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- 1. Moe kou ʻīlio i kahi moe
- 2. Loaʻa i kāu ʻīlio ka nānā āpau
- 3. ʻAʻohe ou manawa kaʻawale me kāu hoa
- 4. Ke hoʻopili nei kāu ʻīlio i kou maikaʻi hiamoe
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻīlio i loko o kekahi o nā mea hauʻoli loa i ke ola o ke kāne. Aloha lākou iā ʻoe me ka pīhoihoi i kēlā me kēia manawa ke hoʻi mai ʻoe i ka home, hoʻopili pū lākou me ʻoe ke hoʻomaha ʻoe ma hope o ka hana a hana lākou i mau hoa aloha no kāu hana i waho. ʻOiai koi lākou i ka manawa, ka nānā a me ka hana, ke loaʻa iā ʻoe he ʻīlio, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kou ola me ka ʻole o ia.
Akā he aha inā e hoʻopilikia ʻia kāu pilina a i ʻole kāu pilina me kāu ʻīlio me kāu male? Ke hoʻopili nei ʻo Fido i ka manawa āu e lilo ai me kāu hapalua ʻē aʻe? Hiki i kahi ʻīlio ke kumu i ka hemo male? E heluhelu e pili ana i nā kuhi e hoʻopōʻino nei kāu pipi i kou pili.
Heluhelu Pili: Pehea ka loaʻa ʻana o ka holoholona i kāu pilina?
I kēia lā ke hōʻike aku nei mākou iā ʻoe i nā ala āpau e hōʻino ai kāu ʻīlio i kou pili pili ʻole.
1. Moe kou ʻīlio i kahi moe
ʻO ka hele ʻana e hiamoe me kāu mea aloha kekahi o kēlā mau manawa ke hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka maluhia a me ka mālie ma hope o kahi lā lōʻihi ma ka hana a hui pū pū. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ʻo ia wale nō ka lā o ka lā e mālama ai nā kāne a i kekahi manawa pili aloha, ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea me nā keiki liʻiliʻi.
Hiki i nā pīpī ke hōʻino i kou pilina i kēlā ʻano hanana?
Inā hiamoe kāu ʻīlio me ʻoe i kahi moe a ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae iā ʻoe i ka puna me kāu hapa ʻē aʻe e hōʻino ana kāu ʻīlio i kou pili. ʻOiai ka hiamoe ʻana o kahi ʻīlio ma kou ʻaoʻao he mea nani paha ia i ka wā mua, ma hope o kekahi manawa, ʻike ʻoe i ka moe ʻana o kāu ʻīlio e hana nei i kahi mamao o ka naʻau ma waena ou a me kāu hoa.
2. Loaʻa i kāu ʻīlio ka nānā āpau
Pili nā pilina e pili ana i ka hāʻawi a loaʻa ʻana. ʻO ia ka haʻawina helu ʻekahi a mākou e aʻo ai i ke komo ʻana i kahi pilina i kūkulu ʻia ma ka hilinaʻi a me ka hoʻokō. Akā ua hoʻololi iki paha kekahi mea i kou ola aloha mai ka manawa āu a i ʻole he hoa i loaʻa i kahi ʻīlio?
ʻO nā ʻīlio nā mea aloha, a maʻalahi hoʻi e lilo i makana me lākou. Hana mākou i kā lākou Instagram profiles, kiʻi i nā kiʻi o lākou, cuddle me lākou, hāʻawi iā lākou i nā inoa holoholona, kamaʻilio pū me lākou, a pēlā aku. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau mea nā ʻāpana maʻamau o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi holoholona, akā i kekahi manawa, hiki i nā mea ke hele i waho o kahi kaohi.
E noho kaʻawale paha ʻoe me kāu hoa, akā ma kahi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a hoʻopau hope ʻana i kahi manawa maikaʻi me kāu mea i aloha ai, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kāpae i ka pāʻani ʻana me kāu ʻīlio. Inā kamaʻāina paha kēia kūlana iā ʻoe, a laila e hoʻowahāwahā paha ʻoe i kāu hoa ma muli o kāu pipi, e hōʻino ana kāu ʻīlio i kou pilina.
I kēia hihia, pono ʻoe e hana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaulike ma waena o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka manawa kūpono me kāu pēpē a pili nui iā ia (ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia ʻo kēia ʻano pilina ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia ʻē aʻe i nā ʻīlio e like me ka hopohopo hoʻokaʻawale).
Heluhelu Pili: Hiki i kahi Hānai Ā Huhu ke kōkua i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā palapala paʻa ʻohana?
3. ʻAʻohe ou manawa kaʻawale me kāu hoa
ʻOiai e haʻalele kekahi mau ʻīlio iā ʻoe i kahi e makemake nui ʻia a me ka manawa me kāu hoa, ʻaʻole ʻae wale kekahi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ia ke kikowaena o ka nānā i nā manawa āpau. Hiki i kekahi mau ʻīlio ke lili i kā lākou mea ʻona āpau me kā lākou pakanā i kahi koho a lākou e noho mau ai ma waena o ka wahine. ʻO kāu ʻīlio paha e hāhai ana iā ʻoe ma nā wahi āu e hele ai, ke loaʻa nei kahi manawa no ka pili pilikino kokoke hiki ʻole.
Eia naʻe, inā ʻo kēia ka hihia, ʻaʻole na kou ʻīlio ka hewa. Pono ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu ʻīlio e pono ai i kahi manawa pilikino ma ke aʻo ʻana iā ia e hoʻokipa iā ia ke noho kaʻawale ʻo ia. E hoʻokau i kāu ʻīlio i kona wahi moe, e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi mau mea pāʻani a uku iā ia no ka noho ʻana ma kona wahi.
I mea e loaʻa ai kahi pilina hoʻokō, pono i kēlā me kēia wahine i hoʻokahi manawa wale nō na lāua, kāpae ʻia kāu ʻīlio. Kāohi i kāu ʻīlio mai ka hōʻino ʻana i kou pili.
4. Ke hoʻopili nei kāu ʻīlio i kou maikaʻi hiamoe
ʻOiai nā ala mua e hiki ai i ka ʻīlio ke hoʻopili i kou ola aloha ma ke ʻano pololei, hiki i kēia mea ke hoʻopili āpau iā ia.
Ke hoʻopōʻino nei kāu ʻīlio i kou pilina ma ka hoʻopili ʻana i kou maikaʻi hiamoe e ka hiamoe ʻana iā ʻoe a neʻe nui, a i ʻole ka hae ʻana i ka pō a keakea i kou hiamoe. Hiki i ka hiamoe hoʻopau ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻoe i ke kakahiaka, a i ka hopena e alakaʻi i ka hiamoe hiamoe.
Ke nele mākou i ka hiamoe, ʻike mākou i nā ʻano hou o ka naʻau, ʻano maʻalahi a hiamoe i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ka luhi nui loa i ka lā holoʻokoʻa e hōʻemi ai mākou i ka hoihoi i ka laulā, kahi e waiho ai i nā hopena ma kā mākou pili a pau, pili ka male. Ke hoʻopōʻino nei kāu ʻīlio i kou pilina inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hiamoe kūpono no ia. Ke hoʻoponopono koke ʻoe i kou pilikia hiamoe, ʻike paha ʻoe i kāu mau pilina a pau e hoʻomaikaʻi.