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- ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua manawa mua
- ʻ tipslelo aʻoaʻo pēpē no nā mākua hou
- Hāʻule nā mākua āpau
- ʻLelo aʻoaʻo no nā makuahine mua
- Rula 1. E hana mau i ka manawa no kāu pilina
- Rula 2. E hoʻolālā pū i kou manawa
- Rula 3. E hoʻolālā i kou manawa ma kahi kaʻawale
- Rula 4. E hoʻomōhala i ka pili aloha a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana
- Rula 5. Moekolohe
ʻAʻole mākaukau pinepine nā mākua hou no nā loli nui a ke ola ʻohana e lawe ai i kā lākou pilina. ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mua no nā mākua hou ʻo ia ka hana nui ʻana o ka hānai keiki, a ʻo ka lilo o ka ikehu e waiho iki i ka manawa no ka makuahine a me ka makua.
ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua manawa mua
E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻohe keiki hānau ʻia me kahi manual kuhikuhi.
Lōʻihi loa ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i nā pono o kāu keiki. I kekahi manawa, lele wale nā mākua hou a nalu i nā hae keʻokeʻo.
He ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi no nā mākua hou ʻaʻole e hele i lalo me nā kuleana piling. O ia maʻamau maʻamau no nā mākua o ka manawa mua e huhū, hoʻonāukiuki a huhū hoʻi.
Pono lākou e hāʻawi a lawe i ka hanu i kēlā me kēia manawa ke koi ka manawa.
ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻoi maikaʻi loa no nā mākua hou ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho ma ke ʻano he moʻopuna a kekahi wahine nui a wahine nui hoʻi!
E ʻimi i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo a nā mākua hou mai kāu ʻoihana i hōʻoia ʻia a i ʻole kou mau mākua, hoaaloha, ʻoluʻolu a me kou mau makuahōnōwai, ma hope o nā mea āpau, ua makua lākou i kāu wahine, me ka mea āu i hoʻoholo ai e hoʻolilo i kou ola holoʻokoʻa.
ʻ tipslelo aʻoaʻo pēpē no nā mākua hou
Noho i nā lā hānai a i ʻole nā mea noho pēpē a i ʻole nā kōkua kūwaho ke manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana āpau iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi manual pono e hiki ke holo iā ʻoe ma o ka makua a wehewehe i nā mea āpau e pono ai nā mākua no ka mea he kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia makua a me nā pilina keiki.
Hāʻule nā mākua āpau
ʻIke kēlā me kēia mākua hou i nā pilikia ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i loea i ka wanana ʻana 'he aha nā mākua hou e pono ai'.
Eia kekahi, inā manaʻo ʻoe he makua nui ʻoe a hiki ke hoʻokele pono i nā mea āpau, i kou hopohopo, hiki nō iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā manawa ke hoʻomaopopo ʻole kāu keiki iā ʻoe a mahalo i nā hana puʻuwai āu e hoʻokomo nei.
Hiki i kāu keiki ke hele mai me kahi makemake e makemake lākou i nā mākua hou!
No laila kekahi, ʻōlelo aʻo pēpē kūpono no nā mākua hou ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu i kou honua holoʻokoʻa a puni kāu pēpē.
ʻAʻole ʻo pēpē kou ola, akā he ʻāpana o kou ola a hōʻole ʻole i kahi mea nui loa.
Paipai ʻia e nā therapists a me nā loea e hāʻawi i kāu nānā i ka ʻole i kāu pēpē a mai lawe i kāu hana i ka home. I ka manawa like, he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui no nā mākua mua ʻaʻole e hooki i ka noho ʻana i ko lākou ola.
He ʻāpana koʻikoʻi loa ia no nā mākua hou e ola i ke ola e like me ka hourglass.
E like me ka hourglass e ʻae ai i nā ʻano one o ke one e kahe ma waena o ka paukū i kēlā me kēia manawa.
E hana wale me hoʻokahi hana i ka manawa ma mua o kou māka ʻana.
ʻLelo aʻoaʻo no nā makuahine mua
Lilo i makuahine ʻo ia ka ʻike nani loa no nā wahine.
