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- ʻO kāu kāneA ʻaʻohe mea nānā
- Kau aku kāu kāne iā ʻoe i lalo
- Kikoo kāu kāne i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a wahaheʻe paha
- ʻAʻole kuleana kāu kāne
- Lili a hoʻokūkū kāu kāne
- Nīnau kāu kāne iā ʻoe iho
- Hana hoʻomāinoino kāu kāne (ma ke kino, ma ka waha, a pēlā aku.).
ʻO nā kāne, i ka laulā, ʻaʻole hoihoi i ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Akā inā ʻoi aku kāu kāne ma mua o kēlā, i kahi e hōʻole piha ai ʻole e pili ana me kona mau manaʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke male i kahi narcissist. ʻO kēia wale nō kekahi o nā hōʻailona hiki.
He aha ka narcissist? ʻO ke kumu, lapuwale loa lākou a nānā wale lākou iā lākou iho, ʻoiai ke kumukūʻai o kā lākou pili pili loa; kapa ʻia e nā psychologists ʻo Narcissistic Personality Disorder a ʻōlelo pū kekahi he ʻano maʻi ia e hiki ke loli i ke koʻikoʻi.
Pehea e ʻike ai inā he kāne narcissistic kāu kāne? Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona a me nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ai kahi wahine narcissistic. Ke ʻike ʻoe i kāu pakanā e hōʻike nei i nā hōʻailona o ke kāne narcissistic ke ʻike ʻoe he maʻi narcissistic pilikino kāna.
Eia kekahi mau hōʻailona o ke kāne narcissist a he aha e hana ai e pili ana.
ʻO kāu kāneA ʻaʻohe mea nānā
ʻAʻole ʻo ia e nānā i kou mau manaʻo a kau i ka ikaika i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ʻoe. ʻO kēia kahi o nā hōʻailona nui loa he kāne narcissist kāu kāne.
Makemake nui nā Narcissists iā lākou iho, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a puni lākou. Minamina, pili pū kēlā iā ʻoe. Akā ʻo ke kumu o lākou i loko o lākou iho he mask.
ʻOi paha ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o nā narcissists maʻamau, akā he hana ia a pau. I loko o lākou e noʻonoʻo pono iā lākou iho. ʻO ia ke kumu a lākou e hoʻonui ai iā lākou iho a nānā nui i kā lākou mau mea i hiki ai.
No laila mai lawe ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. He ʻohana maikaʻi a me nā hoaaloha a puni ʻoe e mālama nei i kou mau manaʻo a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kākoʻo naʻau e pono ai inā he kāne narcissistic kāu kāne.
Kau aku kāu kāne iā ʻoe i lalo
Ke narcissist kāu kāne e hōʻino mau ana ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Makemake mākou āpau e kiʻi i kahi nitpicky liʻiliʻi i ka male, akā ʻokoʻa kēia.
Ke noʻonoʻo nei naʻe "He narcissist kaʻu kāne"?
Inā hoʻomau kāu kāne i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia iho, a waiho iā ʻoe a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a puni ʻoe, a laila, ʻo ia nō.
E hoʻāʻo i kēia ʻike ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa ke kuhikuhi pololei lākou iā ʻoe: he huʻa kā lākou ʻōlelo, a lele wale lākou iā ʻoe a lana loa.
ʻOiai lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e ʻōlelo iā ʻoe me nā huaʻōlelo, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe ʻo ia wale nō nā huaʻōlelo. ʻO kāu koho inā ʻoe e ʻae iā lākou i kou noʻonoʻo a i ʻole puʻuwai. A ʻo nā ʻōlelo mai ka narcissist hiki ke hōʻino loa a wahaheʻe ʻole hoʻi. Mai manaʻoʻiʻo iā lākou.
Kikoo kāu kāne i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a wahaheʻe paha
Hana maʻamau kahi narcissist i kēia mea i mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai iā lākou iho. No laila inā he narcissist kāu kāne a haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kahi moʻolelo e pili ana i kahi mea i hana ma ka hana, no ka laʻana, lawe ia me kahi hua paʻakai.
