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- ʻO Narcissist a me ka male
- ʻO ke aloha a me ka noʻonoʻo nuiy
- E wehewehe kāu kāne i ka male
- ʻAʻole loa ʻoe e lanakila a hoʻoholo i kahi paio
- ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hauʻoli i ka lā hānau a hoʻolauleʻa hou paha
- E ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hele wāwae ana i nā ʻāpana hua manu
Inā ua male ʻoe i kahi narcissist, a i ʻole ʻike iā ʻoe iho i male ʻia i kekahi, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i ʻike i ka mea āu e makemake ai, a pehea paha e loli ai kāu hoa ma hope o kou male ʻana. No laila, pehea e loli ai kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male?
Hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe narcissist akamai e hūnā lākou i nā ʻāpana o lākou iho a hiki i kou kūpaʻa piha ʻana iā lākou; i ʻole, aia kahi manawa e lilo lākou iā ʻoe.
ʻAʻole paha lākou i hōʻike iā ʻoe pehea e lilo ai ma hope o kou male ʻana iā lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia na lākou e hana pēlā.
ʻO Narcissist a me ka male
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo wai ka mea e male ai ka narcissist? Ua mare ʻia kahi mea narcissist i kekahi mea e lilo i kumu maikaʻi o ka lako narcissistic lōʻihi no lākou. Loaʻa iā lākou kahi hoa pili i ka mea nāwaliwali, ʻike ʻole a hilinaʻi ʻole paha. No laila, no ke aha e male ai nā mea narcissists?
Ua male nā Narcissists no ka mea makemake lākou e hoʻonui kekahi i kā lākou kālā a lilo i kumu mau o ka lako narcissistic. ʻO ka wahine narcissist ke male ʻana inā lawelawe ia i kā lākou kumu e like me ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ke kiʻi, kahi mākaʻi i loaʻa a kālā paha.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole like nā kūlana āpau, eia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o ka loli ʻana o kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male ʻana. (E loli ka hopena o ka narcissism mai kēlā me kēia kanaka a hiki ke hoʻomanawanui ʻia kēia mau hopena, e like me ka nui a me ka hopena o ka wahine.
ʻO ke aloha a me ka noʻonoʻo nuiy
E ʻike koke ʻoe i kekahi o nā ala nui a ka narcissist e loli ai ma hope o ka male ʻana e hōʻike iā lākou iā ʻoe i ka hiki ʻole o ka loaʻa a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi pilina olakino.
ʻO Narcissism kahi maʻi pilikino e pili ana i ka nele o ke aloha no nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo o haʻi. Inā ʻaʻohe aloha, ʻaʻohe noʻonoʻo a aloha ʻole i kāu mau pono.
ʻOiai inā ua hoʻopunipuni ʻia ʻoe ma mua o ka male ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke hūnā kēia ʻano ma hope o ka male ʻana a lilo ia i kumu o kou pilina.
E wehewehe kāu kāne i ka male
Manaʻo paha ʻoe e wehewehe ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo o kou pili ma mua o ka male ʻana a ʻae ʻia paha e ʻae i kēlā no ka mea ua lawelawe ia i ka pāʻani hopena a ka hoa narcissistic.
ʻO kēia aniani, ʻo nā ʻano, kekahi hiʻohiʻona nui o ka hoʻololi ʻana o kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male ʻana no ka mea pili ʻole kou manaʻo, manaʻo, a me nā pono i kekahi mea me kēia ʻano.
Maliʻa paha ma ka male ʻana i ka narcissist, e wehewehe ana kāu wahine i nā huaʻōlelo āna e hōʻike ai i nā kūlana kaulua. ʻAʻole e ʻike ʻia ko mākou pono he mea nui inā ʻaʻole kahi pōmaikaʻi i kāu wahine.
Hiki i kahi narcissist ke loli i kahi ala e manaʻo ai ua nalowale kāu ʻōlelo i ka male? ʻAe, e hoʻomaka paha kāu wahine e hōʻike i ka nele o ka makemake e kōkua a hoʻopili paha me ʻoe, a hiki i kēia ke loaʻa i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole no kāu waiwai ponoʻī.
ʻAʻole loa ʻoe e lanakila a hoʻoholo i kahi paio
A inā ʻoe e hana, a laila no ka mea aia kekahi mea i loko no kāu wahine.
ʻO kēia kahi hiʻohiʻona o ka hoʻololi ʻana o kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male ʻana.Ma mua o ka male ʻana ua like paha lākou me ka waiho ʻana i kekahi manawa, maliʻa paha e kala aku akā no ka mea ia manawa, ʻaʻole ʻoe no lākou āpau a ke hopohopo nei lākou i ka pehea o lākou e nānā aku nei iā ʻoe, a me kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha ma ke ʻano he mea nui.
