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- ʻO Kerry lāua ʻo Tim: ʻO ke kumakaia i hoʻokumu ʻia e nā mākua paʻa
- ʻO Cynthy lāua ʻo Jerry: ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni maʻi
- Therese lāua ʻo Harvey: He wahine i haʻalele ʻole ʻia
- ʻO Carrie lāua ʻo Jason: hōʻole i nā manawa kūpono no ka hāpai keiki
Ua lohe paha ʻoe i ka nane e pili ana i ka mōʻī a me ka mōʻī wahine nāna i hoʻouna i kā lāua keikikāne, i makemake ʻia e lilo i mōʻī, e ʻimi nei i ka wahine hanohano, ʻoluʻolu, naʻauao hoʻi e kaʻana like i kona noho aliʻi. "E hāmama ākea kou mau maka," i ʻōlelo aʻo ikaika ai kona mau mākua ma ke ʻano o kā lāua hānau mua i koe no kāna ʻimi. I hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope mai ua hoʻi ka mōʻī me kāna koho, he wahine ʻōpio i aloha nui ʻia e kona mau mākua. I ka lā o ka male, ma nā leo i ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o nā mea i hoʻohana ʻia ma mua o kāna huakaʻi, ua hāʻawi hou aku kona mau mākua i ʻōlelo aʻo hou, i kēia manawa i ka wahine: , ke nānā ʻole aku a kala aku i ke koena o kou ola male. A e hoʻomanaʻo, inā hana ʻoe i kekahi mea ʻeha i kekahi ʻano, e kala koke. ”
ʻO kahi hoaaloha pili loa me nā makahiki o ka ʻike ma ke ʻano he loio hemo i pane i ka naʻauao o kēia nane: "Me nā ʻano he nui i hōʻeha a ʻānai paha nā kāne i kekahi i kekahi ma ke ʻano he hana mana he mea hiki i nā kānaka ʻelua ke noho maikaʻi pū. ʻO ka nānā ʻana, ke ʻohi ʻana i kāu pilikia, a me ke kala ʻana no nā hana ʻeha ka ʻōlelo aʻo akamai loa. "
E like me ka naʻauao o ka ʻōlelo, eia naʻe, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka kala ʻana i nā manawa a pau. ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo, he maʻalahi ke kala aku i kahi kāne i poina i ke kāhea ʻana e lohi ʻo ia no ka ʻaina awakea ke hana nui a hopohopo nui ʻo ia. He mea maʻalahi ke kala aku i ka wahine no ka hoʻopoina ʻana e kiʻi i kāna kāne ma ke kahua kaʻaahi ke hoʻokau ʻia e kāna kuleana.
Akā pehea mākou e kala ai i ka wā e hōʻeha a kumakaia paha mākou e nā pilina paʻakikī e pili ana i ka kumakaia, nalo, a me ka hōʻole ʻia? Ua aʻo mai ka ʻike iaʻu ma nā hanana e like me kēia ke ala naʻaupō ʻo ka kanu ʻana i ka ʻeha, ka huhū a i ʻole ka huhū, akā e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka ʻike piha a me ka ʻike, kahi ala hilinaʻi i ke kala kala ʻana i hāʻawi ʻia i ke kuhikuhi maikaʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana mai kaʻu hana e hoʻomālamalama i kēia ala.
ʻO Kerry lāua ʻo Tim: ʻO ke kumakaia i hoʻokumu ʻia e nā mākua paʻa
ʻO Kerry lāua ʻo Tim (ʻaʻole inoa maoli, ʻoiaʻiʻo), nā mākua o kahi keikikāne pēpē ʻehā mau makahiki, i hui ma ke koleke a aloha aloha koke ma hope o kēia hālāwai. ʻO nā mākua o Tim, kahi kāne waiwai, noho i kekahi mau mile mai kā lāua keiki kāne a me ka hūnōna wahine, ʻoiai nā mākua o Kerry, no ke ʻano haʻahaʻa, e noho nei i hoʻokahi mile ka mamao. ʻOiai ʻaʻole i hui pū ʻo Kerry lāua ʻo Tim makuahine, ua hauʻoli nā mākua o Kerry i kā kā lāua hūnōna kāne (e like me kā Tim e hana nei) a kokoke i kā lāua kaikamahine.
Ua ʻimi ʻo Tim lāua ʻo Kerry i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā lāua ke kū i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i kahi hanana i hala iho nei. Ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kā lāua keikikāne ʻo Kerry i manaʻoʻiʻo ua ʻae lāua a me Tim e pili ʻole i kā lāua mau mākua a hiki i ka hānau ʻana o ka pēpē. I ka manawa i hele ai ʻo Kerry i ka hana, eia naʻe, ua leka uila ʻo Tim i kona mau mākua, ka poʻe i holo i ka haukapila. Ua hoʻohana ʻo Tim i ka hapa nui o kā Kerry hana leka uila i kona mau mākua e hoʻohou iā lākou i ka holomua. "Ua kumakaia ʻo Tim iaʻu," ua wehewehe huhū ʻo Kerry i kā mākou kau mua, me ka hoʻomau ʻana, "Ua maopopo i koʻu mau mākua e lohe lākou mai iā mākou ma hope o ka lawe palekana ʻana. "E nānā, e Kerry," i pane aku ai ʻo Tim, "Ua haʻi aku wau iā ʻoe i nā mea āu e pono ai e hoʻolohe, akā me ka manaʻoʻiʻo he kuleana ko koʻu mau mākua e ʻike i nā mea āpau e hana nei."
