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- ʻO kahi narcissist maoli - ʻano pilikino
- He aha ka makua narcissist?
- Hiki paha i ka noho makua ʻana me kahi narcissist ke hiki?
- Nā ala i ka hana ʻana me ka makua kāne narcissist
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻohana piha kahi mea a mākou e moeʻuhane nei. Eia nō naʻe, hiki i nā hanana he nui i hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi ʻohana i nā ʻaoʻao kaʻawale a ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa i ka hānai ʻana i kāu poʻe keiki ma o ka makua makua ʻana.
He ala maikaʻi kēia na nā mākua ʻelua e noho mau ai i ke ola o kā lāua mau keiki e kaʻana like ana i ke kuleana o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki.
Hoʻomaopopo mākou āpau i ka waiwai o ka hānai ʻana o nā mākua i kahi keiki akā inā inā he narcissist kāu hoahānau?
Aia kekahi mau ala i hōʻike ʻia i ka hana pū ʻana me kahi makua co narcissist?
ʻO kahi narcissist maoli - ʻano pilikino
Ua lohe pinepine mākou i ka huaʻōlelo narcissist a pinepine, hoʻohana ʻia ia no ka poʻe lapuwale a ʻoluʻolu loa. Ua hoʻolaha ʻia paha ia e kekahi o nā ʻano liʻiliʻi o ka narcissist akā ʻaʻole ia ka manaʻo maoli o kēia huaʻōlelo.
ʻO kahi narcissist maoli kahi mamao loa mai ka lapuwale a ʻona wale, akā ʻo ia kekahi mea i loaʻa i ka maʻi pilikino a pono e mālama ʻia e like me kēlā. ʻO ka poʻe i ʻike ʻia me kahi Narcissistic Personality Disorder a i ʻole NPD ka poʻe e hana i ko lākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ala manipulative, wahaheʻe, a me ka hoʻopunipuni.
ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke mālama i ka pilina pili me kā lākou mau wahine a me kā lākou mau keiki ma muli o kā lākou hoʻopunipuni, wahaheʻe, ʻaʻohe o lākou aloha, a me ko lākou makemake e hōʻino interpersonally.
Minamina, ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā poʻe āpau me kēia maʻi no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke pale i ko lākou mau ʻōuli me ka honua waho. ʻO ke kaumaha, ʻo kā lākou mau hoaaloha pili loa a ʻohana nāna i ʻike i kēia a ʻike i ka hopena o nā narcissists luku.
He aha ka makua narcissist?
He paʻakikī loa ia e pili ana i kahi hoa narcissist akā he aha kāu e hana ai inā he keiki kāu? Aia kekahi mau ala i ka hana ʻana me kahi co-makua narcissist? Hiki paha iā lākou ke noho i kahi pilina me kā lākou poʻe keiki me ke ʻano pilikino ʻole?
ʻO kahi makua narcissistic kahi mea e ʻike i kā lākou keiki e like me nā pepeke a i ʻole ʻo ka hoʻokūkū paha.
ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā lākou e ʻoi aku i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe o ka kuleana ponoʻī a hoʻonāwaliwali hoʻi iā lākou me kā lākou ulu pilikino. ʻO kā lākou mea nui wale ka nui o lākou a pehea e hiki ai iā lākou ke kau i ka nānā holoʻokoʻa inā paha e ʻeha ka ʻohana.
ʻO kahi o nā kūlana weliweli loa hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i loko ke hoʻomaopopo nei he narcissist kāu wahine.
Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻae i kāu mau keiki e hānai ʻia e kekahi i loaʻa i ka maʻi maʻi pilikino? E kaupaona nā ʻōlelo hoʻoholo i kēia kūlana. ʻO ka hapanui ma mua o ka ʻole, e koho mau nō ka makua e ʻae i ka noho ʻana o ka makua me ka lana o ka manawa e hoʻololi ai kā lāua hoa narcissistic.
Hiki paha i ka noho makua ʻana me kahi narcissist ke hiki?
He mea nui ia i kēlā me kēia ʻano pilina a mākou e pili nei, pono mākou e aʻo e ʻike i nā hae ʻulaʻula ke haʻi aku kou ʻōpū iā ʻoe ʻaʻole maʻamau kekahi mea.
