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- Kūlike nā mea pilikino a me nā hana
- Kū aʻe nā pilikia ke ʻae ʻole ka ʻelua i ka mea like
- ʻImi nā aʻoaʻo i ke kumu o ka pilikia
- ʻAʻole noʻonoʻo ka poʻe i nā pilikia i ka male ʻana
- Kuhi ke aʻoaʻo iā ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi
- Hiki i nā mea aʻoaʻo ke hōʻeha i kou puʻuwai a i ʻole ego
E holo anei ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male?
ʻO kahi nīnau nui paha kēia, akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he nīnau hilinaʻi ia.
Nui a hewahewa nā loli e noʻonoʻo ai inā e hoʻāʻo mākou e loaʻa i kahi pane maʻamau i ka hana a me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male.
ʻOiai ua ʻōlelo mākou 'ʻae e hana aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male', aia nō kekahi e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole ʻaʻole a ʻo ka hope.
ʻO kēia no ka mea ʻo ka male, ka hoʻokaʻawale, ka hemo, a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo mare ʻana he mea ʻokoʻa ia i kēlā me kēia kāne a pili pono i nā kumu he nui.
Kūlike nā mea pilikino a me nā hana
Aia kekahi mau mea kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai e like me ka maikaʻi o ke kākāʻōlelo male ma ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe i kou pilikia.
Eia hou, aia kekahi mau mea pilikino e like me ke ala e hoʻokipa ai ʻoe a me kāu wahine i ka hana pū ʻana me kahi kākāʻōlelo male ma kāu male ʻana a laila pehea ka maikaʻi o kāu hana pū ʻana e mālama i kāu male.
ʻO ka mea ma mua o kou hoʻomaka ʻana e nīnau i ka nīnau e holo pono paha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male? e makemake paha ʻoe e nīnau, 'pono anei i kaʻu male i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo male?' a laila loiloi i ke kumu e pono ai ʻoe, he aha kāu hopena i makemake ʻia no kāu male ʻana a inā paha hiki i kāu wahine a makemake e hele i ka moku e hoʻāʻo e hana i nā mea.
Kū aʻe nā pilikia ke ʻae ʻole ka ʻelua i ka mea like
Kū nā pilikia i nā hanana ke makemake kekahi o ʻoe e hoʻopakele i ka male.
ʻAʻole ka mea ʻē aʻe (a i kekahi mau ʻano, ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae iā ia iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha lākou i ʻae iā lākou iho. I kēia kūlana, e holo ka ʻōlelo aʻo male inā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e hele i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male me ka manaʻo e ʻike i nā mea e hoʻokaʻawale aʻe iā ʻoe.
Eia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo!
I kekahi mau hanana e like me kēia, hiki i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke alakaʻi i ka hemo.
E paipai ka ʻōlelo aʻo iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he ʻelua e ʻike i ke aʻa o kāu mau pilikia. I ke ʻano i kūkākūkā ʻia, ua nānā mua ʻia kekahi wahine me ka manaʻo ʻole e hoʻi.
Akā, ke manaʻo nei ʻaʻole holo pono ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male?
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole loa, ʻo ka manaʻo i kēia kūlana e kiʻi i ke aʻa o nā pilikia i loko o kēia hanana i haʻalele ʻia hoʻokahi wahine.
ʻImi nā aʻoaʻo i ke kumu o ka pilikia
E hana pono ma aneʻi. ʻO ka manaʻo mau o kekahi kākāʻōlelo i kēlā me kēia kūlana e ʻike i ke aʻa o ka pilikia no ka mea pēlā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono ai i nā mea.
Ma o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male, ua kōkua ke kākāʻōlelo i nā kāne ʻelua e nānā i nā kumu a lākou e hele pono ai.
Hana ʻia kēia i ʻole e hana hewa nā kuhi hewa a me nā manaʻo wahaheʻe e ka wahine i nānā aku.
E nānā pū ke kākāʻōlelo male inā loaʻa kekahi ala e mālama ai i ka male pū kekahi.
Inā ʻaʻohe, a laila e hana ke kākāʻōlelo male i ka mea maikaʻi loa - kōkua i nā kāne a ʻelua e hoʻomākaukau no ka hemo ʻana i mea e emi ai ka manaʻo kaumaha ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
ʻO wai i kēia kūlana ka hopena kūpono, ʻeā?
ʻAʻole noʻonoʻo ka poʻe i nā pilikia i ka male ʻana
ʻO ka pilikia ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo pinepine ka poʻe i kēia mau pilikia i ka male.
Makemake nui paha lākou e hoʻopakele i kā lāua male male a makapō ʻia e ka nānā wale ʻana i kā lākou hopena i makemake ʻia. A maikaʻi wale nō.