I ka manawa like, hiki ke hoʻoweliweli loa i nā makuahine hou e nānā i loko o miliona o nā 'ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā makuahine hou me ka hānau hou' ma ka pūnaewele.
Me ka ʻimi ʻana i mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he miliona, e hilinaʻi nui nā makuahine hou a me nā makuakāne hou i kā lākou ʻano. ʻAʻohe puke a manual paha e hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi makua hou e lawelawe i kā lākou pēpē ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kā lākou iho.
I kēia manawa, ua pau mākou i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka makua no nā mākua hou, makemake paha ʻoe e ʻike, 'he aha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a nā mākua i ka male ʻana'.
Aia nā ala no nā kāne e mālama i ko lākou aloha ola a pale i nā ʻāpuna makua. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i nā lula 5 e hiki mai nei no nā mākua hou hiki ke hana maoli i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka hauʻoli a aloha ʻole paha.
E hoʻohana i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo a nā mākua e kōkua ai i kāu male.
Rula 1. E hana mau i ka manawa no kāu pilina
Me he mea lā maopopo, ʻeā?
Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā keiki ke lawe i kahi hōʻeuʻeu hou i kāu pilina e koi ai i kou manawa āpau a me kou ikaika. Ma ka liʻuliʻu, hiki i nā mākua ke ulu kaʻawale i kēia kaʻina hana.
ʻOiai inā ʻoe e kākau ia ma ka kalena a i ʻole papa inoa o ka hana, e ʻike pono iā ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa i kēlā me kēia lā i manaʻo ʻia no kāu hoa wale nō, ʻoiai inā he 5 mau minuke wale nō ka lōʻihi.
Rula 2. E hoʻolālā pū i kou manawa
ʻAʻole wale ʻoe e hōʻoia i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ka manawa maikaʻi, akā he aha ka mea āu e hana ai me kēlā manawa.
E mālama pono a hoʻolālā i nā hana like ʻole, e like me ka kuke ʻana a me ka hoʻomoʻa ʻana a i ʻole ka mahi ʻai ʻana.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolālā e hele i kahi lā e hoʻomanaʻo hou ai i kou mau hoʻomanaʻo aloha, e nānā i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole e hoʻokomo i kekahi mau haʻuki e loaʻa ai kahi hoʻomaha.
Rula 3. E hoʻolālā i kou manawa ma kahi kaʻawale
E like me ka manawa e pono ai kekahi i kekahi, pono nō hoʻi i manawa no ʻoukou. Hāʻawi i kāu hoa i ka makana o ke aloha ponoʻī.
Lawe i ka pēpē a i ʻole nā keiki ma waho, i hiki ai i kāu pakanā ke kau pū me kā lākou mau hoaaloha, i ka manawa mālie ma ke keʻena a i ʻole loaʻa ka lomilomi. E hoʻopiha ʻia lākou i kāu hana a hoʻi i ka hana maʻamau hou.
Rula 4. E hoʻomōhala i ka pili aloha a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana
Ua hōʻoia ka kamaʻilio maʻamau i mea nui i ka kūleʻa a me ka hauʻoli o ka male ma waena o ka poʻe me nā keiki. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio nui aku, a ʻo ka nui o kāu hana, ʻo ka ʻoi loa o kou maikaʻi.
E kamaʻilio paha nā mākua e pili ana i nā kula, ke kālā, ka halihali, a me nā papahana. Akā hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea pili ʻole i ka makua.
ʻO ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa e kaʻana like ai i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo me kekahi i kekahi e hoʻoikaika ai a mālama i ka hoʻopaʻa male ʻana ke hoʻomau ʻia i ka hala o ka manawa.
Rula 5. Moekolohe
Hōʻalo pinepine nā mākua hou i kā lākou moekolohe ke hele mai nā keiki. Loaʻa kēia i ka luhi, ke koʻikoʻi, a me nā loli ʻohana e like me ka "Family Bed Syndrome."
Paipai nui ʻia ʻaʻole e hoʻomaʻamaʻa nā mākua hou i kā lākou keiki e hiamoe me lākou, no ka mea, lilo ia i ʻano paʻakikī e haki.
Pono nā kāne male i ka manawa pili a pili a pili paha i ka moekolohe e hoʻoemi i ke kaumaha a mālama i ka huna ahi.