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- E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
- E aʻo pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia
- Kūkulu a mālama i ke kamaʻilio kūpono
- Kūkākūkā i nā kālā o ka male ma kahi palekana
- E wehe hou i ka lāʻau
- E palekana ma mua o ke kala
- He mea koʻikoʻi ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a Newlywed i ka male hauʻoli
ʻO ka lā male kahi lā hauʻoli loa i ke ola o kahi kāne ʻelua. Hoʻopiha pū ʻia nā lā a me nā mahina ma hope o ka lā male me ka pīhoihoi a me ka hauʻoli i ka wā e hauʻoli ai ka wahine i ka manawa o ka meli.
ʻO ka Crapples therapy no nā kāne hou ka mea hope loa i ka manaʻo o ka wahine male.
ʻIke ka hapa nui o nā kāne i ka therapy therapy ma ke ʻano he hopena hope loa inā loaʻa nā pilikia male. Eia nō naʻe, hiki i ka hoʻōla male ke pale pono i nā pilikia o ka male inā e alualu mua ʻia i ka male.
Ke komo nei ʻoe i loko o ka male me kāu hoa ola prospective, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i nā pilikia e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio i ka therapy a nā kāne a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aʻo e kūkulu i kahi hui hauʻoli me kāu hoa me nā manaʻo ʻole, nā pilikia, ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana.
E heluhelu e ʻike e pili ana i nā mea a nā kāne e mālama ai no ka wahine hou e hoʻopaʻa ai.
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
Hiki i nā kāne hou ke loaʻa ka manaʻo, ka moekolohe a me ke kālā paha. Ke kamaʻilio ʻole ʻia, lilo nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a hoʻomaka e ulu ka hoka.
Hoʻokomo kēlā me kēia hoa i kahi pilina me kekahi mau mea i manaʻo ʻia.
I nā kāne a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa no nā kāne hou, hiki i nā hoa ke kaʻanalike i kā lākou manaolana i kahi lewa a kūlike ʻole.
ʻO kahi pahuhopu o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa male no nā kāne hou e kiʻi i kēlā me kēia hoa e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio maʻalahi iā lākou iho.
ʻOiai e hāʻawi ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo aʻoi kūpono, hiki i ka mea hoʻoponopono ke kōkua i kēlā me kēia wahine e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e ka wahine ʻē aʻe.
Hāʻawi ka Couples therapy no nā kāne hou i kahi manawa kūpono i nā mea ʻelua e komo ana i ka male, e hoʻonohonoho i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole e manaʻo nui ʻia ma hope.
E aʻo pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia
ʻO ke aʻo ʻana pehea e hoʻonā ai i nā pilikia i ka male ʻana hiki ke kōkua nui i ka pilina e ulu. ʻAʻohe kānalua e hiki mai nā pilikia. He kaʻao ia no ka pilikia ʻole a me ka ʻaelike ʻole o ka mea hauʻoli.
Mai kēlā manawa i kēia manawa, e hōʻeha ʻole ʻoe me kāu hoa. I waenakonu o nā kūlike ʻole a me nā paio, kiʻekiʻe nā manaʻo a hiki i ka huhū ke kūkulu i kahi paia e pale ai i ka neʻe ʻana o kahi ʻelua.
Hiki i nā kāne a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa no nā kāne hou ke aʻo iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine pehea e hana ai me nā ʻae ʻole a aʻo aku i nā hoa ʻelua i ke kaʻina hana pehea e hiki ai i kahi hopena kūleʻa.
Hoʻokumu pū ia i kahi manawa kūpono e aʻo pehea e hana ai me nā naʻau kūlohelohe a pehea e hōʻike mau ai i ke aloha i kāu hoa i ka wā o ka ʻaelike.
Kūkulu a mālama i ke kamaʻilio kūpono
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male nui no ka wahine hou e mālama nei i ka kamaʻilio olakino male.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole ka puʻuwai o nā pilikia he nui i ka male. ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui no nā kāne hou e pili ana i ke aʻo ʻana a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka kamaʻilio male male ʻana.
