʻike i kāu wahine a hoʻomau i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa o ka male.