He ʻokoʻa ke hoʻāʻo mākou e hana i kā mākou pilina me kā mākou mau hoa kāne akā ʻo ka hana ʻana iā lākou ma ke ʻano he mau mākua he pae hou loa ia. ʻAʻohe makua makemake e ulu aʻe kā lākou keiki me kahi ʻano hōʻino e waiho wale i ka manaʻo like me ko lākou makua narcissistic.
Inā hoʻoholo ka makua makua e noho, aia nō kekahi mau mea e noʻonoʻo ai no ka mea ʻo ke kaumaha ka hana ʻana i nā mākua ke kuleana nui.
- Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i nā ala pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu poʻe keiki e ʻike i ke aloha a me ka waiwai inā ʻaʻole e launa pū kāu ʻohana pili?
- I ka manawa kūpono e wehewehe ai i ko lākou makua narcissistic makua pilikino iā lākou?
- He aha nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e kōkua iā ʻoe i ka hana pū ʻana me kahi co-makua narcissistic?
- Aia kekahi mau ala pehea e pale aku ai iā ʻoe iho a me kāu poʻe keiki me ka hoʻouka kaua narcissistic a kou hoahānau?
- Pehea ka lōʻihi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa i kēia hoʻonohonoho?
- Ke hana nei paha ʻoe i ka mea kūpono i ka ʻae ʻana i kahi kanaka narcissistic e lilo i ʻāpana o kou ola?
Nā ala i ka hana ʻana me ka makua kāne narcissist
Makemake mākou i nā kōkua āpau i hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa inā hoʻoholo mākou e noho i kēia ʻano pilina.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe iho i hiki ke hana me kāu makua kāne.
- E ikaika a loaʻa i nā kōkua āpau e pono ai. E ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ʻoe iho i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kākoʻo mai kekahi mea ʻike i ka hana ʻana me kēia ʻano ʻano maʻi pilikino. Mai hoʻāʻo e kiʻi i kou ʻohana pili me ʻoe - ʻaʻole holo pono ia.
- Mai ʻae iā lākou e hoʻohuli i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hōʻino iā ʻoe a hōʻike iā lākou ʻo ʻoe ka mea i loaʻa ka pilikia.
- E hoʻonoho i kahi laʻana a aʻo aku i kāu poʻe keiki e pili ana i ka mālama pilikino ʻana ʻaʻole wale ma ke kino akā, me ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau kekahi. He mea ʻole ka ʻōlelo a ko lākou makua narcissistic iā lākou, ma laila ʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi ai.
- Mai hōʻike i kou palupalu me kou hoahānau. Nānā nui lākou, inā hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa nā nāwaliwali mai iā ʻoe - e hoʻohana lākou ia mea. E luhi a lōʻihi.
- Mai hōʻoluʻolu hou me lākou. E pane wale i nā nīnau e pili ana i kāu keiki a mai ʻae iā ʻoe i nā hana manipulative.
- Inā hoʻohana kāu makua kāne narcissistic i kāu keiki e hōʻehaʻeha iā ʻoe e pili ana i kou ʻohana - mai hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe.
- Hōʻike i kāu kaohi i ke kūlana. Paʻa i ke kipa ʻana i nā papa hana, mai hoʻokuʻu i kāu mākua makua e kuhikuhi a kamaʻilio paha iā ʻoe i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāna mau koi.
- I ka wā ʻōpio, e hoʻāʻo i kahi ala ʻokoʻa e pili ana i pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i kāu poʻe keiki i ke kūlana a pehea e hiki ai iā lākou ke lawelawe i kā lākou ʻike ponoʻī me kā lākou makua narcissistic.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki, he aha hou aʻe inā ʻoe e launa like ʻana me kahi kanaka e ʻehaʻeha nei i ka NPD?
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana pū ʻana me kahi makua kāne narcissist, ʻae e ʻae iā lākou e hoʻomau e lilo i ʻāpana o nā ola o kāu mau keiki.
Lawe ʻia i kahi pae holoʻokoʻa o ka hōʻoia pilikino, ke ahonui, a me ka ʻike e hiki ai ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka makua like me kekahi kanaka i loaʻa i ka maʻi pilikino. ʻO kēlā me kēia kūlana, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike he maikaʻi kāu keiki a laila ke hana nei ʻoe i kahi hana maikaʻi loa.