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- 1. Hiki ke maʻalahi ʻia
- 2. He maʻalahi ia
- 3. Kūpono hou aku
- 4. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka pilikino
- 5. ʻOluʻolu ʻoi aku ia
- 6. He mea pono no nā kāne lōʻihi
- 7. Hāʻawi ia i nā hui pūʻulu kikoʻī
- 8. Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā palapala pūnaewele
Ke kū kekahi mau kāne male i nā pilikia i hiki ʻole iā lāua ke hoʻokau iā lāua iho, pono paha lākou e hele i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kā lāua pilikia male.
Minamina, nui nā kāne e hōʻole e alualu i kēia koho no kekahi mau kumu. Hilahila kekahi mau kāne a ʻoluʻolu ʻole paha e kaʻana like i ko lākou pilikia i ka maka me ka mea lapaʻau.
ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke uku i kēia ʻano lawelawe. A mamao paha kekahi a ʻaʻohe manawa e hele ai i ke keʻena o ka mea hoʻoponopono.
Akā aia kekahi ala e hiki ai i kēia mau kāne ke kōkua kōkua, ma ka ʻoluʻolu o ko lākou home ponoʻī.
ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa male kāne ma ka pūnaewele kahi ala hou o ka hāʻawi ʻana aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male ma ka pūnaewele i nā kāne e pono ai ke kōkua i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kekahi o kā lākou pilikia a loaʻa hou ke kuʻikahi i kā lākou pili.
ʻIke paha kekahi mau kāne i nā aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo ma ka pūnaewele e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke alo o ka ʻaoʻao aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo.
Ua helu ʻia he 8 mau pono o ka hoʻoponopono pūnaewele no nā poʻe makemake e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo no ka male ma ka pūnaewele.
1. Hiki ke maʻalahi ʻia
ʻO kekahi o nā mea e hopohopo nui ai nā kāne inā ʻimi ana i kahi kākāʻōlelo ʻo ia kahi ma kahi mamao loa. ʻAʻole hiki ke kōkua i ke kōkua kūpono hiki ke hōʻike i mea hōʻino loa i ke olakino o kekahi pilina a male paha.
Aia ma hea kēia hoʻōla male ma ka pūnaewele maopopo he pivotal. I kēia mau lā, maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o nā lawelawe hoʻomaʻamaʻa pilina pili pūnaewele. ʻO nā mea āu e pono ai e ʻike i nā pūnaewele kūpono e hoʻolako i ka lawelawe.
Ke hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻoe no kahi moʻokāki, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā lawelawe i hoʻolako ʻia e ka pūnaewele.
Mai ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi koho ma ka pūnaewele me ke kākāʻōlelo male aʻoaʻo i ke komo ʻana i nā kau ʻana i ka hui pūʻulu, a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i ka wahine ma ka pūnaewele; hoʻolako ʻia kēia mau pūnaewele me nā hiʻohiʻona he nui i hiki ke loaʻa ma ke kaomi o kahi pihi.
2. He maʻalahi ia
ʻO ka maʻalahi o ka hiki ke hana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ma ka home kahi mea maikaʻi loa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha ke makemake ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha iki inā pono.
ʻO nā mea āu e pono ai ka noho ʻana ma ka moena me kāu hoa, ʻeʻe i kāu manawa i hoʻonohonoho ʻia me kāu mea hoʻoponopono pūnaewele a loaʻa iā ʻoe ke ʻano lawelawe e like me ka hana ʻana o ka poʻe helehelena.
Mālama ʻoe i ka manawa a me ke kālā no ka mea ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka hale. A hiki ke hana ʻia i ka pilikino o kou home ponoʻī.
Eia kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi iā ia ma kahi āu e makemake ai. ʻO kahi wale nō āu e makemake ai he PC, kamepiula lawe, a i ʻole kahi papaha e holo pono.
Ka hiki ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kūkākūkā an aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele ʻo ia kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi nui o ka ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne ma ka pūnaewele.
3. Kūpono hou aku
ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne he nui ke hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo male no ka mea he mea nui ke kumu kūʻai. Hoʻohui i ka huakaʻi a me nā lilo ʻē aʻe e hana wale no ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻana i kūpono ʻole.
He mea maikaʻi ia, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i ka hele ʻana i nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka uku o ke kumukūʻai o nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne ma ka pūnaewele.
A ʻoiai e loaʻa ana nā kau ma ka home, mālama ʻoe i ka nui o ka huakaʻi a me nā lilo o ka meaʻai e loaʻa iā ʻoe ma ka hele ʻana i nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maʻamau.
4. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka pilikino
E like me nā hālāwai aʻoaʻo he alo a he alo i nā alo āpau āpau i nā moʻolelo āpau a me nā kau no ka hoʻolauleʻa male pūnaewele ʻana a pilikino.
No laila, nā kāne makemake ʻole i ka poʻe ʻē aʻe e ʻike ke hele nei lākou i nā manawa paʻakikī hiki loaʻa aʻoaʻo ma ka pūnaewele i ka pilikino o ko lākou mau home ponoʻī.
5. ʻOluʻolu ʻoi aku ia
ʻIke kekahi mau kāne ʻaʻole hōʻoluʻolu e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kā lākou mau pilikia he alo a he alo me ka mea hoʻoponopono. Hilahila wale lākou a makaʻu paha lākou i ka makaʻu ma o ka hoʻolauna ʻana o haʻi iā lākou a hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono i kā lākou mau pilikia na lākou.
ʻIke paha kēia mau kāne he ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ka hana ʻana i nā kau ma ka pūnaewele ʻoiai ʻo lākou wale nō me kā lākou wahine i loko o kahi lumi aʻo kahi alakaʻi aʻoaʻo pūnaewele e alakaʻi iā lākou ma o ka hana.
6. He mea pono no nā kāne lōʻihi
He mea kōkua ka ʻōlelo aʻo male ma ka pūnaewele no nā kāne ma kahi pilina lōʻihi.
Hiki i nā mea aʻoaʻo ke hoʻonohonoho i nā kau me nā kāne a me nā wahine ma o ke kāhea kūkā kamaʻilio kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke kamaʻilio pū kekahi me ka leo o kā lākou hopohopo e pili ana kekahi i kekahi, ʻoiai ke alakaʻi ʻia nei e kā lākou mea lapaʻau.
7. Hāʻawi ia i nā hui pūʻulu kikoʻī
Nā pūnaewele a pau e hoʻolako 'ōlelo aʻo a nā kāne ma ka pūnaewele he papa kuhikuhi o nā lālā a me kahi moʻolelo o ko lākou hopohopo a me nā hihia.
Hiki i nā kāne ke koho i nā kau pūʻulu kikoʻī kahi i hiki ai iā lākou ke launa pū me nā kāne ʻē aʻe e kū nei i nā hopohopo like.
ʻAe kēia iā lākou e hoʻohālikelike i ke kūlana o kēlā me kēia kāne me kā lākou a ma ke alakaʻi a kā lākou kākāʻolelo, aʻo lākou mai kekahi i kekahi a kōkua i kekahi i kekahi ma o kēia mau hui pūʻulu kikoʻī.
8. Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā palapala pūnaewele
Loaʻa nā palapala i kēlā me kēia hui ma ka pūnaewele i nā palapala kūpono i hiki i nā kāne a wahine ke wehe a nānā hou i kēlā me kēia manawa. E kōkua kēia iā lākou e ʻike inā e holomua ana lākou me ke kōkua o nā kau.
E hōʻike pū ʻia nā palapala inā loaʻa nā hoʻololi a hoʻomaikaʻi paha i kā lākou pilina ma ke kaʻina o ka lāʻau.
Hiki iā lākou ke loiloi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a kā lākou mea hoʻoponopono no kēlā me kēia kūlana a lākou i kūkākūkā ai i ka wā i hala.
ʻ .lelo aʻoaʻo pili pili pūnaewele ʻaʻole ia he ala maʻamau no ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo male i nā kāne pilikia.
Akā ʻoiai ua hoʻololi nui ʻia nā pilina e ka nohona o kēia au, nui nā kāne he kōkua nui ka hiki ke loaʻa ke kōkua ma ka pūnaewele.
He ala maʻalahi ia e hoʻolako i kēia lawelawe i makemake nui ʻia i nā kāne a puni ka honua i hiki ʻole ke loaʻa i nā lawelawe aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo maʻamau.
ʻAʻole wale ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ma ka pūnaewele e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, lawelawe i nā hakakā, loaʻa ka mahalo pū kekahi, e hoʻonui i ka pili aloha, a hoʻomoe i kahi kumu ikaika no kāu pili a male paha.
Hāʻawi iā ia iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i nā mea āpau i luna ke noho nei ʻoe i ka ʻoluʻolu o kou home a i kou wā leʻaleʻa.