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- Nā keiki ma ke ʻano he kanaka
- ʻO ka makahiki mua o ka hemo
- Kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻomaʻa i nā loli
- Ka palekana ʻole
- ʻO kekahi mau hopena maikaʻi i nā keiki
- Nā hopena lōʻihi o ka haʻalele male ma nā keiki
Ua hana ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi e pili ana i nā hopena o ka hemo ʻana ma luna o nā keiki.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea i loaʻa i kēia manawa ke nānā aku i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a ʻaʻohe manaʻo maopopo e pili ana i ka hopena. He hopohopo ia ma muli o nā hopena i loaʻa i kēlā me kēia a pehea e launa ai lākou ma ke ʻano he mākua ke hana lākou i ka hui kaiaulu.
Nā keiki ma ke ʻano he kanaka
Hoʻopili mākou i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo e like me kā mākou kuanaʻike a ʻaʻohe ʻokoʻa nā keiki. ʻAʻohe o lākou ʻike i ke ola a nā mākua, akā ua hoʻomanawanui kekahi o lākou i nā manawa kūpilikiʻi i ko lākou ola.
Hiki ke hana ʻia kekahi mau laulaha e pili ana i nā hopena o ka hemo male ʻana i nā keiki a ma ka nui o nā hihia, pololei lākou. ʻO kahi laʻana, manaʻo paha nā keiki ua haʻalele ʻia lākou e ka makua noncustodial. Huikau ka hapanui a maopopo ʻole ke kumu o ka hala koke ʻana o kekahi makua. Hoʻololi ka ikaika o ka ʻohana a copes kēlā me kēia keiki me ko lākou ʻano hou i nā ʻano like ʻole.
Loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka hopena o ka male male ma nā keiki a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e hoʻoponopono i loko o kēia wā pilikia i loko o ko lākou ola.
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ʻO ka makahiki mua o ka hemo
ʻO kēia ka manawa paʻakikī loa no nā keiki. He makahiki kēia o ka mua. ʻO nā lā hānau, nā lā nui, nā wā hoʻomaha o ka ʻohana a me nā manawa i hoʻolilo ʻia me nā mākua he ʻokoʻa loa.
Lilo lākou i ke ʻano o ka kamaʻāina i pili mua i kēia mau hanana.
Inā ʻaʻole e hana pū nā mākua ʻelua e hoʻolauleʻa i nā hanana ma ke ʻano he ʻohana e mahele ana paha ka manawa. E hoʻomaha nā keiki i ka lā hoʻomaha ma ka home o ka makua kamaʻāina a ʻo ka mea aʻe me ka mea i neʻe aku.
ʻAe ʻae nā mākua i ka papa kuhikuhi o ke kipa ʻana ma o nā ʻaha akā ʻae kekahi e maʻalahi a hoʻonoho mua i nā pono o ke keiki.
I kekahi mau hanana, aia nā mākua ʻelua a ma nā mea ʻē aʻe, pono e hele nā keiki a hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea disruptive. Hoʻololi ʻia ke kūpaʻa o ko lākou kaiapuni a hoʻololi ʻia nā hana maʻamau a ka ʻohana i nā mea hou, i kekahi manawa me kēlā me kēia makua e like me ka hemo ʻana e hiki ai ke hoʻololi i nā ʻano makua a me nā ʻano.
Kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻomaʻa i nā loli
Hoʻomaʻamaʻa maikaʻi kekahi mau keiki i kahi kaiapuni hou a i ʻole ka hana maʻamau. He paʻakikī kekahi i kekahi. Huikau, hoʻohoka a hoʻoweliweli i ko lākou palekana nā manaʻo maʻamau a nā keiki e hana ai. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i manawa weliweli a i loko hoʻi o ka manawa hoʻonāukiuki ʻole o ka naʻau. ʻAʻohe mea e pakele i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he hanana traumatic kēia e hiki ke hoʻopili i nā keiki i ke ola holoʻokoʻa.
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Ka palekana ʻole
ʻO nā keiki ʻōpio i maopopo ʻole ke kumu o ka loli ʻana o nā mea a no ke aha hoʻi i haʻalele ai ko lākou mau mākua i ke aloha ʻole kekahi i kekahi. Mahalo lākou inā ʻaʻole e aloha ko lākou mau mākua iā lākou. Hoʻohaʻahaʻa kēia i ko lākou ʻano paʻa. Pono ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo mai nā mākua ʻelua no nā keiki.
Loaʻa paha i nā keiki ma ke kula papa ka manaʻo hewa no ka haʻalele ʻana o kā lākou makua. Manaʻo paha lākou he kuleana lākou, keu hoʻi inā ua hakakā nā mākua e pili ana i ka makua ma mua o lākou. Manaʻo paha lākou me he mea lā ʻo kā lākou hana a i ʻole ka hana ʻole i kumu e hakakā ai ko lākou mau mākua a laila kāhea aku iā lākou e haʻalele. Hiki i kēia ke hopena i nā manaʻo o ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole.
ʻO ka pīhoihoi, ke kaumaha, a me ka huhū nā hōʻailona maʻamau. Aia paha he mau pilikia ma ke kula, hāʻule nā papa, nā hanana hanana a i ʻole nā hōʻailona o ka haʻalele ʻana mai ka pili kaiaulu.
Aia kekahi hopohopo e hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i kahi keiki e ulu ana i nā hihia pili i nā pilina a lākou i ulu ai ma ke ʻano he mākua. Hiki i nā ʻōpio ke kipi a hana i ka huhū a me ka huhū no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike pehea e hōʻike ai i nā manaʻo o loko a lākou i maopopo ʻole ai.
Hiki paha iā lākou ke pilikia i ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou hana kula a loaʻa nā papa haʻahaʻa i kā lākou papa. Hana ʻia kēia me kekahi, akā ʻaʻole nā keiki āpau o nā mākua hemo.
ʻO kekahi mau hopena maikaʻi i nā keiki
I kekahi mau hanana, hiki i ka hemo ka hopena ma luna o nā keiki, a aia kekahi mau ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine.ʻO kahi laʻana, ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa a hakakā nā mākua, a i ʻole inā kolohe kekahi makua i ka makua a i ʻole nā keiki ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka haʻalele ʻana o kēlā makua ke lawe i kahi ʻano nui o ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha i loko o ka home.
Ke loli ka nohona home mai ke koʻikoʻi a palekana ʻole i kahi paʻa hou, hiki i ka hopena o ka male male ma mua o ke kūlana ma mua o ka hemo.
Nā hopena lōʻihi o ka haʻalele male ma nā keiki
Hiki i ka haki o nā mākua ke hopena i nā wahi he nui o ke ola o kahi keiki. Ua hōʻike nā noiʻi i nā loulou ma waena o ka hemo a me ka hōʻino ʻana i ka lāʻau, ka palekana ʻole, nā pilikia pili i nā pilina a me nā pilikia olakino noʻonoʻo i nā mākua mai nā hale haki.
Aia kekahi ʻoi aku ke kiʻekiʻe o ka hemo, nā pilikia me ka hana a me nā pilikia kūpilikiʻi ke hiki i nā keiki o nā mākua hemo i ko lākou wā makua. He mea nui ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia mau hopena kūpono no nā mākua ʻelua e noʻonoʻo ana a i ʻole i ke kaʻina o ka hemo.
Hiki i kēia ʻike ke kōkua i nā mākua e kaupaona i nā pono a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka hemo ʻana a aʻo i nā ala e kōkua ai i kā lākou keiki e hoʻomaʻa i nā pilikia i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka male male, a me ka manaolana e hoʻoliʻiliʻi nui ka hopena.
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