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- He aha ke keiki kāne a ka māmā?
- Pehea e ʻike ai i kahi keiki a kahi mama
- Nā pilikia o ke kāne a me ka makuahōnōwai wahine - ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā palena
- 1. E kamaʻilio a hoʻonohonoho i nā palena
- 2. E nānā iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he wahine a makuahine i kāu mau keiki
- 3. Hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo i kāu kāne akā e hana maikaʻi
- 4. ʻO ke ahonui hou aku ka mea āu e makemake ai
Haʻaheo ʻoe i kāu kāne no ka mea ʻoluʻolu a noʻonoʻo ia, ʻaʻole e hōʻike i kahi keonimana maoli e pili ana i nā wahine.
ʻIke ʻo ia i ka mahalo a me ka pehea e ʻōlelo ai i nā mea kūpono e hoʻonani i nā wahine.
He lawaiʻa ʻo ia a hilahila ʻoe e lili ʻia e kāu mau hoaaloha - a maopopo iā ʻoe ke kumu o kona ʻano pēlā. Ma hope o nā mahina he nui o ka male ʻana, ʻike hope ʻoe i ke kumu o kona ʻano keonimana a me ka pīhoihoi - ua male ʻoe i kahi keikikāne a ka māmā!
I kēia manawa, he aha kāu hana?
He aha ke keiki kāne a ka māmā?
He keiki kāne mama ʻo ia! Ua lohe ʻoe i kēia huaʻōlelo i nā manawa he nui akā pehea wale ʻoe e wehewehe ai i ke ʻano o ke keikikāne maoli?
He keikikāne kahi keikikāne a kahi ʻāpala o ka maka o kona māmā akā i loko o nā makahiki, ua loli kēia manaʻo i ke kāne makua piha i ka hilinaʻi nui ʻia i kona makuahine a i ka wā makua.
ʻOiai ʻoe e noʻonoʻo he mea maikaʻi ʻole a hōʻike wale paha ia ʻaʻole kūʻokoʻa kahi kāne, hiki iā ia ke hoʻoweliweli maoli ʻaʻole wale me kona ʻano makua akā i ka wā he ʻohana ponoʻī kāna.
ʻO kahi kāne i ʻelemakule e hoʻoholo i nā hoʻoholo nona iho akā e ʻae ʻo ia i kona makuahine e hoʻoholo hope inā paha he ʻohana kāna i waena o nā kāne me nā pilikia makuahine.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana ʻana me ke keiki kāne a ka māmā!
He nui nā wahine i mare ʻia i hoʻokahi e hoʻohiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he paʻakikī loa ke hana pū me kahi kāne hiki ʻole ke hana maoli i kekahi mea me ka ʻōlelo ʻole a ka makuahine.
Pehea e ʻike ai i kahi keiki a kahi mama
Pehea wale ʻoe e ʻike ai i nā hōʻailona o ke keikikāne a mama i nā kāne male makua?
I ka manawa mua, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike i kāu ipo a i ʻole ke kanaka āu e aloha nei he keiki kāne a mama i hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā lākou ke hala e like me kahi mea ʻono maoli me kā lākou mau makuahine a ke noho nei i kēia pae o ka pili aloha, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i nā hōʻailona.
Ke male wale ʻoe, ʻo kēia ka manawa āu e noʻonoʻo ai pehea e hana ai me kahi keikikāne momma.
E hoʻomaka ana nā ʻōuli e hōʻike, a eia kekahi mau hōʻailona āu i male ai i ke keikikāne momma.
- ʻO kā Mommy noi kāna mea nui kiʻekiʻe. Paʻahana paha kāu kāne iā ʻoe akā loaʻa mau ke kāhea aku kona makuahine? ʻO kāu kāne mau ka mea e hele pū me ia i ka hale kūʻai, e uku ana i nā bila, a ʻoiai ke hele i ke kauka?
- ʻIke pinepine ʻoe i kāu kāne ʻo ia hana me kāna kelepona akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e aloha nei me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, ʻoiaʻiʻo e kamaʻilio ana me kona makuahine, like ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā!
- He aha e hana ai inā kāu kāne koho ʻo ia i kona ʻohana ma luna ou a me kāu poʻe keiki? Inā manaʻo ʻoe he mea kēia āu e noʻonoʻo ai, a laila ua male ʻoe i kahi kāne e ʻoi aku kona koho i kona makuahine ma mua o kona ʻohana.