I loko o ʻekolu mau mahina o ka hana nui a Tim i ʻike ai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻāpono i kahi ʻanuʻu nui i nā male kūleʻa: ka pono no ka neʻe ʻana o ke kūpaʻa mai nā mākua i ka hoa, kahi mea a nā mākua o Kerry i hoʻomaopopo ai. Ua ʻike ʻo ia he mea pono e loaʻa ka puʻuwai puʻuwai me ke kūkākūkā puʻuwai me kona makuahine, ka mea āna i ʻike ai i ka nānā haʻahaʻa ʻana i kāna wahine ma muli o ka waiwai ʻole o nā mākua a me ka mea a lākou i manaʻo ai he "nele i ke kūlana kaiaulu."
Ua ʻike ʻo Kerry i ka pono e hāʻawi i ke aloha me kona makuahōnōwai wahine, nāna i ʻike "ʻaʻole hiki ke maikaʻi ʻole - ma hope o nā mea āpau, ua hānai ʻo ia i kahi keiki kāne kupaianaha." Me nā manaʻo i wehewehe maopopo loa ʻia a Tim e pili ana i kona makuahine, a me ko Terry manaʻo paʻa e haʻalele i ka ukiuki, ua hoʻomālielie ʻia nā hakakā, a ua hoʻomaka ʻia kahi mokuna hou a maikaʻi no ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa.
ʻO Cynthy lāua ʻo Jerry: ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni maʻi
ʻO Cynthy lāua ʻo Jerry he 35 mau makahiki, a ua male ʻia no 7 mau makahiki. Ua paʻa kēlā me kēia i kahi ʻoihana, a ʻaʻole makemake i nā keiki. Ua hele hoʻokahi ʻo Cynthy i ke kūkākūkā ʻana, ʻoiai ua hōʻole ʻo Jerry e hui pū me ia. Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Cynthy e uē i ka wā i pani ʻia koʻu puka keʻena, e wehewehe ana ua lilo ka hilinaʻi ʻole i kāna kāne, "ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu kahi e huli ai a ʻeha loa wau a huhū hoʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he pili ka hana a ko Jerry mau pō i hala. akā ʻaʻole ia e kamaʻilio me aʻu e pili ana i ka mea e hana nei. " Ke wehewehe hou aku nei, haʻi aku ʻo Cynthy, "ʻAʻole hoihoi hou ʻo Jerry i kā mākou hana aloha ʻana, a me he mea lā ʻaʻole hoihoi loa iaʻu ma ke ʻano he kanaka. “
I loko o ʻekolu mau mahina o ka hana pū ʻana, ua ʻike ʻo Cynthy ua wahaheʻe kāna kāne iā ia i loko o kā lāua male. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i kahi hanana i ka wā mua o kā lāua ola male ʻana i ka wā i haʻalele ai ʻo Cynthy i kāna hana ma ke ʻano he mea helu kālā e alakaʻi i kahi noi a kahi hoaaloha pili i kahi keʻena i koho ʻia no ka mokuʻāina. Ma hope o ke koho balota, a nā hoa aloha i eo ai ma kekahi mau balota wale nō, haʻi akula ʻo Jerry iā Cynthy me ke anuanu a me ka hauʻoli, “ʻO ia kou moho, ʻaʻole naʻu. Ua hoʻohālike au i hope iā ia e pani iā ʻoe. ”
I loko o kāna malama ʻelima o ka hoʻōla, ua haʻi ʻo Cynthy iā Jerry makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokaʻawale. Ua neʻe ʻo ia me ka hauʻoli, a ua ʻike ʻo Cynthy ua hōʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i ka hiki ke hoʻolilo manawa me kekahi. Ma hope koke iho o kona hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hoihoi iā ia o kekahi lālā o kāna kalapu puke nona ka wahine i make i ka makahiki i hala, a ua mohala koke kā lāua pili. Ua aloha nui ʻo Cynthy i ka ʻike ʻana i nā keiki a Carl, ʻelua mau kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, 6 a 7. mau makahiki. I kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻo Jerry ua hana hewa nui ʻo ia. Ke noi nei i kāna wahine e haʻalele i nā hoʻolālā no ka hemo a kala iā ia, ua haʻi ʻia iā ia, "ʻOiaʻiʻo, kala aku wau iā ʻoe. Ua lawe mai ʻoe iaʻu i ka ʻike ʻoi aku wau, a no ke aha e pono ai ka hemo. "
Therese lāua ʻo Harvey: He wahine i haʻalele ʻole ʻia
He mau māhoe kāne a Therese lāua ʻo Harvey, 15 mau makahiki, i ka wā i aloha ai ʻo Harvey me kekahi wahine ʻē aʻe. I loko o kā mākou kau mua, hōʻike ʻo Therese i ka huhū e pili ana i kāna hihia, a ua kūʻē ʻo Harvey ua huhū ʻo ia no ka mea pili ke ola a kāna wahine i kā lāua keikikāne. I nā ʻōlelo a Harvey, “Ua poina ʻo Therese i kahi manawa lōʻihi he kāne kāna, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kala iā ia no kēia hana hoʻopoina. No ke aha lā wau e makemake ʻole ai e noho me kahi wahine e hoihoi mai iaʻu? ” He ala maoli ʻo Harvey no kāna wahine.
