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- ʻO kāu "hoa kanaka" a loaʻa i nā ʻano maʻamau inā ʻo ia:
- Nā hōʻailona a me nā ʻano i hele aʻe i kēlā laina
Wale e pili ana i nā poʻe āpau aʻu e hana pū ai me aʻu e kamaʻilio pū ana me aʻu e pili ana i nā pilikia i kā lākou pili. ʻO nā pilina ma kā lākou ʻoi loa ka paʻakikī a me nā pilikia i loaʻa iā lākou. Koi lākou i ka nānā mau a me ka hana. Ke haohao nei nā wahine he nui inā he "kanaka" kā lākou kāne me nā ʻano hakakā a me nā ʻano maʻamau a i ʻole ke "hele i ka laina" ke hana lākou i kekahi mau ʻano.
He mea nui e ʻike ma waena o nā mea ʻelua e like me nā hana maʻamau a maʻamau e hiki ke hana pū ʻia i ka wā e hele ana i ka laina, keu hoʻi inā hana mau ʻia, e hāpai i nā hae ʻulaʻula a koʻikoʻi nā pilikia.I kēia mau hihia e lawelawe maikaʻi ʻia kahi wahine e ʻike i ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻia ʻia a i ʻole ka hōʻino ʻia ʻana, a i ʻole ka hoʻomāinoino ʻia paha. I kēia mau kūlana he mea liʻiliʻi ia e pili ana i ka hana pū ʻana i nā mea āpau a me nā mea hou aʻe e pili ana i ka wahine e hana ana i ka mālama a me ka palekana nona iho a e hoʻoholo ana i kāna mau hana hou i hāʻawi ʻia aia i loko o kahi pilina olakino.
ʻO kāu "hoa kanaka" a loaʻa i nā ʻano maʻamau inā ʻo ia:
- loaʻa kekahi mau pilikia i ke kamaʻilio ʻana
- loaʻa kekahi mau waiwai ʻokoʻa mai iā ʻoe e pili ana i ke kālā a me ka moekolohe
- ʻike wale i nā mea ʻokoʻa iā ʻoe no ka mea he kāne ia
- huhū a hōʻike olakino iā ia ma ka mālama ʻana iā ia iho
- ʻaʻole hana manawa iā ʻoe a me kou pilina
- manaʻo nui ʻia me ka hana a me nā kuleana o kēlā me kēia lā
- huhū a huhū paha a kamaʻilio me ke ʻano mahalo
- hoʻopoina i kekahi manawa i nā mea āu e haʻi aku ai iā ia a i ʻole kekahi manawa ʻaʻole e hāhai
- makemake e hoʻolōʻihi manawa a hele i kāna "ana kanaka"
ʻOi aku ka pilikia o kekahi mau kāne ma mua o nā ʻano maʻamau a me nā pilikia i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna a laila "hele i ka laina" a hana i nā ʻano ʻeha, hōʻino, hoʻoweliweli paha. Ke hoʻāʻo nei paha ʻo ia e hoʻokau i ka mana a kāohi iā ʻoe. Hiki i kēia mau ʻano ke hāʻule i loko o nā ʻāpana o ke kino, ka moekolohe, ka naʻau a i ʻole ke kālā.
Nā hōʻailona a me nā ʻano i hele aʻe i kēlā laina
1. Nā hana kino e like me ke kīkē ʻana, paʻi ʻana, keʻehi ʻana, ʻoki ʻana, me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea kaua, huki lauoho, kaohi ʻana, ʻaʻole e ʻae iā ʻoe e neʻe a i waho o kahi lumi.
2. Nā hana moekolohe e like me ka koi ʻana iā ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea moekolohe āu e makemake ʻole ai e hana, e hoʻohana ana iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he mea moekolohe a pili ʻole paha iā ʻoe i nā ʻano moekolohe ke makemake ʻole ʻoe e hoʻopā.
3. Nā hana e like me:
- hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua lilo ʻoe a i ʻole lilo ʻoe i mea hou
- ke kāhea aku nei iā ʻoe i nā inoa
- e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i ka mea e manaʻo ai (a i ʻole e ʻike ʻole)
- e haʻi ana iā ʻoe he pupule ʻoe a i ʻole ke hana ʻana i nā mea i kou poʻo
- e hoʻohewa nei iā ʻoe no kona huhū huhū, kāna hana huhū a i ʻole nā ʻano koʻikoʻi
- ke kaʻawale nei iā ʻoe mai kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha, ka kaohi ʻana i nā mea āu e ʻike ai, e kamaʻilio ai a i kou wā e hele aku ai i waho
- e hoʻohana nei i ka hoʻoweliweli me nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻoweliweli a i ʻole nā hana, ke kuʻi nei i nā papa a i ʻole nā paia a i ʻole ka luku ʻana i kāu waiwai
- e hoʻohana nei i nā mea hoʻoweliweli ma ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana i kou palekana, hoʻoweliweli e lawe aku i kāu mau keiki a i ʻole hoʻoweliweli i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i kāu ʻohana a keiki paha
- nā lawelawe pale e pili ana i kāu lawena a i ʻole ka hana noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau
- ke hāʻawi nei iā ʻoe i ka lāʻau hūnā ma hope o ka ʻaelike
- ke hele wāwae nei ma hope o kāu noi ʻana i ke kōkua a i ʻole kākoʻo
- ke kuhikuhi nei i nā mea hiki iā ʻoe (a ʻaʻole hiki) ke kamaʻilio
- mālama iā ʻoe e like me ke kauā a hana e like me ia ka 'mōʻī o ka hale aliʻi'
- e ʻaihue nei i kāu pilikino e ka nānā ʻana i kāu leka uila, nā leka a i ʻole nā leka uila
- e hōʻino ana iā ʻoe no nā mea āu e hana ai a me pehea e lole ai
- ka pāʻani kālā a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā lāʻau i loko o ka hoʻohiki ʻole ʻana e hana pēlā
- ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea pili i ka wahine
- kipi hou ʻana i nā ʻaelike
- ke hele mai nei i kahi lumi ma hope o kāu noi ʻana e kaʻawale
3. Nā hana kālā e like me ka pale ʻana iā ʻoe mai ka hana ʻana, ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ke kālā, ka lawe ʻana i kāu kālā, ke noi ʻana iā ʻoe no ke kālā a hana paha i nā mea no ke kālā, ke hoʻoholo ʻana i nā hoʻoholo kālā nui a me ke kūʻai nui ʻana me ka ʻole o ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe.
I ka hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo, loaʻa nā poʻe mai nā ʻano like ʻole o ke ola a me nā makahiki āpau i nā pilikia i kā lākou pilina. ʻO ka maʻamau a maʻamau nā mea a me nā mea e hana pū ʻia ai, lana ka manaʻo ma ke ʻano, kākoʻo, aloha a me ke aloha. A laila aia nā hana a me nā pilikia i ʻoi aku i ka mea i kuhikuhi ʻia he maʻamau. ʻO kēia ke wā i hele aʻe kāu kāne i ka laina. Inā ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻokoʻa hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike inā ʻoe i kahi pilina olakino a i ʻole i kahi pilina e ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi no ʻoe e noho ʻole, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole kuleana kāu kāne i kāna mau pilikia. Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana e like me kēia e ʻimi i ke kōkua ma o kahi hale hoʻomāinoino kūloko a me / a i ʻole ka mea hoʻoponopono.