- Ke hoʻoholo nui nei, kāu kāne pili pū me ka manaʻo o kona makuahine.
- Kou makuahūnōai wahine kipa pinepine aku a hana i nā loli āna i makemake ai i kou home.
- Hana mau kāu kāne a mau paha i ka wā lōʻihi hoʻohālikelike ʻoe me kona makuahine? ʻ telllelo aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka ʻokoʻa o kāu steak i ʻokoʻa ka hana a kona makuahine?
- "Ua like ka hana a koʻu makuahōnōwai wahine me kāna kāne," inā ua ʻike ʻoe i kāu ʻōlelo ʻana i kēia mau huaʻōlelo a laila paha, ua male ʻoe i kahi keikikāne a kahi mama.
- ʻO ka mea hope loa, noho ʻoe ma kahi o ka home o kona makuahine a i ʻole ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, noho pū ʻoe me ia.
Nā pilikia o ke kāne a me ka makuahōnōwai wahine - ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā palena
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i male akā aia i loko o kahi pilina koʻikoʻi, makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e hana ai me kahi keikikāne kāne a kahi mama a hana i kahi kiko.
ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e manaʻo ʻo ʻoe ke kolu o nā huila ma aneʻi, ʻeā?
Eia naʻe, ʻo ka nīnau maoli ma aneʻi, ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻole ʻana o nā pilikia o ke kāne a me ka makuahōnōwai wahine, makemake mākou e ʻike pehea e hoʻololi ai i kahi keiki a ka momma a e kiʻi iā ia i kanaka no nāna iho a no ʻoe - kona ʻohana.
Manaʻo ka hapanui o nā wahine i ka ʻae ʻana iā ia e koho a walaʻau iā ia e pili ana i kahi e pau ai kāna hana ʻana i kahi keikikāne momma, akā ʻaʻole kēia ke ala kūpono no ka mea e hōʻeha kēia ego iā ia, e ʻeha pū ʻo ia me nā huaʻōlelo āu e makemake ai. e ʻōlelo ana ae kūkulu i ka haunaele a me ka huhū.
Eia kekahi, e ʻike pū kona makuahine, no laila e hoʻopilikia hou ai.
1. E kamaʻilio a hoʻonohonoho i nā palena
E hoʻomaopopo i kāu kāne maopopo iā ʻoe a mahalo ʻoe i kāna pili me kona makuahine akā pono ʻo ia e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe a me nā keiki inā loaʻa iā ʻoe.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e noho ma laila mau no kou makuahōnōwai wahine e like me kāu kāne. Ma kahi o, inā makemake lākou e pāʻina pū i ka ʻaina a makemake paha e hele i waho, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻole haʻahaʻa.
2. E nānā iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he wahine a makuahine i kāu mau keiki
Ma ke ala, e kamaʻilio me kāu kāne e pili ana i kahi e hoʻonohonoho ai ʻo ia i kekahi mau palena ʻoiai kou ʻohana kēia a ʻaʻole ka ʻāina o kona makuahine.
ʻO ka kaupalena ʻana i kona kaohi ʻana i kou home e hoʻokuʻu ʻia ana a he mea wehe maka hoʻi ʻo ʻoe ke mōʻī wahine o kou home.
3. Hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo i kāu kāne akā e hana maikaʻi
Mai lilo i ke kanaka maikaʻi ʻole i kēia kūlana.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha me kou makuahōnōwai wahine a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i nā ʻohana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio pū me kāu kāne e pili ana i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana a ʻaʻole maikaʻi maoli ia hana ʻana - hana maikaʻi i kēia mau mea.
4. ʻO ke ahonui hou aku ka mea āu e makemake ai
E like me ka ʻōlelo a ke keikikāne a mama, me he mea lā he keikikāne ʻōpio kāu kāne i aloha nui a hilinaʻi i kona makuahine. He mea kēia e loli mālie ʻoe akā e hana mālie.
A keiki kāne a mama ʻaʻole ia he mea maikaʻi ʻole āpau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, mea aloha iā ia a mahalo i ka poʻe.
ʻO kekahi manawa wale nō, ka manaʻo o ka hoʻokūkū no kāna nānā, ka hakakā ma waena o ka wahine a me ka makuahōnōwai i mea koʻikoʻi loa akā he mea ia e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hana - ma hope o nā mea āpau, he ʻohana ʻoe.