Akā inā ʻaʻohe aloha ma laila a makemake ʻole paha e hoʻāʻo i ka ʻaoʻao o ka wahine, a laila ʻaʻohe mea hiki i ke kākāʻōlelo ke hana ʻē aʻe ma mua o ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻolua e neʻe me nā scars ʻona hiki.
ʻAʻohe mea hiki ke hoʻoikaika i ke aloha.
No laila, ma mua o kou noʻonoʻo ʻana e nīnau i ka nīnau, 'hana anei ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male?', E ʻike pono.
Akā, e hana ia e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe mai kou pilikia, ʻo ia ʻoe a me kāu wahine e like me ka maikaʻi ʻole o kāu male.
E kōkua ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male iā ʻoe e kūʻokoʻa ai i kēia mau pilikia.
Kuhi ke aʻoaʻo iā ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi
ʻO ke kūpono, hana ke aʻoaʻo ma ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe e ʻike i kou ala i kekahi i kekahi, inā pono, e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻolua.
Hoʻomaka ka hāʻule o ka nui o nā male ma muli o nā pilikia ʻē aʻe e like me ka maʻi, ke heʻe ʻana, ke kaumaha, a me ka hoʻopoina ʻana i kahi pilina.
Inā aia nā ʻohana ʻelua ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi a paʻa mau i ka male, a ke hana nei ia mea, a laila loaʻa iā ʻoe nā manawa āpau e holo pono ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ma ke ala āu e manaʻo ai.
ʻO ka pinepine o kā mākou mau manaʻo i ka hapa nui o nā mea kekeʻe.
Makemake mākou i nā poʻe a i ʻole nā lawelawe e hoʻopili iā mākou e hoʻopakele iā mākou, me ka ʻike pinepine ʻole e kōkua lākou iā mākou ma ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iā mākou inā ʻaʻole ia ka makemake a mākou e makemake ai.
Akā ʻo ka mea maikaʻi, ua hāʻawi aku kahi kākāʻōlelo male iā ʻoe i nā manawa kūpono loa e mākaʻikaʻi ai i kēia mau kumu āpau.
No laila, inā he manawa kēia e neʻe ai, e ʻike nō ʻolua i kāu hana maikaʻi loa loa.
ʻO kēia ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā ala me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole inā ua hana hewa ʻoe, e waiho ana iā ʻolua ʻelua e ʻimi i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i hoʻokau a hoʻopukapuka iā ʻoe.
Akā inā ʻoe e hui pū, a laila e kōkua ke kākāʻōlelo male iā ʻoe e hoʻokele i kou ala i kekahi i kekahi. He lanakila lanakila kēia ma nā helu ʻelua.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kākā'ōlelo male male maikaʻi. ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e hana ai kēia e ʻimi i kekahi i loaʻa i kahi moʻoʻōlelo aʻoaʻo o nā kāne male.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kāne male i like ka hopena a me nā pane i nā kūlana ʻokoʻa.
Ua ʻike a lohe ʻia kahi kākāʻōlelo male loea i ka mea āpau a hoʻomohala i ko lākou ʻike a me nā mākau ma o ka hana pū ʻana me nā kāne he nui.
ʻO kēia ka mea e loaʻa iā lākou ka ʻike a me nā kumuwaiwai he nui i loaʻa iā lākou e hoʻomaʻa i kāu kūlana.
Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kāu kākāʻōlelo male, a ua nānā pū ʻoe me ʻoe iho e hōʻoia ʻaʻole ia no ka pale ʻana a i ʻole makaʻu paha i ka "loaʻa ʻana" a laila pono ʻoe e loli i kahi āu e ʻoluʻolu loa ai. me.
Inā ʻole, ʻaʻole e wehe kekahi o ʻoukou.
Akā mai hoʻololi wale no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka mea āu i lohe ai.
Hiki i nā mea aʻoaʻo ke hōʻeha i kou puʻuwai a i ʻole ego
ʻO nā kākāʻōlelo o kēlā me kēia ʻano e lawe pinepine i nā leka i kāu ʻike e hōʻeha ai i ko mākou naʻau a i ʻole kā mākou ego.
Pono mākou e loaʻa ka koa e hele ma o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
Akā ʻo ke ala wale nō e neʻe ai i mua i ke ola ma ka nānā ʻana i nā ala liʻiliʻi e hūnā ai mākou mai kā mākou makaʻu hohonu a laila alo iā lākou.
ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi aʻe e hana i kēlā me ke kākāʻōlelo i hele i kēia hana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe he tausani mau manawa ma mua.
No laila, i ka pane i ka nīnau, hana paha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male, ʻōlelo wau 100% ʻoi aku, no ka ʻoi aku a maikaʻi ʻole paha i kēia manawa akā mau no ka maikaʻi i ka holo lōʻihi. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kākāʻōlelo male male kūpono nou.