Anter
E like me nā hana a nā kānaka āpau, ʻo ka male ka mea e hana i ka manaʻo a me ke kumu. Ma ka male ʻana i kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā lākou wale nō akā i kahi ʻāpana nui aʻe o ʻoe iho.
E like me ia, e ʻike ka poʻe pehea lākou e noho ai ke noho lākou ma lalo o ka hale like me ka mea a lākou e aloha ai.
Akā ʻoi pinepine aku ma mua o ka ʻole, haʻalele ka poʻe i kēia kuhi. Ma muli o ko lākou manaʻo he hakakā maʻamau ka male ma waena o nā hoa, ʻike lākou ia mea he paʻa e pono ke hoʻoponopono pū ʻia.
ʻOiai he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia, ʻaʻole ia ka hihia e poina iā mākou iā mākou iho ke komo mākou i ka male. E hōʻike hou aʻe ia o mākou ma mua o lākou.
Me kēlā, he mea nui e ʻike ʻo wai mākou i ka male a he aha kā mākou kuleana a me nā kuleana. Akā pehea? Simple - me ke kōkua o ka male a i ʻole ka archetypes pili.
Kūlike ʻole i ka hilinaʻi kaulana, ʻaʻole kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia o mākou. ʻOiai loaʻa iā mākou nā ʻano a me nā ʻike e hoʻohālikelike iā mākou i nā mea ʻokoʻa iā mākou a puni, ke holo nei kekahi pae maʻamau e hoʻopili pū i kā mākou lāhui kanaka.
Ma ka hiki ke ʻike i kēia pae a me kona manaʻo, lilo ia i mea maʻalahi no mākou e hoʻoponopono i ke ola.
I kēia hihia, na e ʻimi ana i nā archetypes male, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokokoke i kā mākou pilina pili male a hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou kuleana male. Ke ʻimi nei mākou e ʻike hou e pili ana iā mākou iho, e makaʻala mākou i nā ʻano, nā pahuhopu, nā makaʻu, a me nā mea like.
E nānā i kēia wikiō e hoʻomaopopo ai i nā kuleana koʻikoʻi e alakaʻi i kahi pilina kūleʻa:
Kahu
I ka pilina mua archetype, i ka papa inoa, ʻo ke kahu kekahi mea nāna e hoʻonoho i ka hana mua o ka pono o ka ʻohana ma mua o nā mea āpau āpau. Ke ʻike nei i ka male ma ke ʻano he mea a lākou e pale aku ai, e hana nā Kahu i nā mea āpau i ko lākou mana e hōʻoia i ka palekana o kā lākou hoa a me ka ʻohana.
Me kēlā, e mōhai mālie lākou. Kāohi ʻana e kaʻana like i ka ukana i kā lākou mau hoa, e ʻimi lākou e hoʻoponopono i nā mea āpau ke hiki iā lākou. No laila, hemo paha lākou i waho akā manaʻo lākou e lawe mai lākou i nā hopena maikaʻi.
Mea aloha
ʻO ka Lover prioritizing i kā lākou mea i aloha ʻia ma mua o nā mea āpau a hiki ke hana i ka mea ʻē aʻe e mahalo a mahalo ʻia. Ma mua o nā mea āpau, maikaʻi loa kēia archetype i ka hoʻokele ʻana me ka manaʻo, ka manaʻo, a me nā hana a kekahi i ko lākou hānau ʻia ʻana e hana i nā pilina kūpono.
E like me ia, hoʻohana mau ka Lover i kēia i kā lākou keu pono. ʻOiai hiki iā lākou ke lilo i manipulative a me ka kaohi loa, e ʻike nei aia lākou ma ke ala kūpono ke kī.
Na loiloi hou i kā lākou kumu, pale lākou iā lākou iho mai ka hana hewa hewa nui ma ke ala.
Hoʻopunipuni
Me kā lākou mau leʻaleʻa a me ka naʻauao, hiki i nā sedheter ka pilina archetypes ke lanakila ma kahi o nā mea āpau. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo nā mōʻī a me nā ʻemepela e hoʻohuli ʻia e nā gypsies a me nā geishas. Ke male, e mālama ka mea hoʻopunipuni i nā mea leʻaleʻa a pīhoihoi hoʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e pau i ke ala e hoʻowalewale ai i kekahi.
I kēia hihia, ke hōʻoia nei he kūpaʻa lākou i kā lākou hoa ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea nui a lākou e hōʻoia ai. Ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka waiwai o kā lākou mau hoa, hiki iā lākou ke pale pono iā lākou iho mai ka hāʻule ʻole ʻole ʻana me ka poʻe e alualu mau ana iā lākou ke male lākou.
Mea hāʻawi
E like me ka archetypes pili pilina, he ʻano loea ka mea hāʻawi i ka nānā ʻana i ka hana ʻana i ka mea ʻē aʻe i aloha ʻia a mālama ʻia e like me kā lākou e hānai ʻia ai.
No kēia archetype, hiki ke hānai i kā lākou mea aloha i ka mea maikaʻi loa i hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi. I ka hana ʻana pēlā, ke noho nei nō lākou i kā lākou archetypes.
ʻOiai maikaʻi paha kēia, ka ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mea hāʻawi i nā pilikia. Hoʻopilikia ʻia i ka hōʻino, hāʻawi pinepine ʻia nā mea hāʻawi e ka poʻe hoa hewa.
E like me ka mahalo ʻole ʻana o ka poʻe mahalo ʻole i ko lākou manawaleʻa a lokomaikaʻi, hiki i ka mea hāʻawi ke lilo i ʻohana mauʻu i hoʻolei ʻia ma hope.
Idealist
Ke ʻike nei i nā pilina ma ke ʻano he keu o ke ola kanaka, ʻimi mau ka Idealist i ka mea maikaʻi loa no lākou a me kā lākou mau hoa.
I kēia pilina pilina, e hele lākou i nā lōʻihi āpau e hōʻoia i ke kūlana maikaʻi me kā lākou mau hoa. E like me ia, hana lākou i kahi hanana kahi e hele mau ai ka pilina i ka nui.
Eia nō naʻe, pono like lākou e akahele. Ma muli o ka maikaʻi ʻole o kā lākou mau manaʻo āpau a i ʻole ʻae ʻia paha e nā mea ʻē aʻe, hiki iā lākou ke hana maʻalahi i nā kuhi hewa ʻole a me nā pilikia. Ke koi nei i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, ʻo ke ala maikaʻi e hoʻolohe ai i kā lākou mau hoa.
ʻO Rationalist
Hiki ke hana i nā hoʻoholo maikaʻi loa a maikaʻi loa no ka male, ka Rationalist mau he hoa maikaʻi loa e ulu pū.
ʻOiai kokoke lākou e koho i ka mea kūpono a maikaʻi, maikaʻi ka hopena o ka pilina. E like me ia, e lilo ka ulu pilikino a pilikino i ka nīnau.
Eia naʻe, hoʻokahi pilikia me ka Rationalist ʻo ia lilo lākou i mea koʻikoʻi loa. Ma kahi o ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kā lākou mau hoa, pili lākou i ka palaka-a kālele wale ʻana i ka hopena kūpono.
I ka wā lōʻihi, hiki i kēia ke hōʻeha i ka pilina me ka makemake ʻole o kekahi i kekahi ʻano.