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- 1. E ʻae i kāu pakanā e like me lākou, i kā lākou ʻano kanaka kupaianaha āpau
- 2. E hoʻomanaʻo pehea ʻoe i hana ai i ka makahiki mua āu e aloha
- 3. E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa i kēlā me kēia pule e kūkā maoli
- 4. E mālama i nā mea seksi
- 5. E hoʻomau i ka moekolohe ma kāu radar
- 6. Hakaka hakakā
- 7. E kala mai
- 8. ʻohi nā hana liʻiliʻi o ke aloha i nā uku nui
- 9. ʻAʻohe pilina he 100% aloha a makemake nui i nā manawa āpau
- 10. Aloha i kāu hoapili, a aloha pū kekahi iā ʻoe iho
ʻO ka hōʻoia ʻana i kou pilina e noho maikaʻi ʻo ia ka proactive e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i nā mea hauʻoli, olakino, a me nā mea hoʻonāukiuki. ʻO nā kāne e nānā ʻole i ka hana e pono ai e mālama i ka hunaahi a me ke kuko i maʻalahi maʻalahi i ka makahiki mua hiki ke hoʻokau i ko lākou pilina ma ka hāʻule ʻana i kahi hana maʻamau. Mai hoʻokuʻu i kēlā i kāu pilina!
No laila, he aha nā mea nui he ʻumi i ka pilina e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻolohe a no laila e noho hou, pili a hoihoi ka pilina.
1. E ʻae i kāu pakanā e like me lākou, i kā lākou ʻano kanaka kupaianaha āpau
Aia kahi manawa i kēlā me kēia pilina kahi e pīhoihoi ai nā quirks āpau āu i ʻike ai i kou makahiki mua o ka noho aloha ʻana. ʻO ke ala a lākou e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai i ko lākou ʻāʻī a i ʻole e hoʻolaha paha kā lākou pata i ka "pēlā" ma kā lākou ʻāpana o ka toast, a pehea hoʻi e kau ai i kā lākou lole ma ka ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole pili pono i kā lākou salakeke.
ʻO ka ʻae ʻana i kēia mau mea nui no ka pilina lōʻihi. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi, akā lana ka manaʻo ʻo nā mea kupaianaha āpau e pili ana i kāu hoa ma mua o ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, a i ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻoe pū me lākou, ʻeā?
No laila ke hoʻomaka nei kāu hoa e hōʻike iā ʻoe i ke ʻano o ke kanaka, e aloha mau iā lākou me ka ʻole.
2. E hoʻomanaʻo pehea ʻoe i hana ai i ka makahiki mua āu e aloha
E lawe i kahi haʻawina mai ia a hoʻohui i kekahi o kēlā mau ʻano hana hoʻopunipuni i kāu mau pilina me kāu hoa. Inā maʻa ʻoe i ka heʻe ʻana i ka sweats a me kahi pālule T-kahiko o ke kulanui i ka manawa e hoʻi ai ʻoe i ka home mai ka hana, e noʻonoʻo ʻelua e pili ana i kēlā.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoluʻolu. Akā ʻaʻole anei he mea maikaʻi no kāu hoa e hoʻi mai i ka home i ke kanaka āu i loko o nā mahina mua o ka pili?
ʻO kahi lole hoʻoluʻu, nā mea hoʻonani nani, kahi spritz o nā mea ʻala maikaʻi? ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo e pono ʻoe e lilo i Wahine Stepford, akā ʻo ka hoʻomāhuahua ʻana iā ʻoe iho e hoʻomaikaʻi ai iā ʻoe iho e hōʻike iā ʻoe iho a hōʻike i kāu hoa aloha iā ʻoe e pili ana i kāna ʻike iā ʻoe pū kekahi.
I ka manawa hea kou manawa i hele ai i kahi lā kūikawā e like me ke ahiahi? Hoʻopaʻa i kahi hale ʻaina maikaʻi, kau i kahi lole ʻeleʻele liʻiliʻi, a hui me kāu pakanā ma laila, e like me ka wā o kou hui mua ʻana.
3. E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa i kēlā me kēia pule e kūkā maoli
ʻAe, kamaʻilio ʻolua e pili ana i kou lā ke ʻike ʻolua i kēlā me kēia ahiahi. ʻO ka pane maʻamau "Maikaʻi nā mea āpau." ʻAʻole kōkua kēlā e hoʻohui iā ʻoe ma kahi pae hohonu, ʻeā?
ʻO kekahi o nā kī i ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina maikaʻi he kamaʻilio maikaʻi, ke ʻano kahi e kūʻai ai i nā manaʻo, a i ʻole hana hou i ka honua, a i ʻole e hoʻolohe wale i nā manaʻo like ʻole, e ʻae nei i ka ʻike a ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kamaʻilio kūpono — e pili ana i ka politika, nā hanana o kēia manawa, a i ʻole ka puke wale nō āu e heluhelu nei - e hoʻokūpaʻa i kāu hoʻopaʻa a hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe i ka hoihoi a me ke akamai o kāu hoa.
