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- Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka nele o ke aloha i kāu pilina, mai hopohopo
- Poina paha ʻoe e hōʻike i ke aloha no kēlā kanaka kou pōhaku
- Hiki i ka huhū ke lilo i mea pepehi kanaka maoli
- ʻO kahi huna iki - hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i kāu hoa me ka hōʻike ʻole o ke aloha
- E ʻike he aha kāu mau ipo aloha
ʻAʻole hana ʻia i ka pō hoʻokahi. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hala ka makahiki i kekahi mau makahiki. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e nānā ke hana nei ia a hiki i kou ala ʻana a noʻonoʻo i ka mea i hana ʻia. I kekahi lā ke nānā aku ʻoe i kāu pakanā a ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mea: ke noho nei ʻoe e like me nā hoa noho ma mua o nā hoa aloha. I hea i hele aku ai ke aloha?
Inā like ʻoe me ka hapa nui o nā kāne i nā male lōʻihi, ʻokoʻa loa nā lā mua o kāu male ʻana mai nā hana maʻamau o kēia lā. I kou mau lā hou, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kali no ka hoʻi ʻana i ka home. ʻO kou mau pō a me nā hopena pule i ʻike nui i ke aloha aloha, ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia nā honi, nā ʻapo a me ka pili kino. Akā i ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, ua emi ka hanky-panky a me nā memo aloha, a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā papa inoa "honey do" a hele ka maka ʻaoʻao ʻaʻole i lawe ʻia nā ʻōpala me kāu noi ʻole.
Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka nele o ke aloha i kāu pilina, mai hopohopo
Nui nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻihoʻi i ka sparkle i nā maka o kekahi, a hoʻonui i ka aloha ma waena ou. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kou ola male e like me kahi noho nohona like, e hele i kēia. E hana kākou i ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana mai i ke aloha!
ʻO ke "no ke aha" ma hope o ka emi ʻana o ke aloha i kahi pilina. ʻAʻole paʻakikī e kuhikuhi i ke kumu e iho ai ke aloha i nā pili lōʻihi. ʻO ka hapa nui ma muli o nā hanana ola ʻē aʻe e hoʻokūkū ana me ka manawa o ka mau kāne no ke aloha. Nā mea e like me ka ulu ʻana o ka ʻohana, a i ʻole nā hoʻokō ʻoihana, nā pono o ka ʻohana (nā makuahōnōwai, nā mākua ʻelemakule, nā lālā o ka ʻohana maʻi), kou pōʻai kaiāulu (pō pāʻani me nā hoanoho, nā hana haipule), nā pono kula o kāu poʻe keiki (hana home, hana manawaleʻa i ka lumi papa. , ke hele pū nei me ka papa ma nā huakaʻi hele kula). Pau ʻole ka papa inoa a ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha no ka mea aia he manawa liʻiliʻi i koe nāu a me kāu hoa e hoʻolilo ai i ke aloha pū.
Poina paha ʻoe e hōʻike i ke aloha no kēlā kanaka kou pōhaku
Aia kekahi nīnau no ka maʻamau. Ke neʻe nei kāu male i mua, he kūlohelohe ia no kahi hana maʻamau e hoʻonoho iā ia iho a maliʻa paha hoʻomaka ʻoe e lawe i kekahi i kekahi no ka mea i hāʻawi ʻia. ʻO ka ʻāpana maikaʻi o kēlā ʻike ʻoe he kanaka āu e hiki ai ke hilinaʻi i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka ʻāpana maikaʻi ʻole o ia mea poina iā ʻoe e hōʻike i ke aloha a me ka mahalo no kēlā kanaka kou pōhaku. Hiki i kāu pilina ke komo i kahi rut, ʻoiai ʻoe e pili pono i kahi hana maʻamau e hoʻopau ai i nā mea āpau. Me ka manaʻo ʻole ʻole a pūʻiwa paha, ʻike paha ʻoe ʻaʻohe kuko i koe, ʻaʻohe mea e like me kou wā ʻōpio i ka wā hou a pīhoihoi hoʻi nā mea āpau.
