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- Ua hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kona mau hoaaloha a me kona ʻohana
- ʻAʻole nā aloha āpau i ka wahine
- Ua haʻalele ʻo ia i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe āpau
- Hana ʻo ia i nā hoʻolālā e hoʻopili iā ʻoe
- Hoihoi ʻo ia i kāu hoihoi
Ke hoʻomaka nei ʻoe e launa me kekahi e pili ana iā ʻoe pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe a i ʻole ke hele wale nei ke aloha kauwela.
ʻO ka pilikia e nānā like paha lākou i nā lā a me nā pule mua i nā mahina. Eia naʻe, he maka maka ʻole wale nō kēia.
Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona he aloha kou pilina a ʻaʻole wale ke kuko o kahi infatuation pōkole. Eia nā alakaʻi ākea ʻelima e pili ana pehea e ʻike ai i ke aloha maoli ke hiki mai iā ʻoe a e manaʻo palekana i ka moemoeā ʻana e pili ana i kāu meli.
Ua hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kona mau hoaaloha a me kona ʻohana
ʻAʻole ia he cliché, inā mālama ʻo ia iā ʻoe a makemake i ka wā e hiki mai ana me ʻoe, e hoʻolauna ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kāna mau hoaaloha a me kona ʻohana.
ʻAe, ʻaʻole nā kaikamahine āpau e ʻike i ka makuahine o ke kāne a me kāna hoaaloha maikaʻi loa (ʻoiai ke kau pū me lākou no kekahi manawa) e lilo i missis. Akā, hoʻokahi mea maopopo - ʻaʻole hoʻokahi kaikamahine i lilo i wahine i hālāwai ʻole me nā kāne ʻē aʻe o kāna kāne.
Inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe ia no nā mea āu, ka mea e pili ana i ka hopena o ka hoʻolauna. He ulia pōpilikia paha i loko o ke kakahiaka, no laila pono ʻo ia e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe? A i kono ʻia ʻoe i kahi ʻaina awakea a i kahi ʻohana e hui pū ai?
Ua hui ʻoe me kona mau hoaaloha ma ka hui ma kahi i hui pū ai ʻoe me ia, a ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike hou iā lākou? A i ʻole ua hōʻoia ʻo ia e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kaikamahine hou?
ʻAʻole nā aloha āpau i ka wahine
I ka hoʻomaka o kahi pilina, he mea maʻamau ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kou mau lima mai kekahi i kekahi.
A he mea maʻamau nō ʻoe e aloha ai ma nā wahi āpau, i nā manawa āpau. Akā, aia he ʻokoʻa ma waena o ke kuko a me ke kuko wale. Hoʻomaka kēlā me kēia pilina me ka pīhoihoi moekolohe i paʻakikī e kaohi.
I ka pilina aloha, ʻaʻole mamao ka moekolohe mai ke aloha. He hōʻike ia o ke aloha.
ʻO kēia ke kumu, inā makemake maoli ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he mea ʻoi aku ma mua o ka fling wale nō, e ʻimi ʻo ia i ke aloha, ʻaʻole naʻe nā ʻūlū a me nā honi āpau e alakaʻi i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole pono nā pakanā e pili i ka pilina hohonu e hana i kāna climax ma o ka moekolohe.
I kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka pīhoihoi o ka paʻa ʻana i nā lima, a i ʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi e hoʻokō like ana.
Ua haʻalele ʻo ia i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe āpau
He mea nui kēia. He mea maʻamau ke hoʻomau mau nei nā hoa i kā lākou koho i nā lā mua o ka pilina no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i maopopo kahi e alakaʻi ai iā lākou.
Akā, i ka manawa nui a koʻikoʻi kekahi e pili ana i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, hoʻohuli lākou i kā lākou ʻike honua holoʻokoʻa a kālele wale i ka hoa pili wale nō.
Hana ʻia kēia ma ka pae er er er er, e like me nā hōʻike i hōʻike ʻia. Ke hele a helehelena kekahi mea maikaʻi, e kāohi ka hoapili paʻa i ko lākou manaʻo a ʻike ʻole i ke kanaka.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā ʻaʻole haʻalele kāu ipo hou i kāna mau mea hiki ʻē aʻe, hiki wale nō, ʻo ʻoe wale nō kahi lele. ʻO ka fling e mau ai i mau mahina a i ʻole mau makahiki, akā ʻaʻole ia he hoa hana paʻa e alualu ai ʻoe.
Hana ʻo ia i nā hoʻolālā e hoʻopili iā ʻoe
Ke makemake maoli ke kāne i ka wahine, e hoʻopili koke kāna mau hoʻolālā iā ia. E hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā ʻahamele mele e kipa like ai lākou, e hoʻoponopono ai i kāna mau huakaʻi huakaʻi, a i ʻole e noi i kahi kono keu i ka male a kāna hoaaloha.
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kāu drawer ponoʻī. A i ʻole inā he laki maoli ʻoe, e lohe paha ʻoe iā ia e kamaʻilio pololei ana e pili ana i kāu wā e hiki mai ana.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i ka manaʻo nui ʻole o kekahi iā ʻoe ke hana ʻo ia i nā hoʻonohonoho he nui e like me kāna ma mua i kona wā ʻōpio.
He olakino ia nāna e hoʻolilo ka manawa no kāna mau hoa, akā inā ʻoe e loaʻa wale i kahi mea e like loa me ke kāhea waiwai pio, ʻo ka manawa kēia e noʻonoʻo ai i kāu mau koho ʻē aʻe.
Hoihoi ʻo ia i kāu hoihoi
Ke makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, makemake ʻo ia e lilo i kāna manawa āpau me ʻoe, makemake ʻo ia e ʻike iā ʻoe, a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea e pīhoihoi ai ʻoe.
No laila, e hoihoi ʻo ia i ka mea āu e makemake ai. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kauō iā ia i kāu papa hana lima, akā, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo e pili ana iā ia.
Ke pili ʻole kahi kāne iā ʻoe, makemake paha ia e ʻike wale ke loaʻa ʻoe e hui ai. E ʻike ʻoe ua luhi loa ʻo ia ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau makemake. Hoʻokaʻawale paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe, a hoʻāʻo paha e hoʻohuli i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kāna mau mea e hopohopo ai.
I kēlā me kēia hihia, ʻaʻohe aloha hohonu me ka ʻole o ka hoihoi maoli i nā mea āpau e ʻike e pili ana i ka mea ʻē aʻe.