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- Hoʻomaopopo maʻalahi kahi makuahine
- Makemake ʻia nā makuahine akā ʻaʻohe kuleana kūikawā
- Pehea e lilo ai ka makuahine i kāna kuleana mālama keiki?
Loaʻa nā kuleana like o nā mākua ma luna o kā lākou keiki, no laila ʻaʻole i manaʻo pinepine ʻia ka makuahine e ʻoi aku nā kuleana mālama ma mua o ka makuakāne. Makemake ʻia nā makuwahine e aloha ʻia i kekahi ʻano. ʻO nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama keiki he paʻakikī ia e hoʻokahuli.
Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau mea i hiki ke hoʻopili i nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama ʻana o ke keiki ma kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. E hoʻokahuli i nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama ʻana o ke keiki ma laila kahi hakakā paʻakikī kū kānāwai.
Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kākoʻo keiki no nā makuahine-
Hoʻomaopopo maʻalahi kahi makuahine
I kekahi manawa, he ʻano nīnau paha ke ʻano o ka makuakāne o kahi keiki. Inā he ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hoahānau o ka makuahine ma mua o ka manawa o ka hāpai ʻana, pono paha kahi hoʻokolohua kūlohelohe e koho ai ʻo wai ka makuakāne. ʻAʻole paʻa mau kēlā. Inā mālama ke kāne a ka makuahine i ke keiki a ʻaʻohe ka makuakāne ola i ke kiʻi, a laila hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia ke kāne he makua kāne kū kānāwai ʻoiai inā he moʻolelo ʻokoʻa ka biologically.
Hōʻalo nā makuahine i kēia mau pilikia āpau, akā naʻe, no ka mea ʻo ka wahine nāna e hānau ke keiki ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia ka makuahine a hāʻawi ʻia i nā kuleana makua no nā makuahine. ʻAʻole hiki ke hōʻole ʻia nā kuleana o ka makuahine male i kāna keiki ke ʻole ʻo ia e mālama nui ʻole a hoʻokūkū kekahi i ka mālama. Hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama keiki inā loaʻa nā hōʻike o ka hoʻomāinoino iā ia i ke keiki.
Makemake ʻia nā makuahine akā ʻaʻohe kuleana kūikawā
A hiki i kēia manawa, makemake nui nā ʻaha i nā makuwahine i nā hoʻonohonoho mālama. Aia kekahi manaʻo he mea nui ka mālama ʻana o ka makuahine i kahi keiki. I kēia lā, nānā ka ʻaha i ka pono maikaʻi o ke keiki a pono lākou e hoʻoholo ma muli o ka papa inoa o nā mea i kau ʻia i loko o ke kānāwai.
ʻO ke kānāwai ma Virginia kahi hiʻohiʻona kūpono e nānā ai, no ka mea hāʻawi ia i ka luna kānāwai i kahi papa inoa o nā mea e pono ai e hoʻohana e hoʻoholo ai pehea e waiho ai ka mālama a me ke kipa. Pono ka luna kānāwai e nānā i ka makahiki a me ke kūlana noʻonoʻo o ke keiki a me nā mākua. Eia kekahi, pono e noʻonoʻo ka luna kānāwai i nā pono o ke keiki a pehea e hoʻokō ai kēlā me kēia mākua i kēlā mau pono, e noʻonoʻo ana i nā pilina o kēia manawa ma waena o ke keiki a me kēlā me kēia makua a pehea e loli ai kēlā mau pilina i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
E noʻonoʻo pono ʻia kekahi mōʻaukala o ka hoʻomāinoino, a pono ka luna kānāwai e hoʻolohe i ke keiki inā maopopo iā ia ka mea e hana nei a he makemake kāna. Hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama keiki ʻana e kēlā.
ʻAʻole pili wale nā kuleana mālama keiki no nā makuahine. ʻAʻole i aloha nui ʻia ka makuahine i kekahi o kēia mau kumu, akā i kekahi manawa hiki i nā makuahine ke loaʻa kahi maikaʻi i kekahi o nā kumu. ʻO ka mea kikoʻī, i nā hoʻonohonoho ʻohana kuʻuna nui e hoʻohala nui ka makuahine i ka manawa ma ka home, a hiki i ka makuahine ke kokoke loa i ke keiki. ʻAʻole hiki i nā makuahine ke hana hoʻomāinoino. ʻAʻole kū hoʻokahi nā kuleana o ka makuahine i kāna keiki, na ke kaua kū kānāwai e hoʻoholo i kēlā.
Pehea e lilo ai ka makuahine i kāna kuleana mālama keiki?
Hiki i nā mākua a me nā makuakāne ke lilo i kā lākou kuleana makua ma nā ʻano like. ʻO ka mea mua, i kekahi mau ʻano, hiki iā lākou ke haʻalele i nā kuleana makua. ʻO ka mea maʻamau kēia ke hāʻawi ka makua kāne ʻaʻole kokoke i ke keiki i ka mālama ʻana e ʻae i ke kāne hou a ka makuahine (stepdad a ke keiki) e lawe i ke keiki.
Hiki i kahi makuahine ke hāʻawi i nā kuleana mālama o kona makuahine i ke ala like, akā. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, lawe wale ʻia nā kuleana o ka mālama keiki ʻana no nā makuahine inā kūpono ʻole ka makuahine a mālama ʻole a hoʻomāinoino paha i kāna mau keiki. ʻOiai ma laila, he hana kūpono ka makuahine a nānā ʻia kona kūlana i ka ʻaha a he mea nui ʻole ka ka ʻaha e lawe piha loa i nā kuleana o ka makuahine i ka mālama keiki.