Akā ʻo ka mea i koe ʻo kekahi me ka narcissism e liʻiliʻi iki i ka mihi, lilo i kahi paio a hoʻoholo i kahi hakakā.
No laila, pehea e loli ai kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male? ʻAʻohe o lākou makemake e hoʻokō i kā lākou hoʻohiki male. Aia lākou i ka pilina no ka hālāwai ʻana o kā lākou pono, ʻaʻole no ke aloha.
I nā kūlana koʻikoʻi, ʻaʻole ʻoe he mea nui hou no ka mea ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e hoʻokūʻiwa iā ʻoe. Ma hope o kāu hoʻokō loa ʻana iā lākou, ʻaʻohe mea hou aʻe e loaʻa ai (i ko lākou mau maka).
ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hauʻoli i ka lā hānau a hoʻolauleʻa hou paha
I kou lā hānau, pono ke kau ma luna ou.
Eia nō naʻe, e hoʻomaka paha kāu wahine narcissistic e sabotage i kāu mau hoʻolauleʻa a hoʻohuli i ka nānā iā lākou. ʻO kēia paha he huhū, hoʻolālā i nā hoʻolālā, a me nā hōʻoki ʻana me kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana mahalo i kāu wahine. No laila, hiki i kahi narcissist ke loli ma hope o ka male? ʻO ka pinepine no ka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
E ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hele wāwae ana i nā ʻāpana hua manu
I kēia manawa ʻo kāu wahine narcissistic ma ka noho kalaiwa o kou pilina a me ka male, kahi e hoʻonāukiuki ai a haʻalele iā ʻoe.
E uku paha kahi narcissist koʻikoʻi iā ʻoe inā:
- hōʻike ʻoe i kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai, nā makemake, a me nā makemake iā lākou,
- leʻaleʻa loa mai iā lākou,
- e hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i kahi kuhi a lanakila i kahi paio,
- mai ʻae iā ia e hoʻolālā i kona mau naʻau ma luna ou.
E ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hāmau ma ka maikaʻi inā hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hōʻole iā lākou, a kāhea paha iā lākou no kā lākou hana gaslighting a me ka hauʻoli sabotaging.
Hiki i kahi narcissist ke loli ma hope o ka male ʻana ma ke ʻano makaʻu iā ʻoe?
ʻO kekahi poʻe e mare i ka narcissist e hele wāwae i nā hua manu ʻoiai ʻaʻole kokoke ka wahine. ʻO ka mea pinepine kēia no ka mea ʻo ka mea me ka narcissism ua hoʻokau i kā lākou wahine e hana pēlā. ʻOiai pono ʻoe e hele ma luna o nā hua manu e loaʻa ai kekahi ʻano maluhia, na kēia hana e hoʻoikaika a paipai iā ia e hoʻomau me kēia ʻano.
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kēia kūlana, a hiki iā ʻoe ke pili i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona o ka loli ʻana o kahi narcissist ma hope o ka male ʻana a laila hiki i ka manawa e puka ai.
Pehea e kōkua ai i kahi narcissist e loli? ʻO ka pila ʻawaʻawa o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻoponopono i kou pilina me lākou ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana iā lākou a i ʻole ka paipai ʻana iā lākou e hele i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne. ʻAʻohe ou pilikia male a nui aʻe kāu pilikia.
No laila, hiki i kahi narcissist ke loli ma hope o ka male? Inā male ʻoe i kahi narcissist, ua male ʻoe i kekahi mea hiki ʻole ke loli i ka nui o kou makemake iā lākou.
Pololei ʻoe i ka laina mua o kahi kūlana weliweli e hoʻowahāwahā ʻia ʻoe e ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, a e nīnau iā ʻoe i kou noʻonoʻo pono.
Ma kahi maikaʻi ʻole, hiki i kēia kūlana ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia olakino noʻonoʻo e like me ka hopohopo, kaumaha, PTSD a me nā pilikia olakino kino. E noʻonoʻo i ka hilinaʻi ʻana i ke kākāʻōlelo e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo i kahi palekana.
Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e hoʻopau i ka pilina, hana i kahi hoʻolālā a loaʻa i ke kākoʻo e kōkua iā ʻoe ma ke ala. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻōla mai ka male i ka narcissist, a ʻo ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i ke ʻano a pehea e pale aku ai iā ʻoe iho he ʻanuʻu mua loa ia.