Hoʻonani ʻia paha e waiho i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana iā lākou a hoʻokomo i nā mea maikaʻi e pili ana iā lākou ma mua o ka hanana maoli.
Hoʻolahalaha mākou āpau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻae ʻole ʻia ka wahaheʻe ʻole. Pono ʻoe e kau i kekahi mau palena a maopopo e ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae i ka wahaheʻe. E kūʻē kāu kāne a hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻaʻole ʻo ia e wahaheʻe, ʻoiai ua ʻike ʻolua.
ʻAʻole kuleana kāu kāne
ʻO ia inā ʻaʻole he hoʻokō nui! Akā inā ʻaʻole e ʻae kāu kāne inā hewa ʻo ia, a laila he narcissist paha ia.
Pehea e ʻike ai inā ua male ʻoe i kahi narcissist?
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ia e ʻōlelo mau ana "ʻAʻole wau i hana," a i ʻole hoʻohalahala piha i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ke hana ʻia kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole, a laila, he narcissist kāu kāne. E hana ʻo ia i kekahi mea e kiʻi iā ia i ka nānā maikaʻi ʻole a hoʻokū iā ia ma ke ʻano he kanaka nui.
E hoʻāʻo e koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole lākou he kanaka liʻiliʻi a hana hewa mākou āpau. Akā inā he narcissist maoli kāu kāne, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana ʻaʻole e loli kēia i kā lākou ʻano. E ʻae paha ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi iā lākou.
Lili a hoʻokūkū kāu kāne
Hoʻopili pū kēia me ka lili a me ka hoʻokūkū me ʻoe a kokoke i nā mea āpau āpau-ʻo kāu poʻe keiki. Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei pehea e haʻi ai inā he narcissist ʻo ia nō kēia ʻano hōʻailona nui loa.
Inā he narcissist kāu kāne, hoʻāʻo e wehewehe ʻaʻole ia he hoʻokūkū; he wahi no nā mea a pau e hiki ai ke hoʻokō. Inā lili kāu kāne i kāu hana a i ʻole ke hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻāʻo e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike i nā pōmaikaʻi no lākou.
“ʻO ʻoe ka ʻoi loa no ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iaʻu e hele i waho. ʻOiai wau e hele ana, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e hana ai i kāu makemake. ” Ke kuhikuhi nei i nā mea i loko o ia mau mea no lākou he mea maikaʻi i ka narcissist. E haʻalele kēia i kā lākou pono e hoʻokau i kā lākou kāohi i ke kūlana.
Eia kekahi, e nānā i kēia wikiō pehea e hana ai me kahi hoa lili:
Nīnau kāu kāne iā ʻoe iho
I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa e noho nei me ka lawena a kahi mea narcissist, paʻakikī paha e pale i nā wahaheʻe, ka hōʻino, ka lili, a me ka mālama ʻole. Inā he narcissist kāu kāne e hoʻomanaʻo wale nō e noho nei ʻo ia i kāna ʻoiaʻiʻo ponoʻī a ke hoʻāʻo nei e huki iā ʻoe i loko. Mai hāʻule iā ia.
I kēia manawa, pono ʻoe e hana i nā mea āpau e hiki ai ke mālama i kou ola ponoʻī. ʻO kahi ala maikaʻi e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea i waho e hele i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo. ʻAʻole paha e hele kāu kāne, akā e nīnau. Ma kēlā a me kēia ala, pono ʻoe e hele. E kōkua ke kākāʻōlelo hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe e hele ma waena o ka muck āu i manaʻo ai a loaʻa ʻoe i nā ala e hana ai i kēlā me kēia lā i ka wā he narcissist kāu kāne.
Hana hoʻomāinoino kāu kāne (ma ke kino, ma ka waha, a pēlā aku.).
Minamina, inā he kāne narcissist kāu kāne, hiki i ka narcissism ke piʻi aʻe i kēia wahi. Inā kēia ka hihia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui. E ʻimi i waho i ke kōkua a puka i waho o ke kūlana i ka wā hiki.