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- ʻO ka mea nui o ke kālā i ka male ʻana
- Nā pilikia pili kālā e alakaʻi ai i ka hemo
- 1. ʻOkoʻa ka nohona
- 2. Nā ʻokoʻa uku
- 3. Ka hoʻomaloka kālā
- 4. Nā manaolana kūpono ʻole
- 5. Ka lili nohona
- Ka hana ʻana me ke koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi i ka male
"ʻAʻole hiki i ke kālā ke kūʻai i ka hauʻoli." ʻO kahi ʻōlelo pōkole, kahi ʻōlelo maʻamau i ka hapanui o mākou a ʻoiai e ʻae ana kekahi o mākou i kēia, e hoʻopaʻapaʻa kekahi e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hopena o ka pilikia kālā i ka male.
ʻO nā kāne male e hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei e pili ana i ke kālā ʻaʻole ia he mea hou, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻike paha ʻoe i kekahi mea e ʻike nei i kēia ʻano pilikia ma kā lākou male ʻana a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pili pū i kēia kumuhana.
Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia male ka ʻāpana o kā lākou mau hoʻāʻo a ke pili i nā pilikia kālā, pehea ʻoe e lanakila ai a hoʻoikaika i kāu male?
ʻO ka mea nui o ke kālā i ka male ʻana
ʻIke mākou āpau ʻaʻole hiki i ke kālā ke kūʻai i ka hauʻoli a ʻae ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia akā pili nō kēia ʻōlelo i nā hanana like ʻole.
ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo he mea nui ʻole ke kālā no ka mea he kūpono ʻole kēlā.
He mea nui ke kālā, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hana i kekahi mea ke ʻole ia, ʻo ia ke kumu e pilikia ai ke kālā ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā pilikia nui loa iā mākou nā mākua.
He mea paʻakikī ka pilikia o ka hoʻokele waiwai no ka hapa nui o mākou e loaʻa kālā a mālama, ʻo ia ke kumu ma mua o ke nakinaki ʻana i nā kaula, pono e ʻike kekahi ua mākaukau pū kekahi lākou i ke kālā.
Inā ʻaʻole, a laila e manaʻo i nā pilikia kālā ma ka male ʻana a me ke aʻo ʻana pehea ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka maʻalahi o ka pilikia kālā.
Me nā pono āpau a mākou e loaʻa ai, pili ke kālā a me ka male.
Mai nā apo o ka male a hiki i ka male ponoʻī, pono ʻoe e mālama i ke kālā. ʻO ka male ʻana e hoʻomaka ʻoe i kou ʻohana iho a ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia, mai ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kou home ponoʻī, kaʻa, a me ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki e koi ana i kahi hana paʻa ʻo ia hoʻi kahi kahe paʻa o ka loaʻa kālā.
ʻO nā pilikia kālā i ka male male maʻamau nō ia.
ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻike ʻole i nā pilikia i kāu kālā inā paha he pilikia pōpilikia i manaʻo ʻole ʻia akā pehea ka hopena o nā pilikia kālā i ka male e hiki ai i kahi hui ikaika a i ʻole ka pilikia o ka male.
Nā pilikia pili kālā e alakaʻi ai i ka hemo
I ka manawa hea e luku ai nā pilikia kālā i ka male?
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā pilikia kālā ke kumu o ka hemo a me ka hapa nui o nā kāne a me ke aʻo ʻana e haʻalele i kā lākou mau moemoeā ma muli wale nō o ka pili ʻana i ka pilikia kālā i ka male ʻana.
ʻO kēia nā pilikia pili kālā maʻamau i ka male ʻana i hiki ke alakaʻi i nā kūlike ʻole a i ka hopena, i ka hemo male.
1. ʻOkoʻa ka nohona
He ʻokoʻa ko nā kāne a he maʻamau maʻamau kēlā. Pehea ʻoe e lanakila ai a hui me ka hapalua o ke ala akā pono mākou e ʻike ʻo ka ʻokoʻa o ka nohona kekahi o nā mea paʻakikī e lanakila.
He aha inā makemake ʻoe i nā moʻohelu kālā a aloha kāu wahine i nā huahana branded?
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ma laila e kākoʻo i ke ʻono pipiʻi a kāu wahine a laila pilikia paha kēia. Inā hana ʻoe a maikaʻi ʻole kou manaʻo e pili ana iā ia, hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka huhū i nā koho a kāu kāne a me kou ʻano āpau.
2. Nā ʻokoʻa uku
Hiki mai nā hopena kālā o ka male ma ka loaʻa ʻana o ka uku ʻokoʻa loa.
