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- ʻAʻole kūpono kahi nui i nā mea āpau
- Ka launa pū ma hope o ka menopausal
- No ke aha e ʻimi ai nā wahine makua i nā kāne ʻōpio
- No hea mai ka hoʻokalakupua
I ka lā i hala, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke ʻike i nā wahine makua e pili ana i ke kāne ʻōpio. Akā i kēia mau lā, aia paha he maʻi ahulau o nā cougars i waho.
Ma ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana, hāʻawi kekahi i nā hopena biological, kekahi psycho-sociological. I kēlā me kēia hihia, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ikaika ka kapu e pili ana i nā kūlike i kēlā me kēia manawa. Eia kekahi, he nui nā wahine makua i mare i kā lākou hoa ʻōpio. A eia ka 101 o nā wahine makua e pili ana i kahi kāne ʻōpio.
ʻAʻole kūpono kahi nui i nā mea āpau
ʻO ka mea nui e lawe ʻia mai kēia ʻatikala ʻo kēia - ʻaʻohe mea pono āpau āpau a hui hewa ʻole paha o nā hoa. Eia kekahi, mai kahi kuanaʻike anthropological, mau mea e like me ka hoʻomau ʻana e loli i nā manawa āpau me nā loli o ka politika a me ka politika.
A aia ia i loko o hoʻokahi kaiāulu i ka hala o ka manawa. Ke lawe ʻoe i kahi mea maʻamau i nā moʻomeheu like ʻole, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, kekahi mea e like me "maʻamau".
Kuhi kēia mau ʻike anthropological i ka hapa nui o nā loina e pili ana i ka mea i makemake ʻia e ke kaiāulu i makemake ʻia, no loko mai o kahi kuanaola a i ʻole kaiaulu. ʻO ka hapa nui, ke pili i ka pili aloha, he mea ia o ka hānau ʻana.
Akā, i kēia mau lā a me nā kaiāulu o kēia manawa, ʻoiai ʻaʻole pono mākou e hana i ko mākou ola a me kā mākou mau kaiāulu e pili ana i kēlā, kū nā mea ʻē aʻe a ulu pono.
Pākuʻi ʻia kēia mau mea i kapa ʻia nā cougars, a me nā kāne a me nā kāne like, a i ʻole nā hanana ʻē aʻe i hana mua ʻole ʻia ai ka hanau keiki.
ʻO ke ʻano stereotype o kahi ʻōpio, palupalu akā momona a me kahi kāne ʻelemakule ikaika a waiwai hoʻi kahi huahana o ka biology.
Akā, mālama ʻia nō ia e ke kaiāulu, e like me ka makemake o ke kaiāulu i nā mea kaulana, kūpaʻa, a, ʻo ka mea nui loa - nā hanana wānana a me nā loina.
Ka launa pū ma hope o ka menopausal
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole o ka launa pū ʻana, ʻo ka hopena, he kumu ia o ka hānau ʻana. ʻO kēia mai kahi kūlana biological. Akā, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā kānaka ma mua o kēlā, a he nui nā kumu ʻē aʻe i hele mai e pāʻani.
E like me ka holomua o kā mākou kaiāulu, pēlā nō ke ola a, ʻo ka mea nui, ke ʻano o ke ola i nā makahiki kahiko. No laila, no nā wahine, ʻaʻohe kumu o ka menopause ka hopena o ke ola pili aloha hou.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he hana hou kēia i ʻoi aku ka nui a koʻikoʻi i nā moʻomeheu Komohana. Ke hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā keiki ma ko lākou ala ponoʻī, hōʻike ka helu helu, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine e noi i ka hemo ʻana mai kā lākou wahine.
Ma UK wale nō, ma waena o 2015 a me 2016, ka pākēneka o nā wahine ma mua o 55 e noi ana i kahi hemo i lele ʻia e 15%, kahi piʻi nui loa ia.
No ke aha e ʻimi ai nā wahine makua i nā kāne ʻōpio
I ke kū ʻana o ke kūʻokoʻa kālā a me ke kūlohelohe o nā wahine, pēlā nō, ko lākou kūʻokoʻa e koho i nā hoa ma muli ʻole o nā loina kuʻuna e hiki ai iā ia ke mālama iā ia. Makemake mau nā wahine i nā kāne kūleʻa, akā ʻaʻole pono kēia e unuhi ʻia i loko o ka ʻōlelo a nā wahine ʻōpio e ʻimi nei i nā kāne ʻelemakule.
Akā, kipi nā wahine he nui i hiki i kekahi mau makahiki i ke ala i kuhikuhi ʻia o ka ʻelemakule.
ʻAʻole lākou makemake i ko lākou moekolohe e hoʻopau me kā lākou ovaries ʻaʻole hana hua hou. ʻAʻole lākou ʻike pinepine i kā lākou mau hoa o nā makahiki he mau makahiki he ʻoluʻolu hou.
A i ʻole, ʻaʻole lāua i male akā ua alualu lākou i kā lākou mau ʻoihana a me ka ʻatikala ma kahi.
I kēia manawa, i ko lākou hiki ʻana i kahi a lākou e makemake ai e lilo i mau kanaka, makemake lākou i kahi hoa e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pono. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e noho.
Ua ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi a me ka ʻike o kā lākou makemake a me ka makemake ma mua o nā wahine ʻōpio.
E like me kēia, ʻaʻole pono i kēia mau wahine hou ke ʻike i kahi kāne o ko lākou mau makahiki nani a hoʻouluulu paha. E like me nā kāne, ʻike paha nā wahine i ka nani a me ke kuko o ka ipo ipo.
No hea mai ka hoʻokalakupua
Ma waho o ka mea a mākou i ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu kahi pāʻani ma waena o ka wahine makua a me kahi kāne ʻōpio no ka wahine wale nō.
Loaʻa nā mea ʻelua i kekahi mea mai ia mea. Ma ka laulaha, ʻo ia paha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o lākou ke kumu o ka pīhoihoi a me ka hoihoi mau.
Loaʻa i nā kāne a me nā wahine nā pono ʻokoʻa i nā pae ʻokoʻa o ko lākou ola. ʻO nā kāne, ma ke ʻano he ākea, e wehe akea i nā ʻike like ʻole, a emi iki ka noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kā lākou kumu olaola o ka hānau ʻana i kahi keiki. ʻO ka maʻamau o ka makemake o nā wahine i loko o kā lākou ʻano holoʻokoʻa.
Akā, ʻoiai e lanakila ana ka wahine i kēia, i kekahi ala a i ʻole ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia, a ʻo kāna hoa ʻōpio hoʻi, e ʻoliʻoli i ka pīhoihoi o nā ao like ʻole me ka ʻoi loa o ke kaomi a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia.
ʻO ka mea e hoʻololi pinepine ai i ka pilina hoʻoluʻolu, kahi kahi e noho manawa ai kekahi mau mea ʻelua ma ke ʻano he poʻe kūʻokoʻa, e leʻaleʻa maoli nei i ka hui o kekahi, a no ia kumu wale nō.