Hiki i ka huhū ke lilo i mea pepehi kanaka maoli
Hiki i ke aloha ke make ma muli o ka huhū i kāu hoa. ʻO ka huhū, hōʻike ʻole a hōʻike ʻia paha, hiki ke lilo i mea pepehi kanaka maoli. He paʻakikī e ʻike i ke aloha a me ke aloha e pili ana i kekahi e hoʻohoka mau nei iā ʻoe a i ʻole ke hana kūʻē nei iā ʻoe i ka ʻohana ikaika. He kūlana paʻakikī loa kēia no ka mālama ʻana o kahi kāne i kā lāua ponoʻī no laila ke ʻimi nei i kahi mea lapaʻau ʻohana he mea kōkua maanei e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻi i ke ala, hoʻokumu i nā ʻano kamaʻilio maikaʻi, a aʻo i ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea e huhū ai ʻoe i hiki i ka hoʻonā ke hoʻoholo. kū a hiki i nā manaʻo aloha ke hoʻi.
ʻO kahi huna iki - hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i kāu hoa me ka hōʻike ʻole o ke aloha
Hoʻohaohao paha iā ʻoe? Aia he mau miliona o nā kāne e pono ʻole i nā aloha aloha, nui a liʻiliʻi paha, e ʻike he aloha kā lākou pilina. Ke hilinaʻi nui nei lākou i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo e hāʻawi nei kā lākou pilina iā lākou me ke aloha. He manaʻo ikaika lākou aia kahi pilina aloha ma waena o lākou, a ʻaʻole lākou e koi i nā pua, nā ʻōlelo aloha a i nā kapa komo e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia. Mālama maoli lākou i kekahi i kekahi. He ʻano mālie a kūpaʻa hoʻi kēia mau kāne a me kekahi i kekahi e hōʻike ana i kā lāua male. ʻAʻole paha he aloha aloha i kēlā me kēia lā, akā ʻoliʻoli lākou i ke kālepa ʻana i kēlā no ka mehana a me ka manaʻo aloha i loaʻa iā lākou i kā lākou pili. Ke ʻae nei kekahi i kekahi e like me lākou. ʻO nā kāne e ʻae i kekahi i kekahi i kā lākou ʻano kanaka āpau (hewa a me nā mea āpau!) Hiki ke aloha nui me ka ʻole o ka nui o nā moʻo aloha.
He laina kumu hauʻoli. Ke neʻe nei kēia mau kāne me kahi ʻano o ka hauʻoli mau e noho pū ana. Inā lākou e anuanu wale nei i ka lumi like a i ʻole ke hana ʻana i nā hale kūʻai, hauʻoli lākou, me ka pono ʻole o nā aloha pilali. Hoalohaloha. ʻAʻole paha e lanakila, ʻai a me ke aloha, akā aia mau ke ʻano o ka pilina a me "Aia wau i laila no ʻoe" me kēia mau kāne.
E ʻike he aha kāu mau ipo aloha
He mea nui iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kāu mau pono aloha i kāu pilina. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻāpana o ka hui e pono ʻole ai i kēlā me kēia lā o ke aloha e ʻike ai i ka waiwai a me ka palekana i kāu male ʻana. A i ʻole, makemake paha ʻoe e hana iki kāu ipo ma ka ʻaoʻao aloha o nā mea. Inā kēia ka hihia, e kamaʻilio me kāu wahine a kaʻana like i kāu mau pono me lākou. ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka piʻi ʻana o kahi pāʻani i ke keʻena aloha, me nā hoʻāʻo liʻiliʻi e hoʻihoʻi i kēlā aloha aloha mua. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo: ʻaʻole pono ke aloha i ke aloha maoli.
Nui a hewahewa nā kāne e hauʻoli i ka ʻauʻau ʻana me kekahi me nā hōʻailona pipiʻi o ke aloha, a ʻo ka mea hoʻi e haʻalele nei. ʻO ka mea nui ka maopopo o kāu ʻōlelo o ke aloha i kekahi i kekahi, a hāmama ʻoe i ka mea āu e pono ai i mea e ʻike ai i ka waiwai, aloha ʻia a mahalo ʻia e kāu hoa.