Anter
- He aha nā hana pilina?
- Pehea ʻoe e noho aliʻi ai i ke kuko i kāu pili?
- Makemake paha ʻo ia i nā mahalo?
- ʻAʻole paha wau e ʻike pono?
- E haʻi paha wau iā lākou e pili ana i kēia ʻano hana?
- He mea nui anei nā hiʻohiʻona? ʻAʻole ʻoi aku ke aloha ʻoi i ka helehelena?
- Kūkulu a ʻoluʻolu i nā pilina ma waho o kou male
Makemake mākou āpau i kahi male kūleʻa a hauʻoli hoʻi. Hoʻololi mākou i kā mākou hoʻohiki male. Hoʻopaʻa mākou kekahi i kekahi e noho ma laila no kekahi, ma o ka lahilahi a me ka lahilahi, ma o ka maʻi a me ke olakino, 'a hiki i ka make e hana iā mākou' ʻāpana. Akā i kekahi manawa manaʻo ka male e like me ka mea ua make loa ma mua o ka hana maoli a ka poʻe maoli.
Inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kahi male kūleʻa, pono ʻoe i kekahi mau hana maʻamau.
He aha nā hana pilina?
ʻO kahi laʻana, inā he niho keʻokeʻo kou, no ka mea e kahaki ʻoe iā lākou ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā, i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā he kālā ʻoe, no ka mea e hele ʻoe i ka hana ma kahi o 5 mau lā / pule. Inā ʻoe olakino, no ka mea ʻai pono ʻoe a hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma ka liʻiliʻi he 3 mau manawa / hebedoma.
Ke hoʻomaka mua ʻoe i ka pilina, hoʻouna ʻoe i kāu mau ipo aloha nani, kākau ʻoe iā lākou i kāleka, hoʻāʻo ʻoe e aʻo hou e pili ana iā lākou, hele aku ʻoe no ka lā pō ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule. Ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki o ka male, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā leka āu e hoʻouna ai "hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i ka ʻiʻo mai ka pahu hau?". "ʻEhia kāu haʻalele ʻana mai ka panakō i kēia lā?". Ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki o ka male, huli nā kāleka kākau i nā loiloi kākau. ʻO ka pō lā e pili ana i ka noho ʻana i mua o ka T.V me kahi ʻeke o nā ʻāpana, ʻoiai e hiamoe ana kekahi.
ʻIke ʻoe i nā poʻe āpau, ʻaʻole ia ka manawa e hoʻololi ai i kahi pilina. ʻO kāu hana maʻamau.
E hoʻihoʻi i ka huna ahi i loko o kāu pilina, e nānā i ka wikiō ma lalo:
Pehea ʻoe e noho aliʻi ai i ke kuko i kāu pili?
Pono anei wau e lawe mau i kāna pua i kēia manawa? ʻAʻole. ʻO nā makana e like me nā pua, kokoleka, a me nā pō aloha e hana ʻia e hōʻike i kou mālama a makemake ʻoe e mālama iā lākou i keu. Nui a hewahewa nā koho āu e hōʻike ai mālama ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi.
Eia ke kumumanaʻo
He aha kāna kiʻi ʻoniʻoni? He aha kāna ʻai punahele? ʻO kou pō e hiki mai ana e kiaʻi ana i kāna kiʻi ʻoniʻoni punahele, e ʻai ana i kāna ʻai kalima punahele, a ʻo ka mea nui loa, kau i kou mau lima i nā wāwae o kēlā me kēia me kēia kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. E loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau kiko brownie keu no ka nānā ʻana i kāna makemake. E noʻonoʻo i ka mea e hiki mai i kēlā pō ma ka moe.
Makemake paha ʻo ia i nā mahalo?
Piliwai ʻoe hana ʻo ia! Makemake nā kāne e lilo i Mōʻī no kā lākou Mōʻīwahine. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, makemake nā kāne e manaʻo nui. I kēlā me kēia lā, i kona hoʻi ʻana mai i ka hale mai ka hana, eia ka mea e hana ai: holo i ona lā, a ʻapo a honi nui iā ia, a ʻakaʻaka iā ia. Hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau e ʻoi aku kona ʻoluʻolu, wehe, a me ka mālama ʻana me ʻoe mahalo i kēia, leʻaleʻa, ka hana maʻamau.
ʻAʻole paha wau e ʻike pono?
ʻAe, pono maoli ʻoe i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia mau hana liʻiliʻi, ke hana ʻia me ke aloha maoli a me ka pīhoihoi e hoʻouna i nā biochemical ma o kou lolo a me kou kino. E hoʻopiha ʻia ʻoe a me kāu hoa me nā biochemical hauʻoli o serotonin a me dopamine. E hoʻokuʻu ʻo ia i nā testosterone ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no kona hilinaʻi, olakino, a no kou pili pili.
E haʻi paha wau iā lākou e pili ana i kēia ʻano hana?
ʻOiaʻiʻo. E kuhi i kekahi mau hana leʻaleʻa a maʻalahi hiki iā ʻoe ke hana pū a i ʻole kekahi i kekahi. Nui kou mana ma aneʻi e hoʻokala i kou pilina. Hele mua ʻoe. ʻO ka hele mua e kōkua iā lākou e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻomau i ka maikaʻi āu i hoʻomaka ai.
He mea nui anei nā hiʻohiʻona? ʻAʻole ʻoi aku ke aloha ʻoi i ka helehelena?
ʻAe, ʻo ka mālama ʻana i ka helehelena ka mea nui a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻino i kēia ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi.
Me nā makahiki he nui o ka male ʻana, ukali ʻia e nā keiki, maʻalahi ka lohi ke hele a mālama i ka helehelena. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā lā mua o ka male ʻana i ka wā i mālama nui ai ʻoe i kou maʻemaʻe a me kou helehelena i ka laulā.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e nānā e like me kahi pani hōʻike i kēlā me kēia manawa ke noho ʻoe i loko no kahi pō o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Akā mai hoʻololi i ka nani e like me ka peach a i ʻole ka hunk maikaʻi i kahi kanaka maikaʻi ʻole, palaualelo a ʻino hoʻi.
Uku i kāu wahine i ka ʻoluʻolu like e ka priming iā ʻoe iho no lākou.
Kūkulu a ʻoluʻolu i nā pilina ma waho o kou male
ʻO ka hānai ʻana i kou pilina me kāu wahine a me kāu mau keiki ka mea nui loa.
Akā he mea nui ka heʻe ʻana me nā hoaaloha.
ʻO ke kaʻana ʻana i nā anecdotes me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me ka hana ʻana i nā ʻike hou e lilo ai ʻoe i mea hoihoi a waiwai nui no kāu wahine e noho ma kahi kokoke. Kōkua ka manawa kaʻawale i ka hānai ʻana i ke aloha a me ke aloha ma waena o nā kāne e pono ai i kahi mamao, e hānai i nā hui ʻē aʻe i ke ola.
ʻO kāu male kāu kiko nui. Akā, ʻaʻole pono ia āpau a hoʻopau i nā mea āpau. Ke ukali ʻoe i kekahi o kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male nui, hōʻoia ʻoe i ka pilina olakino ʻaʻohe o nā manaʻo e stifled.
Panina hopena
E hāhai i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male a hoʻomau i kāu mau hana e kūkulu i kahi pilina e paʻa ikaika ʻoiai ʻo ka ebb a me ke kahe.