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- ʻO ke aloha kahi manaʻo?
- Ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka mahalo nui o ke aloha a me nā lehu anuanu o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
- Pehea ke koho a ke aloha?
- ʻO ke aloha kahi koho ʻike āu e hoʻoholo ai
He aha ke aloha? He nīnau kēia e noʻonoʻo nui nei ka poʻe no ia no nā kenekulia, a eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke pane i kēia.
Ua alakaʻi ʻia kēia nīnau i kekahi mau hana noʻeau i ka mōʻaukala kanaka e like me Taj Mahal, Hanging Gardens o Babulona a me kekahi mau hana nui e like me ka haʻalele ʻana i ka noho aliʻi a me ka pakele ʻana i nā hale paʻahao.
Ua alakaʻi ʻia kēia nīnau i nā mea mele e kākau i kekahi o kā lākou mele nui loa e like me ka mea mele o 90, Haddaway; ʻaʻole naʻe mākou i ʻike i ke aloha.
ʻOiai ʻo nā ʻepekema i hoʻāʻo e pane i kēia nīnau a ua piʻi mai me kahi pane loea e pili ana i ka hormonal a me nā hopena kemika. Ua wehewehe lākou i kahi ʻano hoihoi a kekahi e noʻonoʻo ai a me ka pono o kahi hoa, akā ʻaʻole ia he mea e kōkua ai iā mākou i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā manaʻo a mākou e ʻike nei i ka pilina.
ʻO ke aloha kahi manaʻo?
Nui paha ka poʻe i ʻike he leʻaleʻa ke pane ʻana i kēia nīnau no ka mea he manaʻo ke aloha akā inā inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole he ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻAʻole ke aloha ke aloha a ma kahi koho.
Ua mōakāka kēia i nā mea āpau e kahi kaikamahine 25 makahiki nona ka inoa ʻo Taylor Myers e noho ana ma Dayton, Ohio a ua lawe i kahi papa i kapa ʻia ʻo “Ka pilina no ke ola.”
Ua hoʻoholo kēia kaikamahine e kaʻana like i kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i kēia mea i ka honua a ma kahi o ua kākau ia i loko o ke ʻano o ka mele.
ʻO kēia kaikamahine, ka mea i hele ma ka inoa inoa o ka acutelesbian, kaʻana like i kona mau manaʻo i ka wā e hele ana i ka hohonu o ka ʻawaʻawa naʻau e loaʻa i ke aloha. Ua piha kāna pou i ka minamina a he maka makaʻu a makaʻu hoʻi i hoʻopā i ka ʻuhane o nā poʻe he nui a puni ka honua.
Ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka mahalo nui o ke aloha a me nā lehu anuanu o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻO ka poʻe he nui i ʻike i kāna mau huaʻōlelo he relatable ka poʻe i ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa weliweli ma waena o ka mahalo nui a me ka lehu o ke aloha i waiho ʻia i ka wā i pio ai kā lākou ahi aloha.
I kēia pou, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia inā nīnau ka poʻe iā ia i kāna mea makaʻu nui loa ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi i nā pane e like me nā wahi i pani ʻia a i ʻole ke kiʻekiʻe, akā ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻo kāna makaʻu nui loa ka ʻoiaʻiʻo "hāʻule ka hapa nui o nā kānaka i ke aloha no ka mea like. kumu i hāʻule ai lākou i loko. "
ʻO kēia laina ka mea i pā i ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i hele i kā lākou pou; a he nui nā kāne male i ʻae pū me ia a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ka mea i alakaʻi i kā lākou male male.
I ka mua, hoʻomana ʻoe i ka paʻakikī o kāu ipo; Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻūlū i ko lākou mau papalina a kāhea iā lākou he nani akā i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa e lilo kēia paʻakikī i ko lākou hōʻole ʻana e hoʻopili i ka pilina.
Hoʻomaka koke ko lākou manaʻo hoʻokahi e hōʻike i nā ʻōuli o ka makua ʻole, a lilo ka spontaneity i mea ʻole, a ʻo nā mea āpau āu i hoʻomana ai e pili ana i kāu ipo e lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki ʻē aʻe i kou ola nui loa.
Lilo koke ʻoe i mea ʻino i kekahi i ʻike maka i nā hōkū i kou mau maka, a lilo kēia i mea makaʻu i makaʻu ka poʻe he nui.
Pehea ke koho a ke aloha?
I ka wā i hele a viral ai kēia pou, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Taylor ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo i hoʻokahi pou āna i kākau ai i loko o kahi kūlana o ka haunaele naʻau e lilo i ke aloha a me ka nānā nui a puni ka honua. Eia naʻe, ka mea āna i nalo ai ma kēia pou ua hoʻohui ʻo ia i ka mea aʻe.
ʻO ka pou āna i kākau ai i kākau ʻia i loko o kahi ʻano ʻawaʻawa a kaumaha hoʻi, akā naʻe; iā ia i kākau hou ai, ua wehewehe ʻo ia i ka mea nani o ke aloha.
I ka papa āna i lawe ai, ua nīnau kāna kumu i kāna mau haumāna inā he manaʻo a he koho paha ke aloha? E like me ka nui o nā poʻe i kēia lā, ua ʻōlelo ka hapa nui o nā keiki he aloha ke aloha a wehewehe ʻo Taylor ʻo ia kahi a mākou e kuhihewa nei.
I kēia lā haʻalele ka hapanui o ka poʻe i kā lākou mau pilina a wāwahi paha i kā lākou male ʻana no ka mea manaʻoʻiʻo lākou ua hala nā butterflies a lākou i ʻike ai a ua ʻike ʻole lākou i ke ʻano o ke aloha.
ʻO kēia kahi hewa o kā mākou kaiāulu i kēia lā; makemake nui mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo i ke aloha kahi manaʻo a me kahi hunaahi a mākou i ʻike ai nalowale ke ala o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ke aloha kahi koho ʻike āu e hoʻoholo ai
ʻAʻole he aloha ke aloha; he koho. He koho noʻonoʻo āu e hana ai e noho kūpaʻa a kūpaʻa hoʻi kekahi i kekahi. He mea āu e koho ai e hana i kēlā me kēia lā.
I kekahi manawa o ka male, lilo paha ʻoe i ke aloha, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e haʻalele ʻoe a haʻalele i kahi hemo; e pau ka manaʻo o ke aloha, a lilo paha ʻoe i mea hauʻoli ʻole i kekahi mau lā no ka mea loli mau ka manaʻo.
Eia nō naʻe, i nā manawa e like me kēia, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana i kāu koho a no ke aha e kōkua ai kēia iā ʻoe i ka hōʻoia ʻana o kou aloha ke ola a ikaika nei i kou puʻuwai.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokumu i ka male ma luna o nā manaʻo ke hoʻomau mau nei lākou i ka loli. inā makemake ʻoe e kūkulu i kahi male e paʻa ai ʻoe e kūkulu ia ma ke kahua paʻa, ʻaʻole kahi mea haʻalulu a ʻano fluctuating e like me nā manaʻo.