Manaʻo paha kekahi he kūpono ʻole ke kau i ka ʻāpana nui o nā lilo. Hiki iā ia ke kumu i ka luhi a hānai ʻia.
Pehea ka hopena o nā pilikia kālā i ka male ma ke ʻano pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i kou kūlana i ka male. Manaʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he mea ʻai? Inā pēlā, maikaʻi paha ʻoe me ka lawe i ka hapa nui o nā lilo?
3. Ka hoʻomaloka kālā
ʻO ka hoʻomaha ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
E noho mau nā pilikia kālā a me nā male male no laila maikaʻi e kūʻai iā ʻoe iho i kahi mea maikaʻi no kahi loli akā pehea inā lilo ia i ʻano maʻamau?
He aha inā inā hoʻomaka ʻoe e hana i ka pili kālā ʻole? Lawe ʻoe i ka 10 a i ʻole 20% mai kāu uku e loaʻa ai kāu waihona huna ponoʻī no nā mea āu e makemake ai?
Hiki ke nānā aku kēia i kahi hoʻokuʻu no kekahi akā inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kau, hiki ke kumu i nā pilikia nui pū kekahi.
4. Nā manaolana kūpono ʻole
I ka wā i male ai ʻoe, ua moeʻuhane ʻoe i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻano nui?
Ua manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu mau pahuhopu kālā ma waena o 5 mau makahiki? He aha inā ʻaʻole i hiki? He aha inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai i kaʻa hou a i ʻole hele huakaʻi ʻelua i kēlā me kēia makahiki ma muli o kāu hakakā kālā.
E inaina ʻē ʻoe i kāu male a me kāu kāne?
5. Ka lili nohona
ʻO ka male ʻana e pili ana i ke aloha, ka mahalo, ka hauʻoli a me ka hiki ke ʻike pehea e lanakila ai i nā pilikia pili kālā e hiki ke ala aʻe.
Ke lili paha ʻoe i kāu mau hoaaloha e kū nei i ke kālā? Makemake ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke uku i nā kaʻa ʻelua a me nā hale ʻelua? ʻO ka lili o ka nohona ka mea maʻamau a ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea i hiki ke hōʻemi i ke kālā ma ka male ʻana a pehea hoʻi ʻoe e ʻike ai i kou ola.
Ka hana ʻana me ke koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi i ka male
ʻO ka pilikia o ka male a me ke kālā e loaʻa mau, ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻāʻo mau ʻia kāu male. Pehea ka hopena o ka pilikia kālā ma ka male ʻana ma ka ʻano o ʻoe a me kāu hoa e alo ai i nā pilikia a ke ola e hāʻawi iā ʻoe.
E ʻae ʻoe i kāu mau ʻokoʻa i ka ʻoi aku o kou maikaʻi a i ʻole ke alo ʻana iā ia ma ke ʻano he hoa?
He pilina ka male ʻana a ma o kēia mau ala maʻalahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke:
- E aʻo e ola i kou ola ma muli o kāu loaʻa kālā maoli. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā maʻa ʻoe i nā mea i kuni ʻia ma mua. ʻO kēia kou ola i kēia manawa a ke hoʻoponopono nei i ka mea āu e hiki ai ke kūʻai aku ʻole iā ʻoe iho - he naʻauao.
- I pale i nā hakakā, mai hoʻopili i ke kānāwai “kāu” a me ka “mine” ma kahi o “kā mākou”. Ua male ʻoe a ʻo ka male ka hui ʻana.
- Mai hoʻomaka i ka wahaheʻe e pili ana i ke kālā. ʻAʻole loa ia e maikaʻi iā ʻoe. E like me ke ʻano o ka moe kolohe ʻole, hoʻonāwaliwali mau ka mālama ʻana i nā mea huna. E haʻi i kāu wahine inā makemake ʻoe i kekahi mea, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke uku, no ke aha? Inā ʻaʻole hiki, malia e mālama no ia.
- E kia i ka moʻohelu kālā a hoʻonohonoho i nā pahuhopu. E hana pū a laila ʻike ʻolua i kou maʻalahi a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama iki no kāu leʻaleʻa. Mai manaʻo nui a ʻo ka mea nui loa, mai lili i ke kūlana kālā o nā kāne ʻē aʻe. Mahalo iā ʻoe iho a me kāu wahine no ka hana ʻana i ka mea maikaʻi loa ma kahi o.
Pehea ʻoe i nā pilikia pili kālā i ka male ʻana iā ʻoe wale nō. E ʻae ʻoe e hōʻino i kou hilinaʻi, aloha, a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana a i ʻole e hana pū paha ʻoe a hoʻopilikia e ʻoi aku i nā pilikia kālā āu e ʻike nei.