Ua hoʻoholo paʻa ʻo Therese e hoʻomaopopo i nā kumu o ka lawena āna i ʻike ʻole ai a ʻike ai a ʻike koke ʻo ia no ka make pū ʻana o kona makuakāne a me kona kaikunāne i kahi ulia kaʻa ʻoiai ʻo 9 ia, ua pili nui ʻo ia me kāna mau keikikāne, i kapa ʻia no kona makuakāne i hala a kaikuaʻana, kaikaina. Ma kēia ala, ua manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia e hiki iā ia ke pale iā lākou mai ka hopena like me kona makuakāne a me kona kaikaina. Ua ʻike ʻo Harvey e pono ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kona huhū a me kāna wahine hōʻeha ma mua, ma mua o ka ʻae ʻana iā ia e hānai. I ka manawa o kēia hoʻomaopopo like, ua pau ka pili o Harvey; Ua hoʻokokoke aku ka ʻike iā lākou ma mua o ka wā ma mua. a ua hoʻomālamalama ka ʻike i nā huhū āpau.
ʻO Carrie lāua ʻo Jason: hōʻole i nā manawa kūpono no ka hāpai keiki
Ua hoʻopaneʻe ʻo Carrie i ka hāpai ʻana no ka mea ʻaʻole maopopo ʻo Jason he makemake kāna keiki. "Makemake au e hiki ke hoʻokuʻu ʻia no mākou e ʻohi a leʻaleʻa i kēlā me kēia manawa a mākou e makemake ai," ua haʻi pinepine ʻo ia iā ia. "ʻAʻole au makemake e hāʻawi i kēlā." ʻAʻole nō i makemake ʻo Jason e lilo i makua i ka wā o ko Carrie wati olaola, i ka makahiki 35, i hoʻomaka ai e ʻuwī “I kēia manawa a ʻaʻole loa! ”
I kēia manawa ua hoʻoholo ʻo Carrie me ka ʻole o Jason, ua paʻa kona manaʻo e hāpai. ʻO kēia ʻokoʻa me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻonā ʻia, a me ko lākou huhū i kekahi i kekahi no nā makemake i hiki ʻole ke ʻaelike ʻia, lawe lākou iā lākou i ka lāʻau.
I loko o kā mākou hana, ua ʻike ʻo Jason ua hemo kā kona mau mākua i ka piha ʻana o kona mau makahiki he ʻumi, a me kahi makuakāne i hoihoi ʻole iā ia, ua makaʻu ʻo ia i ka loaʻa ʻole iā ia o ka "makuakāne." Eia nō naʻe, i ka holomua ʻana o kā mākou hana ua ʻike ʻo ia i nā mea āpau e hōʻole nei ʻo ia i kāna wahine, a ua hoʻohiki ʻo ia e "aʻo e lilo i mea aʻu e aʻo ai." ʻO kēia kākoʻo a me ke aloha e hoʻomāmā i ka huhū o Carrie, a, ʻoiai, ua ʻike ʻo Jason ʻo kona huhū iā Carrrie "he noʻonoʻo ʻole a hoʻomāinoino."
I kēia manawa naʻe, he nui nā hōʻike ma hope o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o Carrie e hāpai a hāpai (ʻo Jason mau ma ka ʻaoʻao o Carrie) ua hōʻike ua hala a ʻelemakule nā hua a Carrie a hiki ʻole ke hoʻohua. Ua alakaʻi hou ʻia ke kūkākūkā hou ʻana i ke aʻo ʻana o ua mau kāne nei e pili ana i ka hiki ke loaʻa he “hua manu hāʻawi,” a hui pū ʻo Carrie lāua ʻo Jason i ʻimi i kahi ʻoihana kaulana a loaʻa kahi mea hāʻawi pono i koho ʻia. I kēia manawa ʻo lākou nā mākua mālamalama o Jenny, ʻekolu makahiki. ʻAe lākou: "Pehea mākou e manaʻolana ai i kekahi mea kupanaha ma mua o kā mākou kaikamahine?" A ʻoi aku. Ma kā Jason mau huaʻōlelo, "mahalo wau ua hiki iaʻu ke aʻo e ʻike i nā mea āpau aʻu e hōʻole nei i kahi wahine aʻu i aloha nui ai, a like me ka mahalo i ka hāʻawi ʻana iaʻu iho i kēia hauʻoli hauʻoli."