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- 1. Kono kono
- 2. ʻO ke alaʻoiaʻiʻo - pua a me kahi leka kākau lima
- 3. E hana i kahi VLL puʻuwai (Video love letter)
ʻAneʻane ka lā o Valentine, ka lā e pupule ai ka nui o nā kāne me ka pīhoihoi a me ka kali. Ma kekahi lima, moeʻuhane ʻoe e pili ana i nā hiki pau ʻole pehea e nīnau ai kāu crush iā ʻoe i kahi lā, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe e pau wale ana i kēlā lā. ʻĀ, inā ʻoe e hoʻomau i ka moeʻuhane aia hiki i kou lā lā Valentine ka mea ʻokoʻa mai nā lā ʻē aʻe (kahi hū paha e hoʻonāukiuki paha).
Inā ʻoe e haki ana i kahi kaikamahine, e haʻalele i ka noʻonoʻo a hoʻomaka i ka hana. ʻO ka lā Valentine ka manawa kūpono loa e noi iā ia. E hoʻohuli i ka pīhoihoi a huli i ka pīhoihoi. E hopu i ka manawa kūpono, e neʻe, e noi i kāu crush e lilo i kou lā.
Ke noi nei i kekahi e lilo i kāu Valentine ʻaʻohe pāʻani maʻalahi. Hiki ke hoʻokaumaha a hopena paha i ka puʻuwai puʻuwai. Akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke koho ʻana “he aha lā” inā ʻoe i hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo. Inā ʻoe e hoʻolālā e noi i kahi kaikamahine e lilo i kou Valentine, eia mākou e kōkua iā ʻoe. Eia nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hoihoi e 3 e nā loea pili pili: -
1. Kono kono
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Therapist Marriage veteran, ʻo Mary K. Cocharo, "ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa e noi aku ai i kahi kaikamahine i ka lā o Valentine ma o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kono hoʻokalakupua e hōʻike iā ia e mālama pono ana ʻoe e hana i kahi hoʻolālā." E hoʻāʻo i kekahi mea e like me, “Makemake au e ʻike iā ʻoe i ka lā Valentine. No ke aha ʻoe e kiʻi ʻole ai iā ʻoe ma ka hola 7:00 a lawe iā ʻoe i kahi kūikawā? ” ʻO wai ka mea hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻaʻole i kēlā? A laila, e lawe iā ia i kahi kūikawā. ʻAʻole pono ia e pipiʻi, noʻonoʻo wale nō.
2. ʻO ke alaʻoiaʻiʻo - pua a me kahi leka kākau lima
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Psychotherapist ʻo SaraKay Smullens, "ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa ke noi aku i kekahi āu e mālama nei e lilo i kou valentine ʻoiaʻiʻo." A no kēia lā hoʻomaha nui ʻole, pono e hoʻololi i ka pāpaho kaiaulu e ka pili kahiko - kahi lawe inā hiki i kāna keʻena a home paha. (Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noho kokoke, e hoʻohana i ka 'snail mail' kahiko me kahi ʻōlelo aloha pokole). Koho i hoʻokahi pua nani e hele pū ana me kahi memo kākau lima:
“Kūlana nui loa ʻoe. He mea nui ia iaʻu inā ʻoe kou Valentine. Nā kikoʻī no Pepeluali 14 e hiki mai ana. E hoʻomau ʻia (lana koʻu manaʻo), "ukali ʻia e ka panina pilikino, kou pūlima, a me kahi ala i RSVP."
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3. E hana i kahi VLL puʻuwai (Video love letter)
ʻO kahi ala hou a he mea hana e noi i kahi kaikamahine ma o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i wikiō nona. ʻ sayslelo ke kākāʻōlelo ʻo Kauka LaWanda, "E haku i wikiō wikiō noʻu." I loko o kahi wikiō, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hōʻike ʻana i kou mau manaʻo me ka ʻole o ka pāpā. Eia kekahi, kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hahau i kahi pilina pilikino kokoke koke.
Mālama i kou ola aloha. E hāhai i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma ke ʻano he blueprint e kalai i kahi kiko palupalu i kona puʻuwai. A inā holo pono nā mea āpau, ikaika ka paʻakikī inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa kupanaha ma ka lā Valentine me ke kaikamahine āu e aloha ai.