Anter
- He kūlana kū kānāwai ka male ʻana
- Hoʻokaʻawale ka manaʻo o ka noho kaʻawale akā paʻa paʻa
- Aia paha ma luna o hoʻokahi wahine wale nō ka ʻaiʻē
- Hiki ke koi ʻia i kahi wahine e uku
ʻO ka pane pōkole na ke kāne ʻelua e kuleana no ka hōʻaiʻē i ka wā o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana. Ua male mau lākou a no laila maʻa mau i ka lou no ka ʻaiʻē a lākou i hana ai i ko lākou hui ʻana.
He kūlana kū kānāwai ka male ʻana
ʻO ka male ʻana, ma waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, kahi hui pū ʻana o nā kānaka ʻelua. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana e hoʻokahi kāne a manaʻo ʻia he ʻona hui pū ʻia ia, a paʻa pū ʻia nā ʻaiʻē. I ka hemo ʻana, e hōʻoia ka ʻaha i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o nā kāne a me kā lākou kuleana. ʻO ka hapanui, e ʻae nā ʻaoʻao i ka hoʻokaʻawale a ʻae wale ka ʻaha iā ia. I nā manawa ʻē aʻe, e hoʻopaʻapaʻa nā loio no kēlā me kēia wahine no ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana a na ka ʻaha e hoʻoholo.
Hoʻokaʻawale ka manaʻo o ka noho kaʻawale akā paʻa paʻa
Ke hele nei i kahi male male i kahi male male, kahi kaʻawale ka maʻa mua. Me he mea lā he manaʻo maʻamau ke kaʻawale nā kāne male e makemake e haʻalele i ke kino. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻo kēia ka neʻe ʻana o kekahi wahine ma waho o kā lākou home like. ʻO kēia hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, i kapa ʻia i kekahi manawa he "noho kaʻawale a kaʻawale," a he hopena kū kānāwai koʻikoʻi pū kekahi. Pono nā mokuʻāina he nui i kahi wā hoʻokaʻawale ma mua o ka hemo ʻana, pinepine ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa.
Hiki i nā mea he nui ke hana i loko o kekahi mau manawa o ka mau mahina kahi e noho kaʻawale ana kahi kāne akā male male ʻia naʻe. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia he nui. I kekahi manawa hōʻole kekahi wahine e uku i kā lākou kāleka hōʻaiʻē ʻona pū. A i ʻole ka wahine e uku maʻamau i ka molaki, e hōʻoki paha i ka uku ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e uku ana i kāu ʻaiʻē i ka wā o ka hoʻokaʻawale akā male mau ʻoe ma ke kānāwai e ʻeha pū ana ʻolua.
Aia paha ma luna o hoʻokahi wahine wale nō ka ʻaiʻē
Ua loaʻa ka maikaʻi o kekahi mau mokuʻāina e pili ana i nā hōʻaiʻē hou i loaʻa i ka wā o kahi kaʻawale. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hoʻokaʻawale kahi kāne a laila lawe ke kāne i kahi hōʻaiʻē e kūʻai ai i hale me kāna ipo hou, e ʻōlelo ka hapanui o ka wahine hemo ʻole paha no ka ʻaiʻē ʻole. E nānā paha kekahi mau ʻaha i nā ʻaiʻē ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ma kēlā me kēia hihia. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo ka holo ʻana i ka kāleka hōʻaiʻē e uku no ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male e manaʻo ʻia paha he ʻaiʻē male akā ʻaʻole kahi hale no ka ipo hou.
Hiki ke hoʻololi i ke kānāwai ma kēia wahi mai kahi a kahi a hilinaʻi i ke ʻano o ka ʻaiʻē, no laila e akahele. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kāleka hōʻaiʻē hui, no ka laʻana, makemake paha ʻoe e hōʻole i kēlā mea koke i mea e pale aku ai i kāu wahine i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai ka hōʻaiʻe ʻana i nā aie hou i kuleana iā ʻoe.
Hiki ke koi ʻia i kahi wahine e uku
Hiki i kekahi mau mokuʻāina ke koi i ka wahine e uku i ka mālama ʻana i ka wā o kahi kaʻawale, a ʻae nā wahine he nui iā ia. ʻO kahi laʻana, i loko o ka hale pono hoʻokahi, pono paha e uku ka mea mālama kālā i ka molaki ma ka home male inā paha neʻe ʻo ia i waho. Hiki iā kēia ke hoʻonāukiuki no ka mea he nui nā kāne male hemo ʻole ʻaʻole i aloha nui i kā lākou ex mua. ʻIke ke kānāwai ma nā mokuʻāina he ʻokoʻa iki ma waena o ka wahine i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia a me ka wahine hauʻoli maʻamau.