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- He aha ka manaʻo o ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia e like me nā puke wehewehe ʻōlelo kūhelu?
- He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia a haʻalele ʻia?
- Nā kuleana wahine Estranged ma ka hoʻoilina
- ʻO ka pilina Estranged vs. haʻalele
ʻAʻole ka wahine hemo i kāu wahine hemo a hoʻokaʻawale paha; ʻAʻole ʻo ia kou ex. He kuleana kūpono kāu wahine hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe a me kāu waiwai e like me ka wahine awelika, ʻoiai ua male ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
No laila he aha ka wahine malihini?
ʻO ia kāu wahine, ka mea i lilo i malihini iā ʻoe. Nui nā kūlana a me nā kumu e pili ana i ka wahine ʻē.
Noho paha ʻoe i ka hale like akā ʻaʻole kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi. Noho ʻokoʻa ʻoe a ʻaʻole kamaʻilio pū kekahi.
I kēia mau ʻano ʻelua kāu wahine malihini ua male ʻia iā ʻoe, no laila nā kuleana āpau a ka wahine maʻamau. Hiki iā ia ke hele mai a hele i loko o ka hale matrimonial e like me kona makemake. Ma ka hale matrimonial, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hale i male ʻia e kahi kāne.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia e like me nā puke wehewehe ʻōlelo kūhelu?
Ke ʻimi nei i ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia i ka manaʻo? Ke noi ʻia e wehewehe i ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia, wehewehe ka wahine a ka wahine i wehewehe ʻia e Merriam Webster, "he wahine i noho hou ʻole me kāna kāne."
Wahi a Collins, "ʻAʻole noho hou kahi wahine i haʻalele ʻia a kāne paha me kā lākou kāne a wahine paha."
Wahi a ka Papa Kuhikuhi ʻo Cambridge, "ʻaʻole ke kāne a wahine ʻē paha e noho nei me kēia kanaka a lākou e male ai"
He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia a haʻalele ʻia?
He kūlana kū kānāwai ko ka male male male; ʻo ia hoʻi ua ʻae ʻia ka hopena o ka male e ka ʻaha, a aia kekahi mau pepa e hōʻoia ai. Ua hoʻoholo ka ʻaha i nā mea āpau, a ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana o nā keiki, alimony, kākoʻo keiki, hoʻoilina a hoʻoilina waiwai paha. ʻO nā kāne ʻelua, ke haʻalele ʻia, he kūlana hoʻokahi a hiki ke male hou i kēlā me kēia manawa.
I kēia manawa, ʻaʻohe kūlana kū kānāwai ka mea i hoʻohoka ʻia.
ʻO ka manaʻo wale ua kaʻawale ka wahine a ke noho malihini nei lāua. ʻAʻohe kamaʻilio ma waena o lākou. Akā ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou i hemo ʻia ma ke kānāwai. E like me ka hoʻoilina a me nā kuleana wahine ʻē.
Loaʻa iā ia nā kuleana āpau a ka wahine aloha pono e hana ai.
Estranged ʻo ia hoʻi ka inaina o kāu wahine iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e kamaʻilio me ʻoe, ua like me ka hoʻokaʻawale akā ʻoi aku ka manaʻo o nā ʻōlelo ʻole.
ʻO ia nō paha kāu wahine o kēia manawa, akā ʻaʻole hou ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole aloha pū me ʻoe. Ke lilo ʻoe i wahine hoʻokaʻawale, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i ex, no ka mea e ʻōlelo mau ana kou kūlana kūleʻa male. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole kūʻokoʻa nā kāne male i ka male ʻana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, ke ʻole lākou e loaʻa i kahi male kūpono a me ka haʻalele male ʻana mai ka ʻaha me nā palapala kū kānāwai āpau.
Nā kuleana wahine Estranged ma ka hoʻoilina
Loaʻa i ka wahine i ka hapalua o nā mea āpau, me, ka waiwai, nā ʻāpana, ke kālā, a me nā waiwai ʻē aʻe i hōʻiliʻili ʻia i ka wā o ka male.
E kāpae ʻia kēlā me kēia makana i ka makemake i ka manawa e waiho ai ka male male, akā ʻaʻole ia ka hihia ma waena o kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina. No laila, e hoʻohou mau i kāu makemake inā e hihia ana kēlā hihia.
No laila he aha ka mea e hana ai inā he wahine i haʻalele ʻia? ʻĀ, ma ke kānāwai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hemo ʻia, ʻo ia hoʻi ua male ʻo ia. He mea ʻole i ka ʻaha inā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ana i nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole ʻaʻole. No laila ma ke kānāwai, hele ka hapalua o ka hoʻoilina i ka wahine, hoʻokaʻawale a i ʻole ia.
Ma muli o ke koi ʻana o ke kānāwai US e waiho i kahi hoʻoilina i ka wahine a kekahi, ʻo ka wahine i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia loaʻa iā ia ka liona o kāu hoʻoilina, ʻoiai ʻokoʻa nā kānāwai o kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina.
Eia naʻe, he manaʻo laulā kēia. Inā ʻaʻole he makemake ko ke kāne e hōʻike i ka ʻole o ka kamaʻilio ʻana a ka wahine a male ʻia ma ka pepa no ka pono o kā lāua keiki a i ʻole nā kumu ʻē aʻe.
Hiki ke maʻalea ka hoʻoilina; e hōʻalo i ka huikau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makemake o ka loio i ka manawa āpau.E hoʻopakele kēia i ka ʻohana mai nā huikau a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa kūpono ʻole.
ʻO ka pilina Estranged vs. haʻalele
Nui nā kumu e makemake ai ka wahine i ka pilina i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana a hoʻokaʻawale ʻia paha. ʻO ke kumu he mau keiki, hoʻoluhi i ke ola o nā keiki, a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ko lākou olakino noʻonoʻo ke kumu nui.
ʻO nā kumu ʻē aʻe e hiki ke lilo i nā kūlana hoʻokele. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma mua o ka male male, keu hoʻi inā he hōʻaiʻē hui a me ka molaki e noʻonoʻo ai.
Inā ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo kahi kāne e pili ana i ka male hou ʻana a ua hoʻoponopono lāua i kā lāua mau mea e pili ana i ka makemake a me ka hoʻoilina, a laila ʻaʻohe pilikia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine a kāne a kāne ʻē paha. E pili ana i nā kuleana o ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia, ua like ia me nā wahine ʻē aʻe, no ka mea, male male ʻia ʻo ia.
Ke hele nei i loko o kahi pilina ʻohana, noho malihini ʻana akā male ʻia naʻe he kūlana huikau ia e komo ai. ʻAʻole ʻoe i aloha i ke kāne, akā ʻo ʻoe nō kāna wahine. Nānā ʻole i ke kumu, he kūlana minamina ke komo ʻana i loko.