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- Ka maʻi pilikino Narcissistic
- Pehea e hana ai i kahi pilina me kahi hana narcissist
- Pehea e makemake ai kahi narcissist iā ʻoe
ʻO wai ka narcissist?
He poʻe pilikino loa nā Narcissists. A, ʻo ke aloha ʻana i ka narcissist ʻaʻohe holo mālie!
He ʻano hoʻonui ko lākou iā lākou iho, me ka nānā ʻole i ka pehea o lākou maoli. Mahalo lākou iā lākou iho no ke kumu kūpono ʻole a maʻa mau i ka hana ʻana i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā lākou iho.
ʻAʻole hiki i kēlā poʻe ke ʻae i kekahi ʻano loiloi. Makemake pū lākou a koi i ka nānā mau a me ka mahalo mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Me he mea lā ua hōʻea kēia poʻe i kahi pae kiʻekiʻe o ka hana pilikino iā lākou iho.
ʻAʻole paha lākou ka mea a lākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ai iā lākou iho. Ma ke alo o ia mea, hōʻike lākou iā lākou iho i ka hilinaʻi nui, ʻoiai ke hohonu o loko e moe ana kahi ego liʻiliʻi palupalu.
Ka maʻi pilikino Narcissistic
ʻO kahi maʻi pilikino narcissistic kahi ʻano o ke ʻano maʻi pilikino kahi i nui ai ka manaʻo o ke kanaka iā ia iho.
ʻO ka poʻe i ʻeha i kēia maʻi e koi i ka nānā a mālama ʻia mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ma muli o kēia maʻi ua hōʻike lākou i kekahi mau ʻano e paʻakikī ai ke ola ʻaʻole wale no lākou iho, akā ʻo ka poʻe hoʻi e kokoke ana iā lākou.
Loaʻa kēia mau ʻano:
- ʻO ka manaʻoʻiʻo he kūpono lākou i ka nānā a lākou e koi ai
- Ke manaʻo nei iā lākou iho he poʻokela
- Lawe pono ʻia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻopau i nā mea ma kā lākou ala
- Ke hana nei i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā lākou iho a nānā ʻole i nā pono a me nā makemake o kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe.
- Hana hoʻokiʻekiʻe
- Ka paʻakikī i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i nā pilikia i hāpai ʻia e ka poʻe a lākou e launa pū ai
Ma ke ʻano he hopena, ʻike pinepine ka poʻe narcissist i nā pilina pilikia ma ka home a me ka hana.
Pehea e hana ai i kahi pilina me kahi hana narcissist
Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina a ke kū nei ʻoe i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi ma muli o ka mālama ʻole o kāu hoa, he mea nui ia e ʻike i kahi e waiho ai ka pilikia.
Inā makemake ʻole kāu hoa e nānā a nānā ʻole i kāu mau hopohopo āpau a mākaukau e hana i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā lākou iho, ʻo nā manawa ke aloha ʻoe me kahi narcissist.
Inā ʻoe e aloha i kahi narcissist, noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe pehea e hana ai me kahi keikikāne narcissistic / ipo wahine a pehea e aloha ai i kahi narcissist i kahi ala a lākou e ʻae ai.
Hiki i ke aloha narcissist ke hōʻoia i ka ninini ikehu. ʻO ke ola ʻana o kahi pilina e koi pinepine i kahi hana nui mai kahi hoa ʻē aʻe.
Ma hope o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā hana hiki āpau, aia nō kahi manawa e ʻae ʻole ai ka hoa narcissistic i nā mea āpau āu i hana ai, e noʻonoʻo ana inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi pilina olakino me kahi narcissist.
Mālama ka narcissist iā ia e pili ana iā lākou iho, ʻo ia hoʻi ke hoʻoholo ʻoe e kaʻana like i kāu mau manaʻo ponoʻī a i ʻole nā pilikia, e hoʻopili pili ʻole lākou āpau iā lākou iho a e noʻonoʻo he ʻano loiloi.
E alo mau ʻoe i ka pilikia ke hiki mai i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kou mau manaʻo me lākou.
Inā ʻoe e aloha i kahi narcissist, e alo mau ʻoe i ka pilikia ke hiki mai i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kou mau manaʻo me lākou. ʻOiai maikaʻi lākou ma ka puʻuwai, he poʻe hoʻolohe maikaʻi ʻole a ʻae pinepine ʻole i kekahi ʻano loiloi.
A ʻoiai lākou i manaʻo he kuleana lākou i kēlā me kēia ʻano o ka nānā ʻana, ʻaʻole lākou e lawehala e pili ana iā ia.
Pehea e makemake ai kahi narcissist iā ʻoe
Pehea e lanakila ai i kahi narcissist?
Ke hana nei i kahi makemake narcissist ʻaʻole ʻoe he hana hiki ʻole, akā ʻo ke aloha i kahi narcissist he hana nui ʻole ia.
Ma lalo o nā kūlana maʻamau a me ka hiki ke hōʻalo ʻia, manaʻo paha ka poʻe he nui iā ʻoe e hele wāwae mai ke ala e alakaʻi ai iā ʻoe i kahi narcissist.
Akā ʻoiai ma hope o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a pau, inā ʻoe e makemake pū me kahi kanaka narcissistic, a laila iā ʻoe wale nō. I kēia manawa, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe, hiki i kahi pilina me kahi narcissist ke hana?
I mea e ola ai i kahi pilina me kēlā kanaka, pono ʻoe e hana a pili i ka mea ʻē aʻe a ʻaneʻane poina e pili ana i kou ʻano.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea hoihoi iā lākou, a laila hoʻohui ia. Inā ʻaʻole, pono ʻoe e hana i nā mea e ʻoluʻolu ai a mahalo mau iā lākou.
Ma ka hana ʻana pēlā, e hoʻonui ʻoe i ka ʻohana hoʻopunipuni a kāu hoa a makemake i kāu pakanā e noho pū me ʻoe.
ʻAʻole paha lākou e aloha nui iā ʻoe, akā ʻo kou nānā mau ka mea e makemake ai e puni iā ʻoe, a ʻo ia paha kāu kī ʻoi loa!
Ke ʻōwili nei
ʻO ke aloha i ka narcissist he ʻano kūlana kāna. Ma mua o kou luʻu hohonu ʻana i loko o kahi pilina me lākou, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono i nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā pono ʻole.
Inā aloha ʻoe i kahi narcissist, a ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e hoʻi i hope, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e kamaʻilio me kāu hoa e pili ana i ka ʻeha o kā lākou ʻano iā ʻoe.
Akā, e noʻonoʻo pono e noʻonoʻo pono me ka hiki i kou manaʻo. Hōʻalo i ka paʻa ʻana i loko o kahi paio waha, a i ʻole backfire a komo ʻoe i loko o kahi pilikia hohonu.
Mai makaʻu i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua ʻoihana inā kū mai ka pono. Hiki i kahi kākāʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a mea hoʻoponopono paha ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kōkua e pono ai e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau pilikia pilikia.
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