4. E mālama i nā mea seksi
ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio i nā antics lumi moe ma aneʻi. (E hele koke mākou i kēlā mau manawa!). Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a pau i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e mālama i nā mea seksi (a hooki i ka hana ʻana i nā mea unsexy) i loko o ka pilina.
Lawe i kahi kihi mai nā wahine wahine Palani, ka mea i ʻike ʻole i kā lākou hoapili iā lākou e palaki ana i ko lākou mau niho. Nā mea maikaʻi ʻole a nā kāne e hana ai no ka mea ua "hala i ka wā hoʻāʻo", e like me ka hele ākea ʻana o ke kinoea, a i ʻole ke ʻoki ʻana i ko lākou mau manamana lima i ka nānā ʻana i ke kīwī? Unsexy.
Maikaʻi maikaʻi a maikaʻi maoli no kahi pilina iā ʻoe e hana i kekahi mau mea i kahi pilikino.
5. E hoʻomau i ka moekolohe ma kāu radar
Inā e emi ana ka wahine a ʻaʻohe paha, e nīnau iā ʻoukou iho no ke aha? Aia paha he kumu kūpono kūpono no ka nele o ke aloha.
Akā inā ʻaʻohe kumu kikoʻī no ke aha he mau makahiki mai ka wā o ʻolua i hana ai i ka boogie ākea, e hoʻolohe. Hōʻike nā kāne hauʻoli hauʻoli lākou i ka moekolohe i mea nui. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe a ʻē aʻe paha i ke ʻano o ka naʻau, hana mau lākou i mea e pelu a hoʻopā - a he hopena pinepine ia i ke aloha.
ʻO ka pilina pili loa i hāʻawi ʻia e ke aloha aloha i mea nui i ke olakino o kāu pilina no laila mai hele lōʻihi ʻole me ka ʻole. Inā pono ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i ka moekolohe ma ka kalena, pēlā nō.
6. Hakaka hakakā
Hakaka nā kāne nui, akā hakakā maikaʻi lākou. He aha kēlā manaʻo? Hāʻawi lākou i ka manawa lewa i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua, e ʻae ana i kēlā me kēia kanaka e hōʻike i ko lākou manaʻo a me ko lākou manaʻo. ʻAʻole lākou e ālai, a hoʻolohe pono lākou, e hōʻike ana i kēia ma ke kunou ʻana a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua maopopo iaʻu ka mea āu e ʻōlelo nei. ʻO kā lākou pahuhopu ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kuikahi a i ʻole ka hoʻonā ʻana i ʻae ʻia, kahi e ʻae ʻia i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
ʻAʻole kā lākou pahuhopu e hōʻino i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, a i ʻole lawe mai i nā hoʻopiʻi i hala, a i ʻole ʻōlelo hōʻino ʻole iā lākou. A mai kuhihewa i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ʻaʻole pili ka hakakā i kahi pilina nui.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hakakā, maopopo leʻa ʻaʻole lawa ka kamaʻilio ʻana.
7. E kala mai
Maopopo iā ʻoe ka mana o nā huaʻōlelo ʻelua “E kala mai” ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea hoʻōla nui loa o ka honua? E lokomaikaʻi me kāu mau "E kala mai". ʻO ka mea pinepine wale nō ka mea e hoʻopau ai i kahi paio huhū mai ka piʻi ʻana. He mana pū kekahi e hoʻokokoke aku iā ʻoe.
Mai ukali iā ia me kahi “akā .....” e kala mai iaʻu, ua lawa nā mea āpau.
8. ʻohi nā hana liʻiliʻi o ke aloha i nā uku nui
ʻOiai inā ʻoe i hui pū no 25 mau makahiki, nui nā hōʻailona liʻiliʻi o kou mahalo i kāu hoa.
ʻO kekahi mau pua, nā kanakē punahele, kahi kūpeʻe lima āu i ʻike ai ma ka mākeke ʻo Farmer ... ʻo kēia mau makana āpau e haʻi aku ai i kāu hoa pili i kou manaʻo i kēlā manawa a mahalo nui i ko lākou alo i kou ola.
9. ʻAʻohe pilina he 100% aloha a makemake nui i nā manawa āpau
He mea nui ia e kūpono e pili ana i nā ʻeka a e kahe ana i kahi pilina a lele ʻole i ka moku i ka manawa mua (a i ʻole 50th) i kou manawa i kekahi o nā wā haʻahaʻa. Ma aneʻi kahi e hana ai ka hana maoli o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kou aloha.
10. Aloha i kāu hoapili, a aloha pū kekahi iā ʻoe iho
Hana ʻia nā pilina maikaʻi, olakino e nā kānaka maikaʻi a olakino ʻelua. Mai holoi iā ʻoe iho e hoʻokipa i ka pilina, a i ʻole e hāʻule ia.
E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka mālama pilikino iā ʻoe iho a hiki i kahi manawa āpau no kāu hoa, i ka noʻonoʻo, ke kino, a me ka ʻuhane.
Ke haʻohaʻo nei, he aha nā mea nui he ʻumi i ka pilina? ʻĀ! Loaʻa kāu pane.