Pono ke kamaʻilio kūpono i ka hoʻolohe a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka mea a haʻi e ʻōlelo nei. Minamina, ke piʻi aʻe ke kiʻekiʻe o ka naʻau, hoihoi pinepine kēlā me kēia wahine i ka pale ʻana i kā lākou hoihoi pono a ʻaʻole hiki ke lohe i ka mea a ka mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻāʻo nei e kamaʻilio.
I nā kāne a me nā mea lapaʻau no ka wahine hou, hiki i ka mea hoʻoponopono ke hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka wahine hou e pili ana i ka male a me nā pono hana e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana a hoʻemi i ka pono e pono i nā manawa āpau.
Kūkākūkā i nā kālā o ka male ma kahi palekana
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻole o ka launa pū kālā kekahi o nā wanana nui loa o ka hakakā male ma waena o nā kāne.
I ka wā o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa o nā kāne no nā kāne hou, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūkākūkā i kāu ʻano maʻamau kālā, haʻalele ʻole i nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā kuleana kālā, kaʻana like i nā pahuhopu wā wā pōkole a me ka wā lōʻihi
E nānā i ke kumu kālā e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā pahuhopu ma ke ʻano he kāne a pehea e hoʻohui ai i nā kālā ma hope o ka male ʻana.
E wehe hou i ka lāʻau
I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole makemake kekahi i ka male i ka male male. No nā kumu like ʻole, hōʻole hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau hoa e hele i ka therapy ke kū i ka male me nā pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia.
ʻO ka hauʻoli ma hope mau o ka hana nui ʻana.
Me ka mākaukau me kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa no nā kāne hou, hiki i nā kāne ke aʻo e mālama i kā lākou aloha aloha me kekahi, me ka nānā ʻole i nā mea pale i hoʻolei ʻia i ko lākou ala.
No laila, he aha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hope loa no ka wahine hou e hoʻomaka i ka wāwae ʻākau?
ʻO kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoi maikaʻi loa no nā kāne hou e hele i ka therapy therapy no nā kāne hou e ʻike iā lākou iho a me kā lākou mau hoa. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou e hana me nā pilikia o nā pae like ʻole o ka male, e hoʻomaopopo pehea e ulu pono ai ko lākou pilina ke komo nā hakakā male.
ʻO ka wahine hou i hoʻomaka i kā lāua male me ka therapy e ʻike koke i ke kumu a me ka waiwai i ke kaʻina hana a e ʻoi aku ka hāmama i ka alualu ʻana iā ia i ka manawa e pono ai.
E palekana ma mua o ke kala
ʻO kahi ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ka ʻōlelo aʻo male no ka wahine hou he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka palekana ma mua o ke kala ʻana a ʻoi aku ka pale ma mua o ka hoʻōla.
Hiki ke alualu lōʻihi ʻia nā kāne male no ka wahine hou ma mua o ka kū ʻana o nā pilikia o ka male a he kumu ikaika ko ka male.
I ka wā o ka therapy therapy, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻōlelo aʻoi loa o ka male no ka wahine hou ma ke kālā male, ka hoʻokō, ka mālama ʻana i nā manaʻo, a me ka moekolohe. I ka wā o ka therapy therapy, e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōlelo aʻo kūpono no nā kāne hou e hōʻalo a lanakila i nā pilikia kūpono i ka wā lōʻihi o ka male.
He mea koʻikoʻi ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a Newlywed i ka male hauʻoli
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka wahine hou a makemake paha e nīnau kekahi i kekahi i nā nīnau nui e pili ana i ka hānai keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana, ka ʻohana, nā hoa aloha, ke kamaʻilio ʻana, nā lula honua no ka mālama ʻana i ka home
E loaʻa mau nā pilikia i kāu male. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i ke kaʻina hana no ka hoʻoponopono pono ʻana i kēia mau pilikia me ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male no nā mea hou. E hoʻolilo ia i kāu mea hope loa no ke kākoʻo ʻana i kahi pilina olakino.