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- 1. He maʻi lele kona ikehu
- 2. Waiwai Waiwai
- 3. Nā mākau kamaʻilio maikaʻi loa
- 4. Ka hiki ke nānā i ka wā pōkole a me ka lōʻihi
- 5. ʻO nā loiloi kūpono a me nā hoʻomaikaʻi maoli
- 6. Maikaʻi ʻo ia i ka ʻohiʻohi ʻana i nā kaua
- 7. Hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻo ia akā me kahi ʻaoʻao pāʻani
- 8. Loaʻa ka lihi i nā mea kālepa male hauʻoli
ʻAʻole makemake nā poʻe āpau i ka male ʻana i kahi mea kālepa. ʻO ke kuhi ʻole ʻole o kā lākou papa kuhikuhi, ke ʻano o ka naʻau, ka hele mau ʻana a me nā pilikia kālā āpau e hiki ke kōkua i ka wāwahi mare. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, aia kekahi mau piʻi maikaʻi e hāʻule i ke aloha me kahi mea kālepa. Ke huhū nei ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole puni kāu kāne ke pono ʻoe iā ia, a ua hāʻule paha kāu hoʻolālā hoʻomaha no ka mea ua hele ākea kāna hui, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia.
1. He maʻi lele kona ikehu
ʻO nā mea kālepa kūleʻa a me nā mea makemake e lilo i pae kiʻekiʻe ikaika. Pono ia e kiʻi i ka hale hana manaʻo primed a hana. Ua ala ʻo CEO ʻo Apple ʻo Tim Cook ma 3:45 i kēlā me kēia kakahiaka, e wela ana me nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona iPhone aʻe. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo CEO ʻo Pepsi ʻo Indra Nooyi e hiamoe wale ʻo ia i 4 mau hola i kēlā me kēia pō; kekahi mea hou aʻe a manaʻo ʻo ia i ka liʻiliʻi o ka maikaʻi. Wahi a kā CEO Google, ʻo Marissa Mayer, ʻehā mau hola o ka hiamoe wale nō kāna e pono ai: ʻOiai ʻoe e pono i ka hiamoe ʻoi aku ma mua o kēia mau hōkū ʻoihana, ʻo ka male ʻana i kāu mea ʻoihana ikaika nui e ʻōpala iā ʻoe: ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ke kūlike i kāna wikiwiki a me ka manaʻo ma luna o ka honua ke maikaʻi nā mea nona.
2. Waiwai Waiwai
ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā e hiki i nā makana o ke kalepa kūleʻa ke hoʻokomo i ka waiwai nui. ʻAe, hiki ke makaʻala i ka lana ʻana o kahi hoʻomaka, akā ke paʻi ʻoe i ka jackpot, e loaʻa iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine ʻoihanaʻoihana i kahi ola ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka ʻoluʻolu. ʻAʻole hopohopo hou e pili ana i ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kēlā kālā kula nui no nā keiki; hiki i kou ʻohana ke kūkulu i kahi ʻēheu me kou inoa ma luna ma ke Kulanui ʻo Stanford, inā makemake ʻoe.
3. Nā mākau kamaʻilio maikaʻi loa
He mākau kamaʻilio maikaʻi kāu wahine kālepa, hoʻonani ʻia e ka hoʻomau ʻana i nā manaʻo a pono e hōʻoia i nā mea hoʻopukapuka i kā lākou waiwai. He waiwai kēia i ka male, kahi e kamaʻilio kūpono ai ke kī i ka mālama ʻana i ka hauʻoli a me ke olakino olakino. E haʻi mau ka mea kālepa iā ʻoe i kāna makemake a makemake ʻole paha; ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokau ʻia i ke kūlana o ka heluhelu ʻana i kona noʻonoʻo. E kālena ʻia ʻo ia i ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā drawbacks o kekahi papahana āu e noʻonoʻo nei. Ua kōkua kona mau makahiki o ke kūkulu ʻelike ʻana me kāna kime iā ia e lilo i hoa kamaʻilio maikaʻi me ʻoe.
4. Ka hiki ke nānā i ka wā pōkole a me ka lōʻihi
Hiki i kahi wahine ʻoihana ʻoihana ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā hopena āpau i nā hoʻolālā pōkole a me ka wā lōʻihi. Maikaʻi lākou i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi nui a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā hanana like ʻole no ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā pahuhopu. I kāu male ʻana, hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea kōkua ke noho pū ʻoe i lalo e loiloi i nā hoʻoholo e pili ana i ke ola e like me ke koho ʻana i kahi e noho ai a i ʻole nā aʻo a nā keiki a me nā hana extracurricular.
5. ʻO nā loiloi kūpono a me nā hoʻomaikaʻi maoli
ʻO ka wahine i maʻa i ka hana ʻana i kahi wahi hoʻomaka e ʻike he pono e hōʻike i nā loiloi i hāʻawi ʻia i kahi ala kōkua a me ke kūkulu. Ke hoʻomaikaʻi aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kāu hana, inā ma loko a ma waho paha o ka home, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike he mahalo piha ia. ʻIke ʻo ia i ka hana maikaʻi ke ʻike ʻo ia.
6. Maikaʻi ʻo ia i ka ʻohiʻohi ʻana i nā kaua
"Mai hoʻoluhi i nā mea liʻiliʻi," kahi manaʻo maʻamau i waena o nā mea kālepa. Nānā lākou i kahi kūlana a hiki ke zero-i koke i nā mea kūpono ke nānā aku a me nā mea ʻole. Nāu, kēia mea ʻaʻole e hoʻopau ʻia kou manawa e nā paio liʻiliʻi. Inā he nui nā kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio ʻia, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike he mea nui ia. ʻAʻole hoʻonele ka mea kālepa i ka manawa ma nā pilikia pili ʻole.
7. Hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻo ia akā me kahi ʻaoʻao pāʻani
Lawe kahi kāne wahine ʻoihana i kahi ʻano nui o ka hoʻonohonoho i kahi male. Pono lākou e hoʻonohonoho a hāʻule koke paha kā lākou papahana. Ua like paha kou ola male ʻana i kekahi manawa me nā helu ʻikepili ma ka papapala helu Excel, akā ʻike mau ʻoe ma hea ʻoe e kū nei. He ʻaoʻao pāʻani hoʻi nā mea kālepa i ko lākou ʻano. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēia i loko o kā lākou keʻena, i loaʻa nā hoops basketball, skateboards a me nā mea pāʻani "keiki" ʻē aʻe i hoʻopuehu ʻia i nā wahi āpau. ʻOiai ʻo kēia poʻe hana nui pono e leʻaleʻa i kekahi manawa!
8. Loaʻa ka lihi i nā mea kālepa male hauʻoli
Sure, haʻalele nā mea kālepa; i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, 30% o lākou he hemo male Me ka nānā nui ʻana i ka piʻi a me ka lalo o ka ʻoihana, ʻaʻole ia he mea e kahaha ai ke lawe i kahi ʻano wahine kūikawā e hoʻomau i ke kākoʻo ʻana i ka male. Akā koho ʻoe? 70% o nā mea kālepa i male, he nui me nā keiki. Hāʻawi i ka pilina aloha e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka papa e pono ai e moemoe nui. Ma hope o ka hapa nui o nā mea kālepa lanakila kahi male hauʻoli, kahi e ʻae iā lākou e palekana a aloha ʻia. ʻO kekahi o nā mea kālepa kaulana i hauʻoli i ka male lōʻihi
- ʻO Bill lāua ʻo Melinda Gates (24 mau makahiki)
- ʻO Sir Richard Branson (male i kāna wahine ʻelua 28 mau makahiki)
- Ua male ʻo Steve Jobs i ka wahine like i kona ola a pau
Ke hoʻomaka ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana o nā ʻaoʻao liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka male i kahi mea kālepa, maikaʻi e lawe mai i kahi papa inoa a hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea maikaʻi āpau o ka male ʻana i kāu wahine. He ola me nā piʻi a me nā lalo, akā kahi āu e makemake ʻole ai i kahi ala ʻē aʻe.