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- 1. Alakaʻi i nā pilikia kālā
- 2. Lōʻihi loa ka naʻau
- 3. Nā hopena i nā manaʻo hewa
- 4. Pilikia kou ola moekolohe
- 5. ʻAʻohe kamaʻilio ʻaʻohe manaʻo kūlike
- 6. ʻimi ʻoe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻopiha i ka hakahaka
- 7. Hōʻike ia i ka mālama ʻole
- 8. Lilo ka male ʻana
ʻO ka nele o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ʻana he ala wikiwiki ia i ka hemo ʻana. Aia i loko o ka male kahi mau mea ʻelua i hele mai mai nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a loaʻa i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ka kamaʻilio ʻana, nā makemake, a me nā pono. No laila maopopo ia pehea e hiki ai i kēia mau mea ʻokoʻa ke hoʻolilo i paʻakikī i nā kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio. Pono kou pilina i nā pilina ikaika a me nā paʻa kino e kūleʻa ai.
E ʻehaʻeha kāu hana, home, a me kou ola wahine ke ʻaʻole ʻoe e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo me kāu hoa. He mea nui kēia e aʻo ai e launa pū me kāu wahine, ʻoiai ke ʻūlū a ʻoluʻolu ʻole ke kumuhana.
Ke kūpona kekahi hoa i kekahi ma waho e loaʻa ka pilikia ma hope. Eia nā kumu 8 no ke olakino ʻole o ka kamaʻilio ʻole ma ka male ʻana.
1. Alakaʻi i nā pilikia kālā
Hiki i ke kālā ke lilo i kumuhana touchy no ka hapa nui o ka poʻe. ʻAno iki paha kēia kumuhana i ka pīpī, keu hoʻi inā ʻoe i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻohui ʻana i kāu kālā a i ʻole haʻi aku i kāu hoa e pili ana i nā hōʻaiʻē āu i ʻaiʻē ai.
Inā ʻoe e kaʻana like ana i kahi waihona panakō a i ʻole ka mālama ʻana i kāu kālā, he mea nui ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau uku mahina. ʻO nā kāne e kamaʻilio ʻole e pili ana i ke kālā he mea ʻoi aku paha ka nui o ka uku, manaʻo paʻa ʻia e ka lilo ʻole o ka mea ʻai, a ʻo ka hopena o ka hōʻaiʻē hohonu ma mua o ka wā hoʻokahi.
He mea nui i nā kāne e kūkākūkā i ka moʻohelu kālā ʻana a e hāmama e pili ana i kā lākou ʻaiʻē a me nā lilo.
2. Lōʻihi loa ka naʻau
ʻO ka liʻiliʻi o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu wahine, ʻo ka mamao loa aku o kou naʻau. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana pehea ʻoe e hoʻohui ai. Ke loaʻa ʻole kahi kamaʻilio i ka male, hoʻomaka ke aloha e mae.
Hoʻokahi o ka hoʻopaʻa naʻau ʻana i ka lawena o nā kāne, i alakaʻi ʻia ma kahi o 40 mau makahiki, ua ʻike ʻia ka pili ʻana o nā pilikia kamaʻilio maʻamau i ka hōʻole ʻana o ka hoa e kamaʻilio (ka hana hūnā ʻole), ka hoʻopaʻi hoa, ka kamaʻilio pale ʻana, a me ka hoʻowahāwahā nui ke hoʻāʻo nei e kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi.
ʻO ka mamao o ke ʻano ka mea nui i ka hemo male. Ke hele mamao aku nā kāne, ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi lākou i ka moekolohe, i kahi pō lā, a i ʻole hoʻoponopono i nā mea e hewa ana i ka male ʻana.
3. Nā hopena i nā manaʻo hewa
Ke wehe ʻole nā kāne me kekahi hiki ke maʻalahi iā lākou e hoʻomaka i nā manaʻo. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu wahine e lohi ana ʻoe ma ke keʻena a i ʻole ke hele aku nei ʻoe me kāu mau hoaaloha ma hope o ka hana ma kahi o ka hoʻi ʻana i ka home a manaʻo paha lākou e hana nei ʻoe i kahi mea ʻaʻole pono e lilo.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e launa pū me kāu wahine, hiki ke hana i nā manaʻo āpau i ka pilina. Inā luhi nui ʻoe a huli i ka moekolohe i kekahi ahiahi, manaʻo paha kāu pakanā ua luʻuluʻu ʻoe me lākou a manaʻo ʻole ʻia. Inā ʻoe e ʻōmole nei i nā pilikia pilikino, manaʻo paha kāu wahine ʻo ia ke kumu o kou hopohopo.
4. Pilikia kou ola moekolohe
Nui nā pilikia moekolohe e kū aʻe ke loaʻa ka ʻole o ke kamaʻilio ma ka male. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo ka nele i ka orgasm e hopena i ka huhū ma waena o nā hoa male a hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki a me ka hōʻeha.
Pēlā nō, makemake paha kekahi i ka moekolohe akā manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i ka neʻe mua. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻonāukiuki i nā kāne ʻelua.
Pono nā kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio wehe a pololei e pili ana i ko lākou ola pili a me nā makemake. ʻO ka pinepine o ka moekolohe, nā moemoeā, nā pono, a me nā huli ʻana he kamaʻilio nui a pau e pono i nā kāne a me ke kāne e hana i kahi pilina moekolohe like.
5. ʻAʻohe kamaʻilio ʻaʻohe manaʻo kūlike
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pololei i nā manawa āpau, e like me kou makemake ma kahi ʻē. Pono nā pilina i ke kaulike. Kūkulu kahi pilina nui ma ka hilinaʻi, ka mahalo, a me ke kuikahi. Ke loaʻa ʻole kahi kamaʻilio i nā pilina, ʻaʻohe wahi a nā kāne a male e hoʻohiki ai.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hui ma waena ma waena o kekahi mau pilikia i kāu male ʻana, pono ʻole ʻoe e hōʻoia i nā makemake, nā pono, a me nā manaʻo o kāu hoa. Hiki ke weliweli loa kēia i ka kūleʻa o ka pilina. Pono kāu wahine iā ʻoe e ʻike i ko lākou naʻau a kākoʻo iā lākou. ʻO kēlā ʻano hana e hāpai i ke aloha a me ka hilinaʻi.
6. ʻimi ʻoe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻopiha i ka hakahaka
ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha no ka nele o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ʻana kekahi o nā kumu nui o ka hemo. ʻO nā kāne ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o nā hoa noho. Ke huki nei mai kāu kāne aku i ka noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka hana hiki ke hōʻino loa i ka pilina
ʻO ka manaʻo ʻole i ka hōʻoia ʻole a i ʻole ʻaʻole lohe kāu pakanā iā ʻoe a mālama ʻole paha i kāu mau pono hiki ke hoʻonāwaliwali. Hiki i kēia nele o ka mahalo a me ke aloha ke hana i nā insecurities, kahi e ʻimi ai i kekahi wahine i kekahi ma waho o ka male e hoʻopiha i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo nei ua nele kā lākou male.
7. Hōʻike ia i ka mālama ʻole
ʻO kahi hōʻailona e hoʻowahāwahā wale nei ʻoe i kāu pilina inā ʻoe a me kāu wahine i haʻalele i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Inā nui a liʻiliʻi paha ke kumuhana, hiki wale i kou pili ke ʻeha ke hōʻole ʻole ʻoe a me kāu hoa e kamaʻilio.
ʻO ka hauʻoli, nā pilina olakino e nānā i ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, a me ka manawa me kekahi. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ka mea e hoihoi iā ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, pehea e aʻo ai kāu pakanā e heluhelu iā ʻoe, pehea ʻoe e hoʻopili ai, a pehea ʻoe e hoʻoponopono ai i ka hakakā.
8. Lilo ka male ʻana
Ke loli mau nei ka poʻe a ke ulu nei. He mea nui kēia i nā kāne e aʻo e ʻapo i ka loli a ulu pū. Ke loaʻa ʻole kahi kamaʻilio i ka male hiki ke hana i ka pilina e lilo i stagnant.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i kāu hoa. Pono ʻoe e aʻo e hoʻomohala pū i mea e hoʻomohala ai i kahi pilina hilinaʻi, makua kahi e maopopo pono ai nā makemake a me nā pono o kekahi.
Hiki i ka nele o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka male ke haʻi i ka pōʻino no ka pilina. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu wahine pehea ʻoe e hōʻike ai i kou hauʻoli, kaumaha, makemake, pono, a pehea ʻoe e hoʻoponopono ai i kahi hakakā.
Pili kēia ʻike i ka male olakino. E hana ikaika e wehe me kāu kāne. ʻO ka hana ʻana pēlā e hāpai ai i ka leʻaleʻa o kou pilina a hoʻokokoke loa iā ʻoe.