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- 1. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i waho me ka ʻae ʻole
- 2. Manaʻo ʻia ʻoe e hana a uku no nā mea
- 3. Kuhi ʻia ʻoe e kūpaʻa
- 4. Hoʻomākaukau no nā keiki
- 5. Makemake ʻia ʻoe e hoʻonoho i ka mea nui i kou ʻohana
- 6. Pono nā māhoe e kaʻanalike i nā moeʻuhane
- Hoʻololi ka loaʻa ʻana i ka hitched i kou nohona
No laila, ua hoʻopuka ʻoe i ka nīnau a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻAe! Cue Fireworks a me kahi Honi! Aia ʻoe ma luna pono o ka honua. Akā, ke hoʻi i kou wāwae i lalo mai nā ao, ʻike ʻoe e loli ana nā mea. E. Pono ia.
He aha ke ʻano o ka hoʻokuʻi ʻia?
ʻO ke ola male paha kahi huakaʻi hou nāu, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe ka mea mua, a ke lana nei ka manaʻo ʻaʻole ke kāne hope loa e hana i ka wiwo ʻole e noi i kahi wahine e male iā ia. Akā -
ʻAʻole kūlike nā male ʻelua.
No laila, ke kaʻana nei me ʻoe i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia mai iā ʻoe.
1. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i waho me ka ʻae ʻole
E like ia me ke kula kiʻekiʻe hou hou. ʻAi ʻoe a ʻoi aku ka manuahi e ola i kou ola ke ʻae ʻia e kou makuahine. ʻOihana, ʻaʻole manuahi ʻoe. No ke aha i kou manaʻo e kāhea ʻia kēia?
Hoʻopili ʻia e ka wehewehe ʻana e hoʻopaʻa i lalo i kahi mea (ʻoe) i kahi mea ʻē aʻe (ʻo ʻoe ka haku-makuahine-wahine hou).
He mea ʻole inā kou hale ia a ʻo kāu kālā ke uku nei i nā bila a me ka waihona ʻana i ka pahu hau. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea me ka ʻae ʻole o kāu wahine. Mai hopohopo, hana ia i nā ala ʻelua, pono ʻo ia i kāu ʻae e hana i kekahi mea. ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio a me ka ʻike.
2. Manaʻo ʻia ʻoe e hana a uku no nā mea
ʻOiai i loko o kahi pilina kauā, pono nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua e huki i ko lākou kaumaha e noho pū. Ma ka launa like e like me ka male, like ia, koe wale nō nā hoʻoholo nui i hana ʻia ma ke ʻano he hoa. Hana pū e lawe i ka home ka puaʻa, hoʻōla, kuke, a holoi i nā pā.
ʻ familieslelo nā ʻohana kuʻuna he maʻalahi no ke kāne e hoʻihoʻi mai i ka bacon a hana ka wahine i ke koena.
Akā, hana pū nā ʻohana o kēia ao i nā mea āpau.
Pehea ʻoe e holo ai i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o kou ʻohana iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kekahi. He mea ia o ke koho pilikino a me nā kūlana. ʻElua wale nō ʻano ʻokoʻa i ke ʻano o ka makahiki.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu hoa i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻa no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea inā ʻilihune a lepo paha kāu ʻilihune, ʻae ʻia ʻoe i kēia manawa e hoʻolaʻa i kahi manawa nui o kou manawa a me kāu waiwai i kou ʻohana.
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3. Kuhi ʻia ʻoe e kūpaʻa
ʻAe, ua ʻike nā mea āpau i kēlā manawa, akā ʻo ka ʻike a me ka hana ʻana he ʻelua mau mea ʻokoʻa. E kahaha paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka poʻe male e hoʻopunipuni i kā lākou hoa.
No laila, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻonele i kahi kālā he nui no ka hoʻolauleʻa male a me ka hemo kolohe ʻana, mai male ʻoe inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa i kāu hoa. Hoʻomaopopo i ka paʻakikī o kekahi poʻe i ka loaʻa ʻana o hoʻokahi hoa kolohe i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa, akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka male.
No laila e kūpaʻa. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i ka mea like mai kāu pakanā. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hilinaʻi iā lākou e mālama i kā lākou ʻōlelo, mai mare pū kekahi iā lākou.
4. Hoʻomākaukau no nā keiki
ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ʻaʻole pili wale i ʻelua mau poʻe i pili pū. Akā, pili ia i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ʻohana hou kahi e lilo ai ko lākou mau hoahānau a ʻike ʻia. Hiki i nā mākua kāne ke paʻakikī e hana pū, akā ʻo kēlā ʻāpana o ka pūʻulu male.
ʻO kēlā ʻē aʻe, ke kumu nui a keu e male ai ka wahine i ka ʻohana. Kuhi ka poʻe āpau iā ʻolua he keiki. ʻAʻole pono ia e hiki koke, akā he mea ia a kou ʻohana e manaʻo ai mai ka hui.
Maʻalahi ka hana ʻana i nā pēpē. ʻO ka hāpai ʻana i hoʻokahi kuleana ʻelua a ʻumi paha makahiki ke lōʻihi. He kumukūʻai a hoʻolōʻihi manawa ia. He uku nui nō hoʻi ia i hiki ke lawe i ka hauʻoli a me ka hoʻokō i nā ola o ka ʻohana ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa.
5. Makemake ʻia ʻoe e hoʻonoho i ka mea nui i kou ʻohana
I kou wā e aloha ʻana, aia kekahi mau manawa ke ʻike aku ʻoe i ka palaualelo a i ʻole ka hana nui e pane i ke kāhea a kāu wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO kāu kuleana kēlā. Once ua male ʻoe, loli nā mea - pane a make paha ia. Mai hopohopo no kou haʻaheo ma ke ʻano he kāne. ʻAʻole ia e hehi ʻia i ka wā e hele ana ʻoe i ka peʻa a kā wahine a kāhea aku ai.
Kū ke kāne maoli i kāna mau hoʻohiki.
Ua hoʻohiki ʻoe i kou male ʻana i kekahi. ʻAʻole pili i ka haʻaheo kāne. ʻO ke kāne nānā ʻole i kāna wahine, ʻaʻole ia he kāne. He kekeke piha ʻo ia.
Aia kekahi mau manawa ke lili kūpono ʻole ka wahine, overprotective, a loaʻa iā ia. He pilikia ʻokoʻa kēlā, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe. Akā inā ʻoe e aloha i ke kanaka, a laila e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i ko lākou ʻano ma mua o kou male ʻana iā ia.
Mai manaʻo e loli ka poʻe no ka mea ua male ʻoe iā lākou. Ma mua o kona ʻohana, ʻo ia nō ka mea like. E kamaʻilio a hoʻokumu hou i kāu pilina.
E hele pū ka poʻe male ma ke ala like.
Kōkua nui ia inā ʻoe e nānā ana i ka palapala ʻāina like.
6. Pono nā māhoe e kaʻanalike i nā moeʻuhane
Ke kamaʻilio nei no ka hele wāwae ʻana i ke ala like, ʻo ʻoe kekahi mea i kēia manawa. I nā maka o ke aupuni a me ka panakō, manaʻo ʻia ʻoe he hoʻokahi. Nui a hewahewa nā kānāwai kīwila e mālama ai i nā kāne i male ʻia ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi mea.
Ma ke ʻano he kāne, inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa ka manawa o kāu male, pono ʻoe e like me nā pahuhopu like. He papa kikoʻī a kikoʻī ia e makemake ai ʻolua e hoʻokō.Inā loaʻa iā ʻolua kahi ala kaʻawale kaʻawale, a laila e hōʻoia e kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi keu ke hoʻohui ʻoe i nā kuleana hānai keiki i ka hui.
ʻO ke kaʻana ʻana i ka ukana o kāu mau pahuhopu ponoʻī a me nā mākua ke koi kino a me ka noʻonoʻo.
Pono nā mōhai e kūpono i nā mea āpau i ka lā. Inā ʻoe hoihoi e pili ana i ka mea e pono ai ka mōhai, a laila heluhelu hou i ka ʻāpana mua.
Hoʻololi ka loaʻa ʻana i ka hitched i kou nohona
Inā ʻoe e heluhelu i nā mea āpau a hōʻuluʻulu i nā mea āpau, ʻo ʻoe a me kāu wahine ka mea like ma hope o kāu hoʻohiki ʻana, akā pono e loli i kou mau kaila.
ʻO ke kuʻi, ka male ʻana, ka nakinaki ʻana i nā knot, a i ʻole nā mea hoʻohālikelike a mākou e loaʻa ai no ia, ma ka hopena o ka lā, he mea paʻa wale nō ia. Ua hāʻawi mākou i kā mākou ʻōlelo, kau inoa i ko mākou inoa, a hoʻohiki mākou e kū me kā mākou wahine no nā lā i koe.