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- Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mea a nā wahine e makemake ai i ka pili
- 1. Makemake nā wahine i ke aloha wale
- 2. ʻoluʻolu nā wahine i ka pili wahine ʻole
- 3. E wikiwiki e noi i ke kala ʻana
- 4. E makaʻala i nā pono o kekahi
- 5. Hāʻawi i ke kōkua me ke kali ʻole e noi ʻia
- 6. E ʻae i ka hōʻino a pepehi i ka huhū, ʻaʻole i ka naʻau
- Kakaikahi nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili no nā wahine
- 1. E mahalo nā wahine i nā kāne
- 2. Pono ʻoe e hālāwai me kāna pono nui - ka moekolohe
- 1. Hoʻokuʻu ka moekolohe i ka hakakā, i ke kino a me ka naʻau
- 2. E mālama i nā kōkua kōkua ma kahi kokoke
- 3. Ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe pilikino
- 4. Pono ka hapanui o nā wahine i ka pilikino
- 5. E mālama i kāu kelepona
- 6. E mālama i ka mea pohihihi
- 7. Hiki ke kōkua i nā kumuwaiwai i loaʻa
- 8. E ʻae i nā ʻike pono ʻole
- 9. E hoʻolālā i nā lā no ka leʻaleʻa like
- 10. E launa me kekahi
- 11. E hoʻolālā i nā huakaʻi aloha
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ka loio psychologist ʻo Kauka Kevin Leman, "Hoʻomaka ka moekolohe ma ka lumi kuke." Pono ʻoe e hana i ka lā holoʻokoʻa i ka mālama ʻana i ka pohihihi a me ke aloha i loko o kāu male ʻana a ʻimi i nā ala e hauʻoli ai kāu pakanā.
Inā ʻike ʻole nā kāne a waiwai ʻole paha i nā hana a kā lākou mau wahine ke keu aku a hiki i kona mau pepeiao i nā diapers a me nā ipu lepo, a laila e emi paha ʻo ia ma mua o ka pane ʻana i kāu hana mua aloha i ka wā moe.
No laila, pono ʻoe e aʻo e hoʻohauʻoli i kāu hoa i kēlā me kēia ala.
Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mea a nā wahine e makemake ai i ka pili
Makemake kahi wahine i ka pilina holoʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole wale i ka moekolohe.
ʻO ka puke a me ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo The Bridges of Madison i ka makahiki 1995 i hōʻike ʻia i ka wahine i ʻike iā ia iho ma ke ʻano maʻalahi a mahalo ʻole ʻia a hiki i ka wā e wehe ai kahi malihini i kāna hana, noʻonoʻo, a me kāna wahine. Ala aʻe ʻo ia e lilo i nani nani ola i loko o kahi hihia pōkole me ia āna i mālama malū ai i ke koena o kona ola.
E nā kāne, e aʻo ʻia ʻoe, iā ʻoe pū kekahi, ka mana e hoʻopuka i kēia nani latent a i ʻole squelch ia (e like me kāna kāne i hana ai) i kāu wahine.
1. Makemake nā wahine i ke aloha wale
Makemake nā wahine i ke aloha no lākou iho a ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he hopena.
ʻAʻole pono nā kāne e manaʻo i ka manawa e lawe mai kā lākou wahine i nā pua i ka home, hoʻomālamalama i kekahi ihoiho, a holo i ka ʻauʻau wai, makemake lākou i kā lākou wahine e lele koke e moekolohe me lākou.
Ma ka ʻokoʻa, makemake wale paha ʻo ia e ʻoliʻoli i ka manawa ihoiho kukui me kāna hoa a kamaʻilio e pili ana i kona lā a hoʻolohe paha e pili ana i kāu. No laila, e nīnau iā ia i ka mea āna i manaʻo ai he aloha, a laila hoʻohui i kēlā mau mea i kāu pilina a hauʻoli i kāu hoa.
2. ʻoluʻolu nā wahine i ka pili wahine ʻole
Makemake nā wahine i ka pili wahine ʻole.
Makemake lākou e hoʻopaʻa ʻia, hahau ʻia, a cuddled me ka manaʻo ʻole e koi ʻia e hāʻawi i kekahi mea i ka hoʻihoʻi. Inā ʻole, pau paha lākou i ka manaʻo e like me nā mea moekolohe, nā pahu lawe wale no kā lākou kāne kāne sperm.
Minamina no nā kāne, akā ʻo ia ka manaʻo a me ka manaʻo o ka wahine mai kāna hoa. Ma ke ʻano he kāne, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike i kēlā ʻano, a laila pau paha ʻoe i ka nalo ʻana iā ia a mau loa aku.
No laila, e hoʻohauʻoli i kāu hoa ma ka waiwai ʻana iā ia no kāna mau ʻano ʻē aʻe a me nā hāʻawi i kāu male,
3. E wikiwiki e noi i ke kala ʻana
Mālama i nā moʻolelo pōkole, ʻo ia hoʻi, e wikiwiki e noi i ke kala ʻana no nā ʻeha a me nā kuhi hewa ʻole e mālama ai i ka manaʻo hoʻokahi.
4. E makaʻala i nā pono o kekahi
E nīnau i kekahi wahine i nā nīnau e like me 'pehea e hoʻohauʻoli ai i kāu kāne, i ke ʻano a i ʻole i ka moekolohe i ka pilina?' Hoʻomaopopo lākou i nā mahele like ʻole a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka hauʻoli o kā lākou kāne, ma ke kino a me ka naʻau.
Pēlā nō, he kuleana ʻoe na nā kāne kāne kuleana e aʻo i nā ala e hauʻoli ai kāu pakanā. ʻO ka pono o ka kāne e ka testosterone makemake ʻia no ka moekolohe ʻo kēlā me kēia mea e like me ka pono o ka wahine e uē a hāwele paha i kona mau manaʻo i loko o kahi lā i hoʻopiʻi ʻia me ka estrogen.
5. Hāʻawi i ke kōkua me ke kali ʻole e noi ʻia
Ma ke ʻano he kāne kūleʻa, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka wā e kaumaha ai kāu wahine me nā hana i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i ke kōkua me ke kali ʻole e nīnau ʻia.
Inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka pēpē uē ʻana e paʻa ana i ka wāwae wāwae o Mommy ʻoiai ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo nei e kōkua iā Junior me kāna makemakika a me Sissie liʻiliʻi me kāna pela pela ʻana, a ʻo nā kīʻaha ʻaina awakea i ahu ʻia i loko o ke poho wai, lana koʻu manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pū , "Mahalo paha wau e ala iki ʻo ia i kahi hana iki i kēia pō."
E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō! I kekahi manawa holoi i nā pā a waiho i ka pēpē i ka hiamoe nā mea sexiest loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana.
6. E ʻae i ka hōʻino a pepehi i ka huhū, ʻaʻole i ka naʻau
Hoʻomaopopo i ka hōʻino a me ka huhū e luku i ka ʻona ʻona.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hauʻoli i kāu pakanā, kaupaona wale i kāu mau huaʻōlelo a makaʻala hoʻi i nā leka maʻa (a i ʻole maikaʻi ʻole) o nā leka i loko o kou leo o ka leo a me ka helehelena.
ʻO nā mea āu e pono ai e hana wale i ka luku wale i kou huhū akā mai hoʻopau i ka lokahi ʻona me ia.
Kakaikahi nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili no nā wahine
Ua mākaukau loa nā wahine a me nā kaikamahine hou me ka hana o ka mālama hauʻoli ʻana i kā lākou mau hoa. No laila, ke nīnau ʻia e pili ana i nā kumuhana e pili ana e like me 'Pehea ʻoe e hauʻoli ai i kāu kāne i ka pilina?', Pōmaikaʻi paha ʻoe me nā pane hoihoi.
Akā, pono i nā wahine o kēia au ke kāpae iā lākou iho i kekahi mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e like me -
1. E mahalo nā wahine i nā kāne
Ke manaʻo nei ʻaʻohe a mākou koho wahine i kēia mea, akā ua kauoha ʻia iā R-E-S-P-E-C-T i kā mākou kāne ʻaʻole he mea, a laila hewa loa kēlā noʻonoʻo.
Kāohi i kāu mea e hana nei i kēia manawa a hanu nui, pani i kou mau maka, a hoʻomaikaʻi i ka Haku no ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i kēia kāne e lilo i ipo, koa, mea hoʻolako, a pale aku i kou home.
E noʻonoʻo i kāna mau ʻano maikaʻi āpau a hoʻolālā i nā ala e hōʻike iā ia i kou mahalo nui iā ia no kēia mau mea.
2. Pono ʻoe e hālāwai me kāna pono nui - ka moekolohe
E like me nā wahine, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka wā e moekolohe ana ʻoe me kāu kāne, ke hālāwai nei ʻoe me kāna pono helu ʻekahi.
Kūpono ʻole nā manaʻo e like me kēia. Mai mālama māmā iā lākou. Ma kahi o, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kēia kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hauʻoli ai kāu hoa. Eia, ke hana nei ʻoe i ka pilina me ia i hiki ʻole ke hana ʻia i kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe.
Ke hoʻoikaika nei ʻoe i ka ʻume mākeneka e hoʻomau iā ia e hoʻi hou mai no ka mea hou a pale i kona maka mai ka holoholo ʻana i kahi ʻē aʻe e hoʻokō ai kēlā pono.
Kakaikahi nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻē aʻe no ka hauʻoli ʻana i ke ola male hauʻoli
1. Hoʻokuʻu ka moekolohe i ka hakakā, i ke kino a me ka naʻau
Hāʻawi ka moekolohe iā ʻolua i kahi hoʻokuʻu o ke kūpikipiki, i ke kino a me ka naʻau, ʻoiai ke hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i ke ala e makaʻala ai kekahi i kekahi ke aʻo ʻoe pehea e hana ai i nā mōhai a hāʻawi hoʻi a loaʻa i nā leʻaleʻa.
2. E mālama i nā kōkua kōkua ma kahi kokoke
ʻO ka lubricant pilikino, Kleenex a i ʻole ka holoi holoi, nā mīkini hanu a i ke kāpili, aila wai a i ʻole nā mea lomilomi no nā backrubs a i ʻole nā rubs o ka wāwae, nā mele aloha, nā ihoiho, a me nā mea pili he mau kōkua kōkua pono e pono ke loaʻa inā pono.
3. Ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe pilikino
Inā makemake ʻoe e hauʻoli i kāu pakanā, e hoʻomanaʻo mau i ka mālama pono ʻana i kou ʻano pilikino.
ʻO ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ka mea kokoke i ke akua.
4. Pono ka hapanui o nā wahine i ka pilikino
Laka ʻia kou puka lumi moe? Noho ʻia nā keiki ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohoka iā ʻoe?
Hoʻololi pinepine kekahi mau hoa i ka moekolohe a hoʻololi i ka mālama pēpē ʻana no nā keiki a kekahi i kekahi e hōʻoia i ka manawa kū ʻole ʻole no ka pilina.
5. E mālama i kāu kelepona
Eia hou, inā makemake ʻoe e hauʻoli i kāu pakanā a hauʻoli i ka maluhia ma ka home, ʻae ʻaʻole e pane i ke kelepona ke kokoke lākou iā ʻoe.
ʻO nā kelepona a me nā hāmeʻa ʻē aʻe e like me nā kamepiula lawe lima a me nā papa i hiki ke lilo i kumu nui o ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi a me ka huhū i nā pilina. E hoʻonoho i kahi lula - e hana i kāu leka uila a i ʻole ka mīkini pane i ka hana nāu.
6. E mālama i ka mea pohihihi
E hoʻāʻo mau i nā mea hou i mea e ola ai kekahi o nā mea pohihihi. ʻO nā mea e like me ke kukui ʻana i lalo i nā kukui a hoʻolōʻihi i ka hulahula ʻana me kou mau lole āpau e ʻike wale i ka neʻe pū ʻana o kou mau kino. ʻOi, e hānai ana kekahi i kekahi i kekahi mau strawberry i loko o ke kokoleka, a laila palu i ka kokoleka i nā manamana o kekahi a pēlā aku.
ʻO nā mea e lilo i mea mua i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka hemo ʻana i kou kapa a hele i kahi moe, e hana maikaʻi ia e hoʻomau i ka lapalapa o ke aloha.
7. Hiki ke kōkua i nā kumuwaiwai i loaʻa
E hoʻohana pono i nā kumuwaiwai i loaʻa iā ʻoe e like me nā puke, nā CD a me nā lipine, nā DVD a me nā wikiō wikiō no nā manaʻo.
Kau i ka ʻohana (Dr. James Dobson), FamilyLife (Dennis Rainey), Pāʻina male makasina, ka ʻAhahui o ka male a me nā ʻohana ʻohana (AMFM — Eric a me Jennifer Garcia), pili pili maoli (Drs. Les lāua ʻo Leslie Parrot), Hale pili pilina Smalley (Drs. Gary lāua ʻo Greg Smalley), a me ka National Association of Marriage Enhancement (NAME —Leo a me Molly Godzich), me ka haʻi ʻole aku i kā mākou mau Kuhina Nui Walk & Talk kekahi mau mea e hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo male ma o nā ʻaha kūkā, ka Pūnaewele a me nā hale kūʻai puke.
8. E ʻae i nā ʻike pono ʻole
Hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole pono kēlā me kēia ʻike i kahi "10" maikaʻi loa, ʻo ia hoʻi, kou manaʻo o ka pāhū like, a me ka orgasms like.
I kekahi manawa ua makemake ka wahine e noho no kahi "wikiwiki" e hōʻoluʻolu i kāna kāne a neʻe i ka mea e hiki mai ana i kāna ola hana. Akā e ʻike pono i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi, ke nānā ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa o kēlā me kēia, ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule.
9. E hoʻolālā i nā lā no ka leʻaleʻa like
E hana i nā lā no kēia mau kau kūikawā o ka leʻaleʻa like, keu hoʻi inā ʻike ʻoe he "manawa nui" kāu wahine.
10. E launa me kekahi
E mākaukau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau makemake me kekahi.
Makemake paha kāu kāne i ka ʻōpala o ka wāwae a i ʻole nā ʻānai a i ʻole nā ʻāʻī o ka ʻāʻī? ʻO nā kikiki a i ʻole nā scratches hope? Nā ʻano kūlana like ʻole? Ke nānā nei i nā maka o kekahi?
Kūkākūkā maikaʻi ʻia kēia mau mea i kahi hoʻonohonoho hōʻoluʻolu ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa nui a ʻaʻohe mea keakea.
11. E hoʻolālā i nā huakaʻi aloha
ʻO wai ka mea e lawe iā mākou i kā mākou wēlau poʻomanaʻo hope loa e hauʻoli ai kāu hoa.
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