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- He aha ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist
- No ke aha mai?
- Hiki iā ʻoe ke pili olakino me kahi narcissist?
- 1. E aʻo e kūkā
- 2. Mai ʻeha i kou manaʻo pilikino iā ʻoe iho
- 3. E kiʻi i ke kōkua
ʻIke mākou āpau ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi kanaka narcissistic; noho kekahi o mākou me kekahi a aloha paha kekahi i kekahi. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist. Ua wehewehe ʻia kahi narcissist ma ke ʻano "Kahi kanaka i hoihoi nui a mahalo paha iā lākou iho". ʻAʻohe mea hewa o ke aloha ʻana iā ʻoe iho, akā naʻe, ua hele kekahi narcissist i nā palena o ke aloha ponoʻī a lawe iā ia i kahi pae aʻe - self-obsess.
ʻO ka poʻe e noho nei a hana pū ana paha me nā narcissists ʻo ia ka mea ʻike i ke ʻano o ka ninini ʻana i ka naʻau.
Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoki i kou ulu pilikino a koi mau i ka mahalo a me ka mahalo iā lākou iho. Akā he aha nā hopena o ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist a hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi pilina olakino me lākou? E ʻike kākou!
He aha ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi pilina e hana mau ai ʻoe i nā mōhai, hoʻopili, hāʻawi i kāu 100% akā mahalo ʻole ʻia. Ua like ia me ka noho ʻana me kekahi mea manaʻo ʻole e pili ana i kekahi mea akā ʻo lākou iho. E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe no ke aha e komo ai kekahi i ka pilina ma mua, ʻo ia no ka mea ʻaʻole pēlā kēia.
I ka manawa mua, hiki i nā narcissists ke lilo i poʻe hoihoi. ʻO lākou ke ola pinepine o kahi pāʻina, ka poʻe makemake nui ʻia āu e ʻike ai.
ʻIke paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ʻumeʻume ʻia iā lākou a i ʻole i kekahi mau ʻano e minamina iā lākou. Pēlā lākou e makemake ai i ka poʻe makemake iā lākou.
Eia naʻe, ʻo kēia mau mea āpau e iho i nā hakakā maikaʻi ʻole, ka nui o nā ukana naʻau a me ke kaumaha o ka naʻau.
No ke aha mai?
ʻAʻole hiki i nā Narcissist ke ʻoluʻolu. ʻAʻohe mea āu e hana ai i hiki ke lawa. Me he mea lā he manaʻo hanohano lākou i hoʻolaha ai. ʻAneʻane e like me ka mea ʻaʻohe waiwai a maikaʻi kūpono paha no lākou. Kēia, i loko o ka pilina, hōʻoia i ka mea ʻawahia loa. ʻOiai ke alakaʻi mau nei lākou i kekahi e manaʻoʻiʻo he hewa kekahi mea me lākou.
He poʻe pilikino lākou ʻaʻole nānā nui i ka hopena o kā lākou hana iā haʻi.
Hana lākou i ka mea maikaʻi no lākou me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole e pili ana i ka hopena e loaʻa ai no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. He neʻe inoa kēia o ka narcissist a hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike maʻalahi i hoʻokahi.
ʻO kahi hopena koʻikoʻi o ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist ke ʻae nei i nā pilikia huhū.
ʻO ka huhū kahi ʻano maʻamau i ʻike ʻia ma ka ʻaneʻane o nā narcissist āpau. Hiki paha iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka hōʻino waha a i kekahi mau hihia, ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.Ke kāhea ʻia a haʻi ʻole ʻia kahi narcissist e pili ana i kā lākou hana i kā lākou hana pale e hoʻopiʻi nei iā ʻoe a i ka ʻuwā ʻana paha.
ʻAʻohe o ke aloha a ka mea narcissist, no laila, ʻike pinepine ʻia iā ʻoe no kā lākou hana ʻino ʻia e ka waiwai waiwai.
Mai kuhi hewa naʻe iaʻu, ʻaʻole ʻae nā narcissists i kā lākou mau hewa. Eia nō naʻe, e kāpili i nā kūlana i kā lākou makemake e hoʻāʻo lākou e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia ma o nā mea waiwai. ʻO kēia mau mea āpau, hana paha e like me ka wanaʻao o ka pilina. Akā, e ʻike ʻoe i ka hana ʻole a kā lākou mau hana i ka hopena.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke pili olakino me kahi narcissist?
ʻAʻohe mea hiki ke olakino maoli e pili ana i kahi pilina me kahi narcissist. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina me kahi narcissist, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo iā ia i mea paʻakikī iki. Me kekahi mau hoʻololi i kāu hana, e nānā ʻoe i kekahi mau hoʻololi i kā lākou ʻano.
1. E aʻo e kūkā
Hoʻokahi mea e loli ai ka "āpau a ʻaʻohe mea" ʻano. Pono ʻoe e kū kūpaʻa iā ʻoe iho a ʻike i ka mea e ʻae a pono ʻole ai.
Pono ʻoe e haʻi i kou ʻaoʻao o ke kūlana a i kēia ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi mea āu e makemake ai. E ho'āʻo mau kahi narcissist e pakele me nā mea āpau e hana ʻia i kā lākou ala. Pono e kū.
2. Mai ʻeha i kou manaʻo pilikino iā ʻoe iho
Hānai kahi mea narcissist i ka poʻe me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa iā lākou iho no ka mea hiki ke lilo i mea maʻalahi. Mai lilo i ko lākou waiwai pio.
He mea kūpono ia no ka narcissist e loaʻa i kekahi me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana iā lākou e hānai i kā lākou pono ponoʻī e loaʻa ka nānā āpau.
Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka narcissist āu e hui pū ai me ʻoe e pono ai ʻoe i kahi mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Inā ʻoe e hana, hana hoʻomāinoino ʻia a hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻia he mea mau ia.
3. E kiʻi i ke kōkua
Mai makaʻu e ʻimi i ke kōkua mai kāu poʻe ipo. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau pilikia a inā pono e ʻimi pū i kahi kōkua ʻoihana. He paʻakikī ke hoʻololi i kahi kanaka a ʻaʻole ia kahi mea āu e makemake ai e hana pū kekahi. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokau iā lākou e hoʻoponopono i ko lākou ʻano iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist hiki ke lilo i mea weliweli. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i ke kūlana e lilo i mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Hiki i ka Narcissism ke hopena o ka trauma o ke kamaliʻi a i ʻole ka hana ʻino ʻana i ka wā kamaliʻi a ʻaʻohe manaʻo hoʻohanohano i nā poʻe e ʻeha nei i ka maʻi